Self-conscious when he goes down on me?

Why do I feel this way? How can I stop feeling so self-conscious, relax and just enjoy it? How do you shut up that internal voice?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • well since most us are dirt f***ers we would definately tell you ahead of time,LOL... my ex wife had the worst smell and looked awful down therre so she didn't get any mouth loven... but everyone after that sure did... I love the taste the feel of that delicate flower all over my face so soft so warm so juicy... there is (nothing) better NOTHING else I would rather be doing than going down and writing a love letter in cursive with my tongue and kissing, licking, and sucking on clit ,lips, and surrounding areas... mmmmm

    So for you sweetie I would just relax and enjoy the feeling because from my experiance most men don't want to or know what their doing down there ( from what the ladies tell me ) . So if you got a willing partner and he didn't raise his head gasping for air out of a dumpster than IT's ALL GOOD sweetie...

  • 1. Be 100% sure you are sweet and well groomed down below. If in doubt, dip a finger and check yourself out for fragrance and taste. Remember. I will be cheekbone deep, so do this for me.

    2. Pre-medicate with Cream Sherry or Ruby Port. Their sweetness and high (36 proof) alcohol content will ease you into a comfort zone that will cause that voice says: "Ahh, it'll be OK!", as it would have been anyway. Doing this will let you receive and react with less inhibition.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You just gotta relax and let it happen. People could give you so many other things to advise you, but really, if you are not relaxed and if you find it difficult to allow him because you feel self concious, well there's nothing any one can do.

    You could try being blind folded when he does it. I know this may seem silly, but if your self-concious but still want to try it, then if you get him to blind fold you, you won't no its happening until it happens, and it could give you that confidence boost you need..of course make sure this is something that you think could help.

    But sometimes its about just letting go of the fear and just jumping in...

  • get your man to tell you precisely what it is that he likes about going down on you (if he likes it), I guarantee you the things he says are probably the things you're most conscious about, like hair, smell, taste, looks etc. men are mostly dirty f***ers, they're not bothered by the same things that bother us.

    • dirt f***ers,lmao , holy sh*t are you ok? f***ing hillarious

    • apologies that's not meant to sound rude but having lived with a lot of them over the years and basically being what they call a geezer-bird, I have come to the conclusion that men (I can't comment on boys) are dirty in a way females aren't (or aren't traditionally raised to be). As long as you're not covered in sh*t, they lick it suck it and f*** it, and yes some would take the sh*t too! Lol

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  • Weed or alcohol might help.

  • if you work it out let me know so I can tell my wife

  • idk What is that internal voice telling u? It is normal & routine for me...it is a part of YOU...a place where I very much want to be. I can go down on females when they are fresh out of the tub or shower...but I don't like that much...I want my females to smell & taste like females. we are talking asset here...not liability...admitting that you are self-concious is a good first step...I have confidence in u..I think that you will achieve your goal! I wish you well...

  • Do it so many times that the internal voice get's tired and decides to shut up.

  • An otter?