Questions about buttplugs and anal beads?

so lately my boyfriend got me a buttplug and a bead, I'm willing to have anal sex and I'm trying to prepare for it, so I've got a few questions. 1- Will the buttplug/anal bead increase the orgasm or "train" my anus if I put it in during vaginal sex? 2- will it make the anus a bit loose if I slept with the plug inserted? my boyfriends put its inside my anus and keeps it there overnight, and checks if it's still there in the morning. 3- does it take a while till he starts reaching my g-spot from inside the anus or does that depend on the position? Anyways, thank you all in advance.
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  • First off -- I LOVE that girls are out there sleeping with a plug in. That made my day. And so...

    1. It very well can. There are all sorts of diff combos -- You don't have to learn them all at once. YES -- a BP in during vag is a major orgasm enhancer for a lot of women. They even make vibrating BPs -- imagine that? And yes it is possible to train the anus to be as orgasmic as the front -- if not more in many cases. There is also anal with a rub of the front. Anal with a vibe on the front. And on and on. Take a breath, breathe deep, enjoy the journey as well as the destination. You are on a good path.

    2. It is not so much loose as -- better able to respond to stimulation and open when YOU want it to -- not only when it feels like it. The anus is more like -- You reach an understanding. With a vag, it is idiot proof. Insert. Move around. Repeat. With anal, there is hole lot more to learn -- but don't look at it that way. Just do some research -- try puckerup.com, anal advisor, etc. Also, in a mirror, try the anal kegel exercise of push out...hold it...push out...hold it. You should see anus "wink" in the mirror * O * O * O. Not only does this give you better strength in these muscles to grab his **** and milk it with no hands, but it makes UR O better with stronger muscles. How do you feel when he checks it in the morning? Who removes it?

    3. in my experience, totally depends on the position, angle and size of his penis, angle of your rectum, etc. In other words, if it is a perfect fit, you can g spot come on first anal. The FROGGY -- not doggy -- is what usually hits it. So you're on all fours, but head is down, ass is UP. He is standing above you -- like leap frog? He comes DOWN into ass this angle / instead of this ----- in regular doggy. Of course, you have to warm up first -- a LOT. You need to know to PUSH OUT as he pushes in. He eats butt till it is as wet as front or use lube, etc. BUTT -- when ready, I like her on the floor near the bed so I can put a hand on the bed to help steady myself. But when it REALLY gets going, he is almost spooning you -- but from above instead of you both being on your sides. The advantage is you can talk and kiss and see each other this way. Then he can go back to way above you and get LONG strokes. Remember, if you feel urge to pee as you start to O -- DONT clench off. You stop you're own O. Go WITH IT. Reach down and get some on fingers, taste it. You will see it is cum, not pee. A LOT can spurt out with a g-spot O. PUSH! Let it all out. It is actually good for you to ejaculate this as your sex organs have to produce more, which makes it easier to come more, etc. Let us know how it all works out!

  • 1) It's only to stretch the anus muscles so it is less likely to tear when he enters you.

    2) You will still have a tight anus.

    3) The position is probably key. I have my doubts if it will stimulate your g-spot so keep a vibrator for your clit around just in case. Adequate lube, relaxation, and communicating with your partner is great. Ensuring that the anal area is clean and the bowel is empty (for both aesthetics and practicality) is also advised.

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    • oh alright, though I heard after some practice the penis can easily hit the g-spot through anal, and I heard that the position also matters, oh and by the way, about the clit thing, does it help orgasm during anal?

    • Depends on his size and the position. Personally that's new for me and my ex wasn't keen on the idea of anal sex. I'm bigger than most guys and we failed to work up to it but she was very squeamish with anal play. Clit stimulation does help her get over most discomfort and she will orgasm only if she's comfortable. Just have some safe words to stop in case it's painful. Readjust the angle and try again. Good luck and be safe.

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  • For questions 1 & 2, Yes. I slept with my buttplug in when I first got it, now it is a lot easier to put a bead, dildo or d*** in. And for question 3, I actually don't know.

    • Even though I haven't had a d*** in there.

    • just another quick question if you don't mind, did it make any difference right after the first night you put it in?

    • My ass hurt a little but after the second night it just felt good.

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  • 1. Maybe, depends how you're wired. Try it. If it works, it works, if it doesn't, it doesn't.

    2. I don't think overnight training is necessary, but if that's your idea of fun, then go with it.

    3. Depends most of all whether you're using a g-spot vibe in the meantime. (You really should, if that's your thing.)

  • It'll make your arse looser that's for sure, prob tighten up again when you stop using it

  • 1. Yes.

    2. Yes.

    3. No. You cannot hit the g-spot during anal sex.

    Here is a link on anal sex: link

    • Wrong, anal penetration allows for g-spot simulation, aim right, and get the right angle, and you'll reach it.

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    • You misunderstand your own article. The g-spot can be stimulated during anal sex if the woman uses a toy or her fingers on her g-spot INSIDE HER VAGINA.

    • No,It's just that you didn't understand what I'm talking about, the article was posted for the question asker, not for you, the G-spot can be simulated through anal, if you aimed at the right angle, this has been already proven, the vaginal wall is very close to the anus, so yeah.

  • 1 - Yes it will loosen you're butt up

    2. - Of course, that's how it works

    3 - Try as you like, the anus was not designed for penetration

    Happy prolapsing!

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  • 1- Generally, yeah.

    2- I guess so, since you're keeping it there for a whole night.

    3- usually it depends, the g-spot is hard to locate wheter through vaginal or anal, though I'm pretty sure you can reach it through anal if you keep practicing, even if you don't reach it, you can still get decent orgasms.