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Sent me a picture of his boner!!! Should I be offended?

Okay WHAT? This is my guy friend... who I went on a date with a week ago. We decided it wouldn't work and we'd just be friends. So we were exchanging secrets over texts and he's like I have a secret for you. He sent me a picture of his boner! WTF hahaha. I mean, he's wearing his pjs, but still. WHAT. haha. He gave me a hickey last week and he wanted to know where it was. Apparently I turn him on? Maybe? Why would he do that!? Is that weird? Funny? Should I be offended?
That's so weird!!
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Not that weird, it's funny
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does that mean he thinks I'm a slut!?
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  • That's a funny question to ask us. Were you offended? If you were you were, and if you weren't you weren't. Your question is like me asking you: an object fell on my toe, did it hurt me? How would you know!

    Let me answer another question: should he have emailed that photo? I tend to think that people shouldn't do online what they wouldn't do in real life. It's not an absolute rule, but it works for many situations. I wouldn't expose myself to an unsuspecting person on the street, so I also don't email photos of my penis to random people. However, if your conversation was more flirty and of a sexual nature, he may have felt that you would welcome seeing his d***. Obviously, he was wrong :)

    Either way, it's your choice if you want to be offended or not.

    • Haha yeah, I guess that was a weird question. I was a bit offended, I figured it meant he thought I was slutty. We went on a date a week ago, we've been friends for a while, we made out some, I got a hickey. He told me 4 days ago he couldn't see us dating, but wants to be friends. I agreed and was fine with it. Last night he asked where the hickey was, I said it was a secret, he said he'd tell me one if I told him afterwards... so then he sent me a picture! I laughed SO hard and then got mad hah

    • At least you laughed! Don't waste time being upset.

    • True, I mean, he doesn't look all that bad ha ha and I'm pretty sure I caused it... so... not a bad thing I guess? Too bad he doesn't think we could date though. I think our first date was bad. We're both really shy, but we can text like no other. All he could talk about was drinking and I couldn't seem to think of anything to say. It was so awkward. Maybe with more time he'll realize he likes me and wants to go out again?

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  • He's attracted to you. For whatever reason you're not going to date. He's horny. He sent it just to show off and get some joy from the situation. He probably thinks you're cool with it, and he's not really risking anything. I can't say if it has a deeper meaning.

    • I think he thinks I'm going to want to get with him! So not true. That ship sailed, kind of. We made out, nothing more. He IS attracted to me. He admitted it. Invited me over to exchange back rubs haha. I was like um no, I have to study... I'm not interested in dating him anymore. He's a sweet guy, but we both agreed it wouldn't work... so why's he still trying to get with me!? haha.

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  • Yea I think that would catch most people off guard, especially if you two just had the friends conversation, and apparently he agreed too. It's obvious he likes you. And I don't know exactly why he sent you that pic, other than he is probably really attracted to you and likes you.

    If he is not ready yet to have a girlfriend, then you two need to take it slow if anything is going to happen between you two. You need to be upfront with your feelings for him.

    I wouldn't be offended, but definitely tell him how it made you feel. I would be kind of taken by surprise by that. Maybe a little turned off because that is a bold move for someone who agreed to be 'just friends'.

    • Yes, exactly. Way too bold of a move for someone who just told me he can't see us dating 4 days ago. Makes me think he does still like me. Maybe I gave him the wrong impression when I said I was okay not dating him and that we could be just friends. We still continue to talk/flirt just as much. He wanted to know where he'd given me a hickey and I told him it was a secret and he'd have to tell me one first. That was a little much in my opinion... for friends? Sheesh.

  • You know whether or not you're offended, you don't need ask. Do you think it's weird?(If yes then it's probably weird to you) Did you laugh? (If yes then you thought it was funny) Were you shocked and appalled? (If yes then you're offended)

    • hahaha yep, that pretty much covers it. Does that mean he thinks I'm going to be more into him if I see how big his d*** is!? hahaha doesn't that make me sound reallly slutty!? What does he think of me already? So many thoughts... so many questions...

  • You laugh a lot in the question, showing either immaturity or insecurity. It's not a big deal.

    You turn him on, and he wanted you to know, you were exchanging "secrets" weren't you? I think that could be considered a secret.

    • hahaha I'm sorry, I just can't stop laughing! I wasn't expecting that! yes, we were exchanging secrets. he wanted to know where he gave me a hickey. Is this really not a big deal? I mean, idk, I don't like him -- want to date him anymore. we agreed to be just friends! not friends with benefits! haha. sorry, I do think it's hilarious. why would you share that with someone who you're not interested in!? haha

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  • People go to jail for things like this... Call a police man!

    • haha he's not some random guy! and it was all covered. It was just so funny and random!

  • If he is just a friend (nothing more than a friend), then that is creepy. Maybe he thinks that you two are a couple. Even if you did become boyfriend and girlfriend, it is still too early (in my opinion) to be sending those kinds of pictures to one another. I think you should let him know (in person) that what he sent to you creeped you out, You did not expect it. And ask him if he thinks that you two are a couple. Maybe he has the wrong idea. Good luck.

    • I think he thinks we are friends with benefits. However, that has never occured. We dated, then he said he couldn't see us dating anymore. I was fine with it because I didn't think he was mr. perfect. I said we could still be friends, hang out, watch movies together. He's the one who said he couldn't see us dating. Yeah, I am bit creeped out.

  • that's weird and sick.

    • haha yeah, idk. I can't really decide!

  • just enjoy it that is what is what ment for, :)

    • haha but we aren't even dating!

  • I know most girls usually do get offended by stuff like this - but it's obvious the guy likes you.

    • Idk, he said he wasn't over his last girlfriend and didn't really see us dating. I think he just wants to hook up! is that creepy?

    • Of course (like every guy) I don't think it is... but if he's talking about an old girl, he probably only does want to get into your pants. But if you like him, and he genuinely likes you, you shouldn't let something like this cause problems

    • Yeah, that's never ever going to happen. I don't do anything with guys I am not dating. I did like him and he liked me, but he said he couldn't see us dating.. so we agreed to be just friends that hang out, watch movies etc. I think he wants to go for friends with benefits.

  • YES block him!

    • really? he's a friend of mine! I asked him if he thought I was slutty, he said no. he apologized for offending me.

    • Still...thats just creepy

    • yeah, I am a little offended.

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  • The way you're reacting, it sure seems like you weren't offended at all, but flattered. I think you just want to brag about this to people

    • hahaha no. I think I was laughing SO hard at the time... then like 20 min later I was offended. It just makes me think he might think I'm slutty!

  • Since it is covered you shouldn't be offended or take it very serious. He was hoping you would be turned on knowing he was turned on but obviously it didn't work. Just send him a message back like "WTF was that lol, sorry dude I don't like you like that."

  • I'd be flattered..LOL.

    • hahaha really? how come? he just told me he couldn't see us dating like 4 days ago! maybe he still likes me?

    • Well, think about it...you gave a guy a boner! Obviously he feels comfortable enough to you know..show it to you, so that's a plus. If I were you I'd be a bit confused though, and also find it kind of funny. And yeah, he's probably still attracted to you, why else would he send that picture?

    • haha yeah he said he's still attracted to me. but why not date me then?

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