Sensitive head - what to do?

I think I’m ultra sensitive cuz I come so quick and it’s over before it has started. I don’t last 30 seconds and often is less than that. What can I do? Use condone? Desensitizing gel?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I’ve experienced this with guys when I was younger and mostly it just takes practice and as you get older and get more regular sex, you’ll last longer. You could try numbing gel etc but you might find that you’re just that excited that you will still come quickly!

    P. s. it’s normal for the actual sex to be over quickly. I would suggest that you spend more time on foreplay as that will pleasure her more anyway.

  • rubber agree
    gel agree, although inside the rubber so it doesn't kill her orgasm

    best: doing her vag as often as allowed, at least three time a session and session every day until this improves
    sell her on this... b/c "she's that hot" = the reason

  • My husband has that problem also. Use the desensitizing gel, it works great for him. Use it 30 min prior to sexual activity.

    • I’m a little self-conscious buying condoms already. I think it’ll be worse buying gel. And most cashiers are female. It’s like putting a sign on your forehead that says “I cum too quick.” I can feel her giggling in her head. The Internet has the problem of privacy and delivery.

    • Ask a friend to buy it for you and this is more common than you think.

  • Sensitive head? I thought its also sensitive heart just wonderin

Most Helpful Guys

  • Jerk off a time or two before you go in and that'll help. It's all about the mental game, nothing to do with your dick really.

    • Ah, I see you're a man of cukture as well.

  • You can use both methods. Are you new to "business"? It happens when you're a newbie.

    • New. Does it get calloused and last longer with time? I’ve read about stamina. I think I have no stamina in addition to sensitivity.

    • Every sensation is intense when it's new. With the time passing, you'll get used to it and last longer. You can also do some research on "how to stop premature ejaculation", there are some useful tips.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Work your pelvic floor.

  • I use desensitizing gel. It worked better with a condom.

  • Enjoy it while it lasts. I can't get off most times no matter how good it feel

  • Don’t do it anymore

  • see a doctor

  • I mean in my opinion you should be using a condom reguardless... but yeah it can help desensitize.