Sending a semi nude pic...is it ever ok?

I love him and I trust him I know he won't do anything stupid with my pic. I just want to show him what he's missing and I want to turn him on :) and by semi nude I mean me just in my panties. Also should I tell him I want to send him one or just do it spontaneously? I've never done this for him before
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  • the best circumstance would be if you werent ashamed of your body to the point that it wouldn't bother you if someone else were to see the photo. once you send it, you lose control over its distribution. you say you trust him, you want to send it to him, then do it, by all means...just keep it in mind that there is a possibility that 'unauthorized personnel' might get a glimpse of it. not necessarily by fault of your boyfriend, so don't get mad at him if this happens by accident, which has happenned to me before in a similar scenario. I took a nude photo of my girlfriend once, and had it stored on my computer. no problem, until a 'friend' of mine stole the computer, found the photo, and sold it to her ex-boyfriend, who used it embarrass the hell out of her. needless to say, it really caused some turmoil in our relationship.

    • Wow that sucks sry that happened with your gf

    • there were a lot of difficult feelings to deal with, anger over the theft, and over the tactics used by her ex, my girlfriend was mad at me for taking the photo (even tho it was her idea! ha ha), I was distraught over her embarrassment and for losing the computer. it was a mess. but we settled things eventually, that was 2 1/2 years ago, we are still together, I even straightened it out with her ex, he gave me back the computer, intact (im using it at this very moment), more--->

    • and all my 'sensitive' files are 128 bit encrypted to prevent this from ever happening again

  • If your going to do it don't ask just send it. Be sure you trust him.

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  • Mind over matter

    but in my opinion it's really now, you know how you show him what he's missing...by not showing him what he's missing because then he won't be missing it lol.

    It's "ok" when you're married maybe even decently engaged but don't start it, he may start expecting more, and if you aren't willing this could go down a road that you never wanted.

    • not*

  • It's never OK to sext pics. You might trust him today, but realistically you might not tomorrow and you don't know what will happen with the pics.

  • Just do it. Especially, sent it in the morning. ^_^

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  • send it spontaneously but label it carefully he could open it in front of people.

  • NEVER send anything to anyone that you would not your Mother, or the WHOLE WORLD to see.

  • just send it. its way hotter that way.

  • I say...do it spontaneously. He'll love it!

    But for privacy...you can crop out your face if that makes you more comfy. :)

    • this is a good suggestion, and it was similar to what I tried to do in the case of the photo I mentioned, I just had her turn her head in such a way that you could not tell who it was, unless you happened to know her like a boyfriend would, ha ha.

  • If you're gonna do it, don't put your face in it

    and don't do it spontaneously

  • I think your face shouldn't be in it, other than that it's fine.

  • Just do it! Don't tell him in advance--that's part of the fun. Nothing like a topless shot to make a guy's day!