i think guys like virgins because they are tight .
and to the bleeding question.. my first time, I bled . and after the sex I looked down at the blood and the guy I had it with must have saw the look on my face and he said 'dont worry, it happens to allot of people and its not the first time someones bled on me' then he just walked to the bathroom and washed his hands . . then we had a chat and I left . he didn't mind at alll, and I don't cling to him that much, I mean, at school I hug him but I don't usuallly sit with him in class or talk to him much, if I were a boy I think id get annoyed with someone clinging to me, but when you think being all over them is nessesary then go for it, because otherwise they might think you feel awkward around them and they may get sick of you not touching them anymore0 0 2 0your wrong on why they like them
I think most/many (i'd hate to say all of them because I still believe that there are smart modern guys) like virgins because they like to be the first ones to possess the girl ! The classical tribal mentality !
Some virgins bleed some don't, I bled alot, a lot alot. The guy I lost it to said oops and kept going. I litterally didn't talk to him again because he for possessive (like I have your virginity now your mine). It is nothing like the media makes it seem. It's awkward and doesn't really feel all that great.
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"Do they bleed a lot?" Depends. Some do, some don't.
"Is it gross?" I'm hard to gross out, so no.
"Do they get really clingy after?" Depends. If she has (orgasms = everlasting love) in her head, she's in trouble.
"Does it get annoying enough to the point that you would leave her?" Not annoying, erroneous. I don't love her, she doesn't love me--if she doesn't get that immediately, she needs some time to sort that out.
"Is it as good as "the media" makes it look?" Wouldn't know; the media always does sex badly, so I ignore it.
"What are the pros and cons of virgins?" No real pros or cons. They're partners like any other: they can be mature or immature, well- or badly-informed, generous or selfish. Depends on the individual.2 0 0 0Do they bleed alot? Some don't even bleed at all, The virgin girls I've been with bled a tiny bit, but nothing major. Is it gross? No, it's just blood, which is mostly water anyway, why would that be gross? Do they get clingy? No, sure we'd have sex quite abit from that point on, but that's curiousity and enjoyment. And no girl could annoy me if I'm dating her. Is it good? Meh, No different from sex with any other girl, other than confidence perhaps. She isn't tighter or anything, I've been with girls who were tight but not virgins and girls who were virgins but loose. Any guy that thinks otherwise is abit clueless.
6 0 0 0You seem like a good guy.. Not immature.
I'd say you may be surprised. :L
In a good or bad way?
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0 5Depends on the girl. Some bleed like crazy and it really hurts for them, others not so much at all. Same with the clingy part. I've had a couple of girls that wanted to date me forever after, others just moved on and took it in stride like a guy. For a guy, its kinda cool because you know you were her first and that's an honor knowing she will remember you for forever for taking it. "Tightness" is the same before or after in my opinion. However, the sex is normally not very good with virgins at first, it takes a while for them to learn and get comfortable.
1 0 0 0i would rather marry and have kids with a virgin because if I have to spend my life with a women and I'm expected not to cheat on her when she gets older and unattractive and for women that's around 30 then I would like to not have the mental images in my mind of her being with other men sucking their d***s getting cummed on swallowing come these are all things that if a girl has done I cannot dedicate my life to her I could be with her and have a relationship but no real plans for the future because we don't have a future not in the to death do us part sort of sense but the till I find something younger and hotter sort of sense
1 0 2 0So you're a virgin?
no I didn't say I demand a virgin I would just perfer one, if a girl has a sexual past but she has been celibate for several years then I can accept her if not then I would rather be single to be honest I am celibate and have been so for 3 years
But you're not a virgin?
Pros/cons of taking a girl's virginity?
Pros/cons of taking a boys' virginity?
When are a male and female are to lose their virginity? In the marriage between a husband and wife. Girls and boys need to respect each other virginity. The same goes for teens and adults.0 0 0 0Other pros is you know the girl is clean and doesn't have an STD
1 1 1 1Hate to break it to you, but it is easily possible to transmit many STDs without having intercourse, so "virginity" is absolutely no guarantee of being STD-free.
Pros:
They're... tighter, and you know that you're oh so special for having been chosen to do the task?
Cons:
Virgins are sexually reluctant and takes 2 years to finally have trust in you to start getting sexual.
Virgins bleed at first and it hurts them like hell, and I'm not all that fond of blood.
Virgins are unexperienced and there's a chance they have absolutely no idea wtf they're doing.
Virgins immediately become clingy and possessive of you afterward. (A natural reaction.)
And I'm sure there are a lot of other things that I forgot about. But the first con is the most annoying.1 1 2 0I don't agree with the first one, but I guess that depends on the girls age.
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