Random guy on the street grabbed my ass!

[Anonymous]

I was walking home and passed by this guy. Fast forward a few minutes I hear footsteps behind me. He grabs my butt and gives it a full blown squeeze. I was so in shock that I didn't have time to smack him before he runs off with a 'i just wanted to feel that'. Question; wtf? Is wrong with men? When did it become socially acceptable to sexually harrass a stranger on the street? And has anything like this happened to other girls?

[StayUpGetDown]

lol @ the guy telling you to get over it. I mean, I guess at some point you need to move on but it sounds like he's trying to make it sound like it isn't an issue when it clearly is

sorry you had to encounter that disgusting disrespectful pig. And yeah I have been groped before. Mostly when I go out on weekends and to be honest I'm not too disturbed just because I understand the club dynamic but if its blatantly grabbing my ass or even my crotch (WHICH HAPPENS OFTEN BY THE WAY *BARF*) I definitely react to it. Its disgusting behavior . I don't know what makes people feel so entitled.

[dudeman]

if a guy grabs you ass on the dance floor that's just called dancing its not groping

[StayUpGetDown]

but the thing is its just me walking through the club, not even on the dance floor. I just said I realize the club dynamic but when I'm trying to leave and I have hands up my skirt or dress, its inappropriate.

[Asker]

Me neither. I'm just baffled that a grown men still grab at women and think its no big deal. Thanks for sharing though.

[StayUpGetDown]

and dudeman let me just add even when I'm out on the street I have people walking by and trying to cop a feel

[kgrrl2323]

yeah I was in an arcade and I was only 15 at the time. I was playing dance dance revolution and my sister said this guy was staring at my ass the whole time. after I got done, he walked up extremely close behind me and pinched my ass. I didn't want him to think that its okay to do that so really loud I yelled I should charge you, this milk ain't free. he left really fast after and I went on with my day. I don't get why guys would think its okay to do this to complete strangers. its creepy!

[Asker]

Sorry, to hear that. I'm glad you stood up for yourself though. And yes it is disturbing : (

[kgrrl2323]

yes it is. but not much you can do but learn from it and stand up for yourself if it happens again. best of luck to you!

[Anonymous]

yeah some guys are pricks. hopefully you won't run into him again

and no, I've never met him. but there was this guy in hs that would grab my shoulder whenever we pass each other and give it a squeeze. This happened a few times, no idea why or who he is

[Wolfstarking]

He grabbed your shoulder so what? That's not harrasment.

[taster]

It's not socially acceptable..at ALL!...I would consider that to be assault. I would never ever do that and I would not expect a strange female to do that to me...It is entirely a matter of respect...if she knew me she could probably do anything she wished..after all..I am a contact person. LOL! At LEAST introduce yourself before you lay hands on me...

[Asker]

Thanks. I don't get why guys DONT make a big deal about it when girls grab at them. I don't think their should be a double standard. Girls shouldn't grab at random guys either.

[taster]

Actually I don't think most guys do like it when strange females grab them..but I am not sure how many would admit it. Age is probably a factor..younger males probably won't mind as much as someone my age. I will post a Question for us...

[Asker]

I don't think guys like it either. Its just disrespectful no matter what sex you are.

[taster]

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[Joshua1992]

I don’t understand why girls take it the wrong way. It’s basically a compliment and shows that people recognize that you have a nice ass. I would like it if a girl came up to me and grabbed my balls.

[Ezmotts]

I've wanted to do that so many times, but I've controlled the impulse. That's really weird.

[fascination_streak]

I wish I knew what country you're from because in come cultures it's 'common." It seems to me that some guys lack social grace and respect. They don't think with the head God intended. This happened to me also...in Austria.

[fascination_streak]

oh btw...I wasn't dressed like a slut either.

[goflipaburger]

Happens to me all the time. You get used to it. You also get used to swearing at them as they run away.

Some people are awful, that's just life :(

[Asker]

True : (

[tohrment]

Yeah, it's a jackass move - but it's not a huge deal. Just whack their hand away, tell them to f*** off and continue with your day.

When me and my gfs were in Nice, France this group of kids (about 13-16 years old) came past and one smacked my girlfriend on the ass. I mean SMACKED, as in left a damn hand print on it. THAT warrants some drama, and even then my girlfriend just yelled some choice expletives (she was in shock, really).

[Asker]

Yeah, that was my same reaction.

[KarKingJack]

Lol, its not socially acceptable. He just touched your backside, though, get over it, man.

I saw a girl do the exact same thing to some guy the other day, in town, lolol. He was so f***ing baffled, he was lifting money, I think he thought she pickpocket him.

[kaviraaj]

really guys love to grab girls ass but not like that happened to you

i really like to grab my girls ass but not socially

[Snar87]

Yeah it's rude but still...

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I'm sure that was the look on his face.

[Asker]

lol I feel like I shouldn't laugh but that's actually funny.

[FierceMegan]

So sorry that happened to you. It happened to a friend of mine too, and she was so upset. There is nothing you can do about it because he ran, and no it is not socially acceptable.

[Asker]

Thanks.

[7121uc]

why do women make a deal about this. The other day I was at a club and this woman touch my butt. I didn't make a big deal out of it. I was just "whatever".

[Asker]

Because if we don't make a 'big deal' about it men will think its okay and continue to treat women like meaningless objects

[FierceMegan]

Women are trying to overcome years of abuse. Men aren't. That's why it is a big deal, and it is wrong! That woman shouldn't have touched you. Most women won't do that to a guy. Most men if they see another guy do it to a girl they will try to as well. Come one dude, be real with yourself.

[Asker]

Fiercemegan's completely right.

[Wolfstarking]

You are an idiot.

[dudeman]

well I think now more then ever women are sex symbols after the 2nd and 3rd wave of feminism which essentially gives men a free pass to view women as sex objects and treat them as suck, I don't think its right to grab a girls ass on the street but idiots do exist

[Anonymous]

I'm really sorry that this happened to you and I had something like this happen to me when I was 12, walking home from school. Some random guy grabbed my ass after telling me that he wanted to see my p***y and that he wanted to lick my legs after I said no when he asked for my number.

[Anonymous]

Just out of curiosity, do you have a nice round ass? were you wearing tight clothes at the moment

[Anonymous]

you should feel complemented in a way. Don't women like to attract and be hot. maybe you were too hot, that guy couldn't control himself.

[olivia23]

And this right here is why rape culture is a thing that exists in today's world. Let's say that a woman grabs your bals without your permission and then runs away, would you feel like you have been complemented. Somehow I don't think you would. I was 12 when the same thing happened to me and I am certain that I did not feel like had been complemented, instead I started to fear leaving the house and developed anxiety. So fuck you and your tiny fucking brain.

[Anonymous]

You have 3 choices:

1) Punch him in the face

2) Sue him for sexual harrassment

3) Let him get away with it & feel violated.

I suggest 1 & 2 :)

[Joshua1992]

Why would you waste time going to court and suing him? It’s not like she would get anything out of it and he didn’t technically harm her.

[Anonymous]

ive done this before when I was super wasted, I didn't even think about doing it I was just like grabbing an ass it was at a Halloween party and all the asses were hanging out of the shorts

[Anonymous]

Women are the lower life-form and they are here for our erotic enjoyment, we keep the world running so we deserve a bit of that ass and bit extra

[Asker]

Wow, I didn't know narrow minded people like you still existed. Hopefully your blessed with some clarity

[Anonymous]

Come on, no one is saying that's socially acceptable.

[Anonymous]

no never happened to me cause I don't look like a slut

[slipslender]

i am no slut and some a**hole slid his hand up my skirt on my way to work. what a baseless comment.

[KarKingJack]

You even trolled slip? F***ing God Tier, Anon.

[Asker]

Slipslender-im sorry about that. Men can be such pigs sometimes. Anonymous-who gave you the right to judge others? It shouldn't matter how a girls dressed that's like saying a girl was asking for it even if she was dressed conservately.

[Hartmut]

Maybe you're just plain unattractive. Just putting that possibility out there.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you kidding? A woman can be classy and goodlooking. Men would never disrespect a classy woman like me like that. If you wear a bit sexy then don't wonder why a random grabs your ass.

[Wolfstarking]

"Men can be such pigs sometimes" correction "some men" because of you say men you mean all men,