Premature ejaculation? Girls only

Ladies if you were dating a guy and he had a PE problem but could eat you out very well and get you off that way, is the PE still a problem.
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And when is say PE I mean really short time. Is there any way to fix this problem that you know of?
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  • I don't think PE is a problem in the beginning. It only becomes a problem if he isn't taking active steps to solve the issue. It isn't that you see him as a failure, it's that it starts to feel selfish.Even if you are willing to give her oral, she still wants to experience sex with you. Women like sex not just for the orgasm but because the guy holds you and you are close. You can't get that with just oral alone.

    There are a bunch of ways to deal with PE but I think the biggest thing is learning your arousal queues. Women who don't have orgasms have to do the same thing. You need to realize what level of arousal you are on a scale of 1 to 10. 10 being you ejaculating. The reason for this is cause guys have a point where they can't not ejaculate, no matter how much you don't want to. With PE you are rushing to that point. By the time you are having sex you are at like a 9 and that's why you are coming so quickly. You need to do stuff like masturbate and stop. Don't masturbate as fast you can. Start, when you get really aroused, stop, breathe, give it a few seconds till you can feel yourself calming down, then start again. Without stimulation or fantasy, your arousal will start to go down. You want to feel like you are at a 5 or 6 before you start again. Excited but not ready to explode. Then start again. Then stop again. I know it sounds frustrating but you are training your body from being a sprinter to a marathon runner.

    It's SO important you learn your levels cause then when you are with a woman you know when you are about to ejaculate and you can stop. When you stop, you can still kiss her so it isn't like "Coffee break!" But if you stop your stimulation, your body will calm down if you catch yourself before what's called "ejaculator inevitability." Once you calm down, start again. This is such a good method cause it teaches you to hold out longer and the longer naturally. Not by pinching the end of your penis or whatever other methods there are. It doesn't interrupt sex as much as prolongs it.

    Other things you can do is make sure she is very aroused before you start. Then it will cut the time in half that you have to actually have sex. So give her oral before you start, not after you cum. Kiss her and touch her before you start. Then she is really aroused and more likely to orgasm.

    Another thing you can try as a last resort is making a ring at the base of your balls and pulling them down when feel like you are close to cummng. A guys balls go up to his body the more aroused he gets and when you pull them away it sends a signal to his body he isn't ready to ejaculate. Like people who are into S&M, they have **** rings that also can go around the base of the guys testicles. The reason for that is it prevents him from ejaculating so they can do whatever they want and the guy won't come, like a torture kind of thing. Now I'm not suggesting you buy those cause I don't think it solves the problem. But my point is that it does work.

    • Every now and then it's like I can't come when having sex and I can go on forever. There's no alcohol involved. Do you know why this is?

    • I would guess you're either not turned on enough when you start, are completely distracted during, or aren't get the right stimulation. In order to come you have to be turned on, focus on what you are doing, and be aroused more and more through physical, visual, or mental stimulation during sex. So if it happens, I would say stop focusing on trying to come and get in a different position that feels better. Whether you are coming too early or taking forever to come, I think you are too

    • Focused on coming. So it's either pushing you over the edge too soon or you are never getting there. Orgasms require focus. Sex usually feels good enough to reign our focus in but if you are too stressed about performing, that's when you are going to have problems. That's true for men and women. You need to enjoy the moment more.

  • My fiancee suffered from PE ever since. The girl is there to support him and vice versa.
    At the beginning we had it the same, he made me feel really good with other ways but he took his situation more seriously than he should have. But we went through a long way and are engaged now.
    What helped him is the masturbation practicing (he focuses on lasting longer) and xperform spray :))
    But if a girl leaves you for that, then its a wrong girl.

  • it would be disappointing but if I am really into him I'm not gonna end it just because he gets excited too fast

Most Helpful Guy

  • Try this. www.amazon.com/.../B000NAZK3E

    Four sprays works well. Can't have her do oral though as it doesn't taste good, it is bitter. You will be a p*rn star with this. I don't want to leave a message for the others that have this issue on this thread because I can't do it as Anonymous. Pass it on as it may help them too. It was a life changer for me.

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  • No, it would probably dissapoint me as far as the sex is concerned, if he couldn't last that long. But it wouldn't be a deal breaker or anything.