Proud and confident of your smaller penis

Are any of you guys out there proud and confident of your small penis? Confident that you are good in bed? Or do all guys with smaller penises have a low self esteem when it comes to sex. Come pn guys boost about your sexual skills ;)
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  • I am proud, confident and I love my size. I'll openly admit yes I have a small penis. I'm a little less than 5 inches but being in the small club isn't bad. My penis is perfect looking and fits perfectly in any woman I have been with and I have never not made a woman orgasm and most the mysterious squirt like across the room type and that is a serious orgasm.

    I thought I was average or above until one day a past girlfriend said your penis was the second smallest and it hurt and I had to drill my wife for days until she finally admitted it but also said she never even thought about me being small until I began the "insecure" what's wrong with me phase. She finally had enough and said honestly "YES, M*** you have a really small penis but it's my penis, it's beautiful looking and it's perfect for me. Your penis may be small but I guess I'm a f***ed up woman for liking small penis' because I wouldn't trade your tiny penis for anything".

    I know what you are thinking she was being nice. No, by this point my wife was pissed at me cutting myself down and this was the most honest she had ever been. My girlfriend who broke this news only did it because I asked and she said "don't get mad but yes you have a very small penis but trust me I loved it and still wish I could have it". Guys I'm not some porn star wannabe trust me but no matter how small you are you can always satisfy a woman. If you can't with your member you can in so many other ways.

    To "Asker" I think your boyfriend has a small or is and you want to know what to do or something right? Are you looking for advice or..:... My advice men with a penis on the small side will treat you ten times better in and out of bed and two this is for the guys too. Watching every girl deep throat my penis during oral is the best feeling in the world and trust me most girls will only give oral to men with small penis' so really be proud of your little one and know that just because some a**H*** with a big penis thinks he is the man his life sucks and most girls will look at the monster Dick because yes it's hot for them but when it comes to put it on in they always get the "sorry no entry" lol and we will always be allowed to enter every opening on a beautiful woman and they will love it but it begins with confidence.

    Good Luck!!!

  • I'm average although some will say that I'm small. It's my penis, and I enjoy playing with it because it feels good. If I can't satisfy a woman with it, then I'll use other methods.

    • Do you feel confident having sex? What are the other methods? Give people on here some advice, would you ;)

    • I'm gonig to do what I can to have a good time and where she can have a good time. I recently read, and agree that sexual experience is relative to making me and her feel good. If she is going to make fun of me, I'm going to put on my clothes, thank her for her time, and move on. They're finger play, tongue, clitoral stimulation. There are also methods like putting a small pillow underneath her; during the missionary position, I would penetrate her deeper, providing that bigger penis sensation.

    • Doggy style or lifting her legs over your shoulders also create a bigger penis sensation. And it is a lot about foreplay ;)

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  • So far, only one guy has come on here setting the facts straight about his penis size. I expected more.

    Anyway, THOSE are the ones to look out for as to whether or not they're good in the hay.

  • Honestly I've got a small one. Yes it affects my confidence because I know that I can struggle with certain sex positions and certain body types( usually larger ones) but I'm very confident in my sexual skills. I'm very open in the bedroom and I'm definitely not a selfish lover. Whenever I have sex I always make sure I pleasure the women first and give her what she wants.

  • I am confident in my ability to compensate using oral skills.

  • im 6 inches in length but only about 5 in width and I'm proud of it. I mean I know its not particulary what girls want. they usually want bigger. but I'm sure I can do a better job at pleasing them than a bigger guy would:plol

  • It's a bit below average and I do consider it small. Also I don't consider myself being "skilled" in bed whatsoever.
    But in a relationship, it becomes a none issue. I just don't think about it that often then. Obviously I am good enough for her (otherwise we would not be in a relationship), so why should I care much.

    Also, if it were a huge issue for her and she would crave better sex badly, I would allow her to fuck other guys.

  • If everyone said your ugly would you be confident... doesn't really add up... you can try but you'll always know deep down that your not desired

    Iv been around a lot a lot of women, friends, myself in general... a lot won't care if there in love, possibly... and some are just small in general so a smaller one is like big for them

    But for the average girl, it's actually slightly shove average, like 6-8 is the most desirable size for most women

  • Gotta love my small penis, yooo

    • Yes ya do. I actually got the wrong button. 3.5 close to 4. That are I’m shrinking lol

  • In case you didn't know...There is small, medium, large, and X Large. No matter what size I had, you would still get orgasms.

  • im fine with my body and i think my size is perfect for me. it looks good on my body, i like looking a little androgynous and that fits my look. i love how i look naked. i love that my genitals are dainty and lovely looking. so yes, i am proud and confident.

    what i dont like is how im TREATED by women because of it. its like when we start hanging out im a person, and after the pants come off im IMMEDIATELY a kleenex. im disposable and not good enough and that body part negates every other good quality of mine. im not a human being anymore and thus i dont have to be treated like one. sometimes it seems like there's no woman in the world who will ever accept me. so yes there's a little insecurity about how my humanity is viewed.

  • I'm proud and confident of my penis size. It's barley 4.5 inches erect and 3 inches in girth. And my balls are proportional so I don't know why people are hung up on it. I've never tried to hide it literally or figuratively.

  • im proud and i have 1 inch

  • I am 3.5 inches errect and I let it ruin my life, I am still a virgin and am 43 years old. Even thinking about getting with a woman freaks me out. I have been in therapy for 2 yers now and itbhasn't helped one bit. I have nomclue how any small guy could have confidence or self esteem. I would rather die than drop my pants in front of a girl. At the same time i am always miserable and depressed because of it ( hence the therapy hoping one day I may be able to at least try) .

  • Yes I'm very proud of it. Mine is somehow short 3.9" and thick. It helps me explore the joys of self-pleasure mostly.

  • Proud and confident of your smaller penis

    Yes

  • My penis is average one but I'm proud of it and could show it to my girlfriend without any complex...👌

  • I try to be confident but I can't lie I'm defiantly bothered by having a smaller than average penis. I guess what makes it hard to one hundred percent get over it is due to the fact that black men have such a strong stereotypes for having a large one and I don't. Basically no matter where I go I'm reminded I'm not the norm when I know I'm the norm for myself.

  • So first define what's a small penis?

    • Whatever you feel is a small penis. So if you feel you have a smaller than average penis. Do you still feel confident about it :) I think it is a very personal perception of a small penis and one that guys generally inflict on themselves.

  • I hate my penis because women have made me hate it...

  • Why are you asking this question?

    • Because there are so many questions from guys that are worried about their size. And instead of us girls answering the same question over and over again, telling guys that size really doesn't matter, I thought it would be interesting to open a debate. And see if any guys with a small penis are happy and confident with their size. And what makes them confident. just looking at things from a new perspective.

    • I honestly believe that you're trying to help, but look at the responses you've gotten so far. Not good. You don't understand how men feel about their penises, and your ignorance is coming across as condescending and taunting. It's like a guy coming on here and saying "any girls out there proud to be ugly?" I know you don't see it that way, but you're not helping anyone, so just leave it alone lol. These weren't the responses you expected are they?

    • No not really. And it is sad. But yes I guess I don't know how it is to be a man and I can't understand the relationship you have with your penises. I am sorry if I came across as condescending and taunting. Not my intention :(

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  • why would any guy be proud of their smaller penis?

    • Maybe not of their penis. But the fact that because they are less well endowed, the put more effort into sex, and actually have better techniques, than bigger guys

    • yeah but bigger guys can develop technique and be better than them

    • Yes. But a lot of them don't bother. Because they think that size is all that matters. And that because they are big, sex will be enjoyable. And sometimes really big guys don't realize they can actually hurt the girl if they hit her to hard and fast. They need to be careful, not to hit her cervix and it can actually take away part of the fun.

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