Sent naked pictures now I regret it?

i was seeing this guy for a few months but it was long distance and because of that I sent him naked pictures that he wanted because he truly had me fooled into thinking he cared about me. recently he kinda screwed me over and he admitted to me he still has some of the pictures I sent him even though he promised he would delete them (yes I know, I was fooled my fault). now I want to somehow politely ask him to delete them in a casual way and say 'i know its out of my control but id really appreciate if you would delete them because I didn't know you still had them' i am worried about them getting out of course, what is the best way to lessen the liklihood of that happening now?
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  • Well, they're not getting deleted, don't be an idiot. And what does that matter, anyway? You sent them to him at a very delicate time, when you really trusted him. You did nothing wrong, and his having the pictures or not having the pictures isn't going to do anything. He is NOT likely to show them to anyone, there are millions and millions of photographs passed around every day, man, only a few of them ever surface, and usually that's after they've done something grievously obscene to the person. Just let it be, the only thing it'll do is calm your insecurities of people seeing you naked, which, unless you want to be a teacher, is the only reason you're worried about it - and that won't be productive, because the insecurity is never satisfied. If he does delete the pictures, it'll be 'He still saw me naked!'

    Just be groovy with it. Change your inner-vision, that's the ideal. Your breasts are not sacred objects, your ass is not an esoteric thing. Your body has not been spoiled, your libido has not been stolen. Pictures of someone you once were exist on the hard drive of someone you once loved. It's alright, man. Forget about it.

    • I just don't want the reputation that goes along with it if they get out/ I'm definitely a "goodie goodie" type girl and I feel like he's holding that against me without having to say it

    • The caprice of reputations is far more damaging than such reputations being ruined, you have much more on your hands with such an inner vision than someone having pictures of you, you get me?

  • Any chance you have naked pics of him? You could kind of hold him in an uncomfortable position. It's what powerful countries do with nuclear warheads, "Don't use it...or we'll use ours!"

    • i did but I deleted them...

    • Should I ask him in a semicasual but serious way

    • Yeah, try to guilt him while you're at it. Just say something like, "I'm so stupid, I trusted you. I feel like an idiot. Please, if you ever cared for me at all, could you please delete them." Something along those lines. OR if you have any relatives/friends that would be willing to kick the sh*t out of him for you, that might work, but they should definitely be intimidating.

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  • I understand how you feel, someone did something like that to me, but i knew him in person and he ended up sharing it with everyone, he posted it and all of my school saw. I was heart broken and it's hard but it passes mostly. My best friends were always there and he transferred. I was and still am at time called "pepperoni" so original right, But I ignore it and tho at times it still hurts you learn to ignore it and be mostly fine. If it does ever get shared/posted stick with your friends, avoid the person that did this to you, they can and will try to ruin everything for you and remember, life goes on, tho at times it can be hard your not alone. I hope you learned from this be cause I sure did.

    • Some guy actually posted your nude all over the school and showed them to everyone? I am so sorry to hear that:(

  • um you can appeal to his ego and kiss his arse and hope that he will delete them. Or you can pretend that you didn't delete his pics and use it as collateral. I mean he does'nt know you could have lied too. Or maybe all is well and he did delete them and he just wants to get a rise out of you. Either way you really have no control over it and you can just think hey I'm a beautiful young lady and I could have such bigger problems/issues in my life, I could have a life threatening illness you know in the big scheme of things your naked pictures getting out isn't the worst thing that could happen to you.

  • Well, there's nothing really you can do about it, you just have to trust him.

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  • Unlike pulling you pants down for munny at the local stripbar... you can't take this back.

    The genie is out of the bottle ...

    • Yeah, obviously I regret it. I'm saying what now

  • dont have an all out war with him, be somewhat nice and maybe he won't share or say anything to anyone, and ir itt does get out ,just have the attitude hey everyone has the samething naked under their clothes

  • your fault for sending them, he probably has saved them to his computer

  • Well, there's no way he's going to delete them. That goes straight into the wank bank. But there's a pretty good chance he won't share them. And an even better chance he won't share them with your name attachedl.