Scared i won't last long in bed?

so im still a virgin and everything. when i masturbate, i can pretty quickly reach the point where it kinda feels like contractions (?) down there. (if thats the right word) and after that i dont have a desire to continue. will this happen during sex too? i dont want to last only 5 minutes!!
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  • I would say that is a good thing to orgasm fast. That will make it easier on your guy. If you orgasm, it will likely make him go too. Women can usually have more than one anyway. If you are turned on and with a guy you will prob want to continue so you can orgasm again. One of my gf's didn't think she could continue after she orgasmed but she found out she could when we were together. I gave her the first orgasm other than on her own and she thought the same way as you. It will be just fine.

  • Hey scared...you are not the one that has to do the worrying! Girls can have multiple orgasms...go for it...your guy will love it. Remember this is also about your enjoyment not just the guy who is almost guaranteed to orgasm every time. When you are ready during sex...let it go and have some fun!

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  • You'll be fine! The 1st time you have sex it probably won't be the best sex ever, you'll probably be kinda freaked out and stressed. And then after that you probably won't get off as fast, if you even do, because it won't be just you focusing on just one thing. You have nothing to worry about, you're not a guy. When guys first start having sex or go a long time without any they can get off like 5 mins! Which kinda sucks for you if you haven't had sex in awhile too :(

  • do you masterbate inside your vagina or just your clit. the penis goes into the vagina so cumming quickly from clit stimulation isn't going to affect that tremendously.

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  • Relax. Guys love highly orgasmic girls. You can have multiple orgasms, and that really should be the aim after pleasure itself. Guys are the ones that worry about this sort of thing, not girls.

  • You don't have a desire to continue, or you find it uncomfortable?

  • There's a very good chance that you'll continue being interested, when you have real sex.Then you'll just have more orgasms.

  • it could happen, sure, but here's a tip: relax. If you relax during sex you should last a lot longer and, even after you climax, still be capable of continuing without any problems (just enjoy the ride!)

  • It's different when you're with a partner.

    To begin with, being a virgin insinuates you still have your hymen in tact. The first time will be very special, but uncomfortable. When your hymen is broken you'll bleed but this is perfectly normal.

    If you're really able to orgasm more quickly, that's good. In my opinion it will allow your boyfriend to just enjoy the moment instead of concentrating on your needs.

    • actually the hymen doesn't break! its not over the entire thing! It would just stretch! The ammount it covers varies woman to woman! So if the right foreplay isn't applied, it will cause some tearing, and bleeding! There is no popping of the cherry or anything! just stretching!

  • Ya it's probably good that you orgasm fast :)

  • You do not need to be scared. You need to enjoy it. Satisfaction is always greater when the man and woman is together and make love.

  • This is not a problem. Give him enough foreplay to he wants to mount up quickly. And tell him discreetly to come as fast as he wants to. Over time, you will learn your rhythms with him and be able to come together, which is as good as legend says it is. And over time, your hair trigger will slow down. Lucky you.

  • Don't worry he is scared too that he will only last 2 minutes. So you're covered ;)