Pretty sure I'm not pregnant but just need reassurance?

okay, so today me and my boyfriend decided to have sex, but he didn't have condoms. We both didn't have enough money to get some yet. But, he convinced me to have it with him anyway by saying "I'll only do a few strokes." And he did do a few, and just took it out. We both are STD/STI free but I'm kind of concerned about possibly being pregnant. He didn't cum in me, but I'm still kind of nervous.
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  • Its pretty unlikely as long as he was telling the truth and didn't actually cum inside. Did he cum after pulling out? If you saw him cum after then its pretty safe. Precum is proven to be sterile. There can only be risk if the prostate and seminal vesicles fire. That said, it's risky unless he knows his body well and can tell the difference to know when he is close to ejaculating so he can be out and clear. Pulling out is actually very effective for couples who are a little older and experienced. They both need to know each other's body well though. Your getting to know him and how he acts prior to ejaculation is helpful so you are also vigilant.

    • No he didn't cum at all because he only had a few strokes and it takes more for him to actually ejaculate. But thank you for the advice, I'll take note.

    • All the best to you :)

    • Thank you. c:

  • yea there's pretty much no chance you're pregnant. STDs is a different story. he might not know he has it and if he "convinces" every girl he sleeps with to have sex without condoms then you might wanna get checked out.
    also, don't have sex if you can't even afford condoms.

    • Thank you.

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  • If you're on birth control it's very unlikely, if not it could be possible (pre-cum has a small amount of sperm) but would also not be likely.

    • I'm not on birth control, but it's a day after my predicted ovulation day which is a low chance of becoming pregnant I think.

    • Oh no, ovulation is when the egg is released and could possibly connect with sperm, so during the ovulation period, there is a chance of pregnancy. I still say it's unlikely but if you wanted to be super safe, there is plan B or also if you get a hormone IUD (which is covered by medicaid if I'm not mistaken) it will prevent a pregnancy if you get it within a few days after the event and it will protect you for 3-12 years depending on the type.

    • a day after? thats one of the most fertile days. im sorry to be the one to say something like this, but even with the pullout method and ovulation cycle family planning/birth control, there is a chance that you could become pregnant

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  • Well from that moment it's a god's will =D

    • Thank you.

    • Sometimes it's a god's will even with condoms and pills so, don't panic. If you are "lucky" don't panic, the lord wants you to stick together.

    • There is no god.

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  • They give condoms away for free in loads of places.

    • I didn't even think about that during that time. I realized I probably made the wrong choice, but thank you.

  • hello stranger!
    i assure you that you're not pregnant.

    Happy?

    • Thank you.