Questions for guys who have touched girl's boobs...

First of all, is it a turn off if they're too small? I'm like a 34a and when I was making out with my boyfriend the hand went up the shirt and I was like really embarrassed because I have small boobs haha. Second, at what stage of the relationship is it OK to reach under her shirt while making out? I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a week and he's already got his hand under my shirt. I don't mind one bit! I am just wondering if that seems too quick?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It all comes down to personal preference. Some guys like big boobs, but just as many guys like small boobs. I like small boobs just as much as big ones, actually, sometimes better than big ones. But again, that is just personal preference, so don't ever feel embarrassed about the size of your boobs.

    As far as reaching up under the shirt, that's a personal preference of yours. I've been with women who are all over me in the first week and I've been with women who want to wait until marriage for everything. If you don't mind him feeling under your shirt and you're having fun and enjoying yourself, then I say go for it and enjoy yourself. Don't let society or your friends tell you how to have fun and what you should be doing.

    My only word of caution, stand by your limits. If he wants to do something you don't want to do or don't feel comfortable doing, then don't do it. And be safe and use protection.

  • I don't like big boobs, I like medium or small ones ( but not like extra small), your boobs are just fine and it's not a turn off not unless he loves big boobs. If you think it's too fast then it's too fast, you set the pace and if you feel like it's going too fast/slow then speed it up or slow it down.

Most Helpful Girls

  • That's the same size my boobs are. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he loves them. There is NOTHING wrong with having smaller breasts. Definitely nothing to be embarrassed of. You should never be ashamed or embarrassed of your own body. Everyone should love what they have.

    It's not too quick if it feels right to you. My boyfriend and I have taken our relationship very slowly. He didn't touch my boobs until after 5 or 6 months and we're still together 2.5 years later. But that's just what works for us. Do whatever feels right to YOU :)

  • I'm pretty small too...but I read somewhere recently that to men, no matter what size the breasts, are beautiful. Because it's foreign and different for them. And if he likes you, then he'll like your boobies :) now its just time for you to like them, too. if you're confident, anything can be beautiful

  • Why pray tell do you even bother wearing a bra? I literally laugh when I see an A cup. You do have small boobs but obviously this stupid ass is into that.

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  • I like small boobs and I love As & Bs...an no that would not be too quick for me...(:

  • 1: You're not too small at all, I wouldn't find yours a turnoff.
    2: As long as you're ready it's fine, for some girls it's almost immediate, other girls may wait a couple of months even. whatever feels right for you.

  • Dont worry about the size of them, lol. Most men would rather have nice shape smallerboobs than saggy big ones, lol. I know I would and women with smaller boobs usually have great asses and better physique. Its never to quick if you want him to, only if you regret it :-)

    • Down vote. Don't hate on girls with boobs we can have great athletic bodies too... >:(

    • im not hating on any1, I thought them arrows on the left, were to see new comments, lol. Sorry if I offended, if you got great big boobs and a fine ass body, obviously that is great 2 :-)

  • I bet you boobs are perfect! You have nothing to be embarrassed about. And no its not to quick if it feels right go for it.

  • "is it a turn off if they're too small?" No.

    "at what stage of the relationship is it OK to reach under her shirt while making out?"

    Whenever you're ready.

  • I think the first week is a bit fast but it depends on the kind of relationship you want to have with him.

    if you just want to make out and possibly have sex than I guess that's fine but if you want to have a long term boyfriend than it's too soon.

    to answer your other question I love small boobs. for me A cup to large B cup are more sexy than anything over a C.

  • No it's not a turn off. I've liked girls with small boobs before and their boobs attract me just like larger ones do. I like the girl and that makes me like her boobs no matter what she's working with. The time is right for feeling up the shirt when you feel like it's right.