Queefing everytime during sex? Is this a sign of a loose vagina?

[Anonymous]

Everytime my boyfriend and I have sex anymore, I queef. It doesn't matter what position we're in. In missionary it happens less, but it still happens. It happens at least once or twice everytime I ride him. And it doesn't happen during sex in doggy style, but after he pulls out, It's really loud and I can't fucking stop it.. it makes me feel like there's something wrong with my vaginal tone because I've been sexually active for 2 years now and the queefing everytime has just been recently. Don't get me wrong, it happened in the past, but not nearly as much as it happens now. What could be going on? I've been looking all over the internet. I know that queefs happen to all girls at some point but it shouldn't be happening everytime I have sex and certainly not in every position I try. I read online that it could be caused by weak pelvic floor and weak vaginal muscle tone.. could that be the problem or am I just looking into this too much? Please help me? Do any other girls queef everytime they have sex? Why is this happening to me? I try to do kegels everyday and even if I don't, I have regular sex and orgasms frequently which should help with muscles down there. What could be causing all this queefing during and after sex everytime?

[alrdyded]

Completely normal, completely natural, and absolutely freakin hot!!! If the two of you can't laugh it off and get completely turned on again by it then you have an issue. As long as you both enjoy each other and can satisfy each other's needs don't sweat it. If you feel the need to see the doctor, go ahead, but don't expect to hear anything different than what you already know. Your body just naturally acts that way, your old man should consider himself lucky in my book!!!

[Asker]

I know it's normal. And it doesn't affect my sex life. My boyfriend is aware of what it is and isn't bothered at all. But I'm just worried because it never really used to happen and now here recently, it happens all the time. What could've changed? Do you think my vagina feels looser to my boyfriend now than it used to? Sorry, I just read online that queefing during sex can be caused by weak pelvic floor or weak vaginal muscles. And it never happened to me before until recently and I've been sexually active for 2 years now. What could've changed? I'm still with the same guy I was with 2 years ago.

[alrdyded]

It's good you're being proactive. The kegels certainly can't hurt but I seriously doubt you 'feel' any different to your old man. As long as he gets his, I doubt he has any issue with how you feel. I'm not a doctor but my guess is in certain positions, and with the level of comfort the two of you share, your body is probably more relaxed and takes in air more now than it used to. If I were your old man I would suggest that your vagina need multiple daily inspections and plenty of oral interactions just to be on the safe side, lol ;)

[Massageman]

We know what causes it--- Air is trapped inside the vagina and is then forced out. When you are aroused, the vagina expands, enlarging the pocket available for trapping air making the queef more likely. Finger and hand play is more likely to introduce air into you as well. Since you are doing kegels rather regularly, your pelvic floor muscles should be in decent shape. Consider a trip to the OB-Gyn for a quick, painless exam of the condition of your muscles down under.

[Asker]

Queefing is normal, i get it. But I'm with the same guy who took my virginity two years ago and I only queefed occasionally back then. It's everytime now and I don't know why it happens so frequently now unless I've gotten loose?

[Massageman]

Sexual activity will loosen the vagina bit, a big bit if you've delivered a baby. That said, it would seem more logical from a physiological standpoint that the tight muscles would be more likely to push out the captured air in a single shot that you could hear. If the vagina is really loose, I would think that the air would do something more like seep out rather than come out in a loud, queefy burst.

[Asker]

Okay. That makes sense. I do kegels when i remember to. It's everyday, but it's close. And I have sex/orgasms pretty much everyday which supposedly helps exercise the muscles as well. But I didn't use to queef hardly at all. So does that mean that my vagina is better now or worse or do you think it still feels pretty much the same to my boyfriend now as it did?

[Asker]

*not everyday I meant to say

[Massageman]

It sounds like you are in good shape with an active sex life (many may secretly envy you), queefing and all! Maybe you are thinking soooooo much about it, that it makes you tense and you queef even MORE?

[Asker]

I don't know.. But I'm concerned woth the fact that it never used to happen beofre and now it happens all the time in every position and I'm with the same guy. I just read online that it could be caused by weak muscles down there.

[MORPHEUS_12]

I personally don't think there is anything wrong with your vagina. I am sure if this was available when I was your age I would probably question my vagina as well.

Anyway I think it's because your boyfriend is trying to fuck you like a jackhammer. It's pushing air in. I have had it happen to me that it actually caused very bad pain and cramps.

[Asker]

The thing is, I love getting fucked like that. I love it rough and the queefing along with rough sex was never an issue until here recently, which is why I think it's a problem with the space in my vagina..

[Bethany_21]

After I had sex w a black guy now every time my boyfriend has sex w me it queefs really loud but my boyfriend Is only 8inches, will I hate bein w my boyfriend. Now I haven't had a orgasm. I love donte first guy that made me cum lol It was so good I painted his big black dick white lol

[azzntittiz]

It is because air is getting inside. You can know if your vagina is loose just by inserting a finger inside yourself, come on now.

[Asker]

Yes queefing is normal, i get it. But I'm with the same guy that took my virginity two years ago and I didn't start queefing everytime we had sex until here recently. I. just read online that it happens more to girls woth a weak pelvic floor or weak vaginal muscles. And im only 18 and I do kegels and have sex/orgasms frequently. I just don't know what is causing the queefing everytime I have sex because I certainly didn't do this everytime I had sex a year or 2 ago.

[azzntittiz]

I think there's nothing wrong with you. I used to queef all the time with this one guy and there was so much friction between us during sex. You can feel if you were loose, you wouldn't feel anything and it wouldn't feel good your walls weren't in contact with his penis. It was because he was either doing something to let the air in, I really don't know. I was eighteen too.

[Asker]

Okay. Thank you. Maybe I'm just over thinking it.

[RetroAlpha]

Sex sometimes results in awkward thrust angles, etc. Air goes in; Air must come out.

The only thing wrong is that the sex was fun, but you got packed full of air.

[Asker]

Okay but this literally happens everytime I have sex and every position I do. Keep in mind that I've been with the same guy for 2 years. He took my virginity. And it was rare for me to queef up until here recently. I don't know what could going wrong with my vagina. I guess it feels loose to him..

[Repa33]

Nah. It just means air had gotten up there

[Lyndsielee666]

Sounds like he's just trapping air in there. It happens. If your worried start doing kegels.

[Asker]

If you would read my question, I clearly state that I do fucking kegels and have sex regularly and have orgasms frequently which should help with that. Does queefing all the time in every position mean that I feel loose on him? This never used to happen until recently.

[Lyndsielee666]

Lmfao no it doesn't mean you feel loose. Shit changing positions can do it. Do you change positions a lot?

[Asker]

No. It literally happens in just one position. And during doggy I feel relieved because I think I'm gonna have sex without a queef like it used to be, but then he pulls out and it sounds like a massive fucking fart and I can't stop it. It never used to happen and I'm with the same guy who took my virginity. It never used to happen. I've read online that it could be weak muscles but I dotn understand how I could have weak muscles at 18 when I'm literally dojng kegels and having sex regularly. It happens everytime now and it didn't use go ever happen. What is wrong with me?

[Lyndsielee666]

Have you been to a gynecologist yet? It sounds like your muscles are just adjusting to frequent sex but a gyno will be able to tell you if you pelvic floor is weak, which it shouldn't be because like you said you're young. Queefing in doggy is normal though. Also if his dick is going in an awkward angle or even slips out you'll queef. Has he told you if you feel loose?

[Asker]

Omg. I queef in EVERY POSITION. How many times must I say it? I queef in EVERY POSITION besides doggy actually. But I still queef after doggy just not during. In every other position, I queef during sex. I don't know what it could mean about my vagina.

[Lyndsielee666]

I read that lmfao I'm telling you. See a gyno, they can answer your questions better than a website. Yoire reading too much into it when its norma, your vagina isn't too big or your boyfriends dick would go soft. If you feel his dick inside of you then you're good. He goes fast and hard you're going to queef, it doesn't matter how big or small your vagina may be.

[Lyndsielee666]

Sorry about the typos. I'm half asleep.

[Asker]

Thank you for helping. Sorry I was rude. But is queefing supposed to happen literally everytime you have sex? And if im doing it so much now, why didn't it happen before? Why is this just a recent thing happening to me unless something in my vagina changed? And I would go to the doctor but I can't. I'm still on my mom and dad's insurance and they only want me to go to the doctor if I'm sick. We don't have the money for extra doctor bills if I'm not physically sick.

[TheyCallMeTayTay]

Lmao queefing? I'm fucking done with this entire dictionary of bullshit

[MistakeManager]

Don't worry, That's just air

[IrisBanks]

No no no. Queefing is caused my the buildup of air and/or liquids in the vagina that needs to be released. It's not a bad thing, maybe just uncomfortable. It's completely normal

[Asker]

Okay. But this is the only guy I've been with. He took my virginity two years ago and I only queefed very very rarely. Now, just here recently, I queef everytime during sex. In every position we try besides doggy. And even after doggy, I let out a huge queef after he pulls out. I literally can't stop it and it makes me feel like my vagina has gotten looser or maybe my muscle tone in my vagina is bad now despite doing kegels and frequent sex/orgasms.. What could be wrong with my vagina?

[IrisBanks]

Nothing it's working as it should!! To help or prevent it from happening is to lay on your stomach during changing positions and push out a little to queef before hand and also push while he is sticking in

[Asker]

But this never used to happen to me before. And im literally with the same guy. Why didn't it happen before and now it happens every time?

[Asker]

Was there soemthing wrong with my vagina before when I didn't queef? Or has it just gotten more loose now so the air build up is greater?

[IrisBanks]

It's not that you are loose, your guy is pushing air in when he thrusts and certain positions cause more queefing than others. As of before, the walls of your vagina were more constricting so less air was pushed in.

[Asker]

What do you mean more constricting? Does that mean that I felt tighter to him before then?

[IrisBanks]

Well of course your walls stretch but being loose is a different concept. I have been sleeping with my fiancee for 2 and a half years and I'm less tight when we started but still loose. As long as you don't do anything to stretch yourself much you won't become super loose.

[Asker]

So I probably felt better before to him? What am I queefing all the time now? I feel like my vagina is bad now.. could I be queefing bow because of weak muscles down there? I'm only 18..

[IrisBanks]

You're thinking into this too much lol I talked to my fiancee and he said my queefing is hot

[Asker]

I just don't know why I do it every time now when I didn't use to queef at all. Do you queef literally everytime you have sex? Because I do and I'm worried a out my vagina being less pleasurable to my guy because I'm worried it means that my vagina is big.

[IrisBanks]

Before during and after!!! It happens to every girl even in porn we just don't usually see or hear about it

[IrisBanks]

Talk to him about it

[Asker]

Yes but does it happen to you literally everytime you have sex though?

[IrisBanks]

Yes sometimes it's a lot sometimes it's a little but it happens everytime

[Asker]

Okay same with me. But I really don't know why this just started happening everytime during sex unless something in my vagina changed because I've been sexually active for 2 years now.

[Asker]

And queefing was soemthing I only did occasionally back then. But now it's everytime. I don't know why it just started happening everytime..

[IrisBanks]

It's a good change it doesn't mean anything bad

[Asker]

Why is it a good change? Does that mean that I didn't feel as good to him back then? I'm confused sorry.

[IrisBanks]

It's okay. Not at all it just means your bodies are adjusting together

[Asker]

So my vagina probably feels pretty much the same to him now as it used to?

[IrisBanks]

Yes it should

[Asker]

Okay. And starting to suddenly queef everytime during sex when it didn't use to happen isn't an indicator that my pelvic floor or vaginal muscles are weak? Because I read that somewhere and that's why I got freaked out.. It was on a doctors page and I thought that I could trust it. I don't know.

[IrisBanks]

Nope I wouldn't

[vald9inches]

that sounds sexy as hell to me! lol

[Anonymous]

Best answered by a gyno since we are not medical docs here.

[Asker]

You're right and if I had the option, I would much rather go to a doctor. But unfortunately, I'm still on my mom and dad's insurance and I can only go to the doctor when I'm physically sick because we dont have the money to go to the doctor unless we're actually sick.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sure it's nothing serious but I've wonder if its because your opening is just very stretched out.

[Massageman]

As far as I know, all medical insurance plans are now required to give women one ob-gyn exam a year plus mammograms or periodic basis.

[Anonymous]

Not loose but he probably is thicker than past guys and creates a better fit trapping air

[Asker]

he's really the only guy I've had sex with though. He took my virginity two years ago and I've queefed with him before, but it was pretty rare up until here recently and now it happens everytime we have sex. It happens during sex even.. I don't know what this could mean about my vag..

[Opinion Owner]

Then maybe you’re just adjusting to his size creating a better seal, it’s really no big deal and I doubt it bothers him, it may even stop one day on it’s own, peoples bodies change

[Asker]

So if I'm adjusting to his body and "creating a better seal", does that mean that I probably feel tight on him? I don't know what you mean by creating a better seal, I'm sorry.

[Opinion Owner]

In a way it probably does and he probably gets harder, so he probably just traps the air there until you’re done because of that

[Asker]

What do you mean "in a way?" Do I more than likely feel loose to him? And does queefing everytime mean that I could have bad vaginal muscle tone or weak pelvic floor like I read on the internet?

[Asker]

Does that mean I felt loose to him before I adjusted to his size?

[Opinion Owner]

Only he can answer that but then he would be taking longer to climax if that was the case

[Asker]

And it doesn't just happen after we're done. It happens literally during sex sometimes. I don't get what you're saying.

[Asker]

What do you mean "in a way"? Why the hell am I queefing and does this have anything to do with a weak vaginal muscle tone or a weak pelvic floor? I guess I feel loose to him..

[Asker]

It happens during and after sex now. Everytime. I feel like it means something bad about my vagina. And this didn't use to happen so much..

[Opinion Owner]

It’s just happening and there is no exact answer but if the sex is good then I wouldn’t worry so much about it. Maybe visit a gynecologist to see if anything has changed inside you there, it’s always good to get a check up anyway

[Asker]

And last year when I didn't queef, he almost never came during sex. He blamed it on masturbating and watching porn a lot. But maybe it was because my vagina was too big for him..

[Asker]

Omg. What do you mean by creating a better seal? Was I not tight enough when I didn't queef and why doesn't happen everytime now? You're confusing me pretty bad.. So I guess what I should take from this is that my vagina is or was loose therefore bad?

[Asker]

Does queefing everytime during sex mean that my muscles down there are weak?

[Opinion Owner]

He probably was just not getting that hard back then , don’t be so hard on your self, just enjoy it now and not worry about the noise

[Asker]

He has always been hard inside me. Please answer my questions..

[Asker]

Does queefing all the time like this mean that I have weak muscles there?

[Opinion Owner]

I’m trying to, it just means something has changed inside and yes it could be weaker muscles

[Asker]

So does my vagina feel looser on him then which is why I am queefing so much? I don't know how I have fucking weak muscles. I have sex, do kegels, and experience orgasms very frequently which should strengthen muscles..

[RetroAlpha]

I don't think it means anything at all. Try slower sex in a position that's less bendy for him, and it will stop. Once you realize that it's just physics, it'll be funny. Then the more vigorous sex can be renamed the Queef Challenge :) Make a game out of it. Maybe he can put on old Spaniard armor during foreplay be a Conqueeftador... I know. I should stop. I'm just saying - fast or intense sex = increased chances queefitude. No matter the woman. No matter the man.

[Asker]

@RetroAlpha okay but literally I'm with the same guy who. took my virginity two years ago. Queefing wasn't really a thing for me until here recently. I've read that it could be that my vagina is less tight now or that maybe I have weak pelvic floor muscles or bad vaginal tone. This happens to me every time during sex and I'm wondering If it's got soemthing to do woth my vagina. And if it does, then that means that my vagina feels less pleasurable to my guy now..