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Saggy breasts total deal breaker?

I would consider myself very attractive mainly because that's what I've been told my whole life and I am been harassed by guys constantly..however I've lost a lot of weight and my boobs (size DD since 7th grade) are saggy. I'm afraid to get into a relationship and/or have physical contact with guys because of them so I push everyone away. I know I will find someone that will accept me for me eventually but I'm afraid to even go there with them. I don't know how to bring it up hahaha. just need honesty. Are they a huge deal breaker?
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Thanks for your honesty. I'm really trying to live with it because I want to love and accept myself the way I am...its just really difficult. Maybe I'll get a lift when I'm older.
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  • Okay, do you know the reason why guys like big breasts? Psychologically, evolution caused guys to like big breasts to know if they sag or not. When breasts are not sagging, they are attracted to the female more. Otherwise, they stay away. Saggy breasts are a deal-breaker for most guys because it shows age (breasts sag as you age). According to evolution, males like women who are of the same age as them or younger because this shows strength in reproduction. Therefore, saggy breasts means males would not like that aspect of you (when considering you are trying to attract males of the same age).

    BUT, to answer your real question, no it will not be. If you are attractive, then maybe guys won't pay attention to it much. It really all depends on the saggy-ness lol. But yeah, I hope I've helped. I didn't know about all of this either until Psychology class xD

    • "Saggy breasts are a deal-breaker for most guys because it shows age (breasts sag as you age)." "BUT, to answer your real question, no it will not be. If you are attractive, then maybe guys won't pay attention to it much" Isn't that a contradiction?If he's turned off by them he will find it a problem.Her best bet would be to get surgery or wear a bra during sex

    • No, what I'm saying is that according to evolution and psychology, guys prefer girls with non-saggy breasts. However, if you are attractive, they may overlook that quality. Sorry for the wrong phrasing there. And actually, it really all depends on the saggy-ness and if there is any wrinkles or any signs of age. Everyone is different, so it's hard to have an exact answer for this question.

    • "Saggy breasts are a deal-breaker for most guys because it shows age (breasts sag as you age)." Any guy who has had least two girls will know that stretch marks and saggy big boobs are more of a norm than not. If the guy really did expect to see two big perky boobs, then his only experience is viewing too many Playboy and/or Penthouse magazines where such things are Photo-shopped into a distortion of reality. He could also be under the delusion that girls wake up looking hot and beautiful.

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  • You have to accept yourself first and I'm really glad you realize that. I got pregnant when I was 17 & while breastfeeding, filled an F cup. . .I've lost 65 lbs since then and am now a small D. . .they sag, but you have to remember, if a guy is really interested in you, it won't matter. . .& things will end up sagging later anyways. . .

    I've heard guys say they think it's hot when a girl is'nt completely perfect or that they're turned on by "the mom effect". I wouldn't worry, doll.

    Breasts are breasts. . .my boyfriend doesn't seem to mind mine!

  • Aww,I feel your pain,I'm a 36D and gravity is the enemy:/

    I do think most guys expect big boobs to be perky,because well,they just expect it.

    You can always tell them beforehand that you're extremely self conscious about your breasts or keep a bra on during sex or even get a breast lift.

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  • I am a 20 years old male and about 4 to 5 years ago, I would tell you I only loved average size perky round boobs of girls my age, I used to call them oranges, but now, growing up, I realized that I loved not by their perkiness but by there position and beauty. When I look at a girls boobs, it doesn't matter if you are an A cup or a DDD, as long as it doesn't look empty or deflated, it isn't pointing down, I like it. So as long your boobs look full and have some weight, I would say you are perfectly fine. By the way, I have seen women with B and C cups that sag, so it's not really a matter of size, but of age and maturity.

    I seriously hope you haven't undergone any surgery, keep your natural beauties.

  • If you and he walk through the bedroom door with carnal intents, he is already hooked and is not going to leave the room until the 'deed is done'. You've got nothing to worry about for almost all girls with big lovelies not only have stretch marks but their areolas all but point downward. It's a fact of life. As others have said it will not be a deal breaker.

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  • When a guy is in a relationship with you, and he cares about you, he's not gonna care about those tiny imperfections we have.

    So don't worry about it!

    :D

    • It also really depends on how bad it is if your nipples are pointing down towards the floor, definitely get a lift but if it's not so bad, don't worry about it yet ESPECIALLY if you want kids because your boobs can go up 2 cup sizes during pregnancy

  • Well more than likely if a guy loves you he won't care, he'll see your imperfections but won't think a second about them. If a guy wants a one night stand then more than likely he'll take whatever he can get. I would be willing to say that the only guys that would care are the one's that you should avoid anyways.

  • no way! honestly...most guys love all sorts of boobs. I have 36 DD and it has never been a deal breaker. maaaaybe if it is just for a one night stand but if you are looking for more, most guys will look past and and like you for you

  • Once you get above a certain size, the only breasts that *don't* sag are fake ones--really weird-looking.

    Any guy familiar with the laws of nature and the bodies of women will either enjoy what you have or won't care. The rest are looking for blow-up dolls, and are best left to go find them.

  • I guess it all depends on how they actually look, but its usually not a deal breaker.

  • Anyone else think this thread IS USELESS WITHOUT PICS!?

    If you want an honest answer, send me a pic.

  • not a deal breaker.

  • i will like you

  • They are not a deal breaker. Saggy breasts are just as nice ( if not nicer) than perky ones.

  • I prefer large and saggy breasts. Large breasts that hang low are extremely sexy.

  • Can you afford to get a breast lift?They are costly but you should definitely consider it if you are up to it

    You do not want to look like a grandma when you're at your age

  • I have broken up with girls because their breasts were saggy and saggy is not appealing or a turn on,definitely a turn off.I wish more girls with big boobs would get boob lifts to at least be more attractive

    • At least he's honest...

  • Yes it is.I think all guys can agree that saggy boobs are gross wear a bra during sex

    • Speak for yourself.

  • I have 38DDD, I wouldn't say mine are saggy yet.

    The only thing I've ever heard guys saying that have seen my boobs is

    "he said you have the biggest boobs he's ever seen"



    If someone truly cares about you they aren't going to scrutinize your body.

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