Sex club for first time?

My girlfriend took me to a fetish club for my birthday and we ended up in a fun room with other couples. She ended up with two other guys but didn't want me to go near any of the girls, do you think this is ok

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  • I guess it depends on the dynamic of your relationship but if my girlfriend had done that to me, id either have gone and fucked other girls or have broken up with her. It would have been wise to discuss boundaries before hand. Thats what my girlfriend and I do

  • if you're okay with it, yes. But if it made you even a little bit uncomfortable, then no.

    Seems unfair, in any event..

Most Helpful Girls

  • you're such a good guy.

    You dont let other guys touch your girl. Its like sharing you know, thats not good to hear.

    • Well we had talked about it before and we both liked the idea

    • Then if it is okay with the two of you then i guess its fine. The thing that is not okay is what the others going to think, specially to you.

    • How do yiu think other people will think?

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  • Complete double standard. If it is okay for her, it's okay for you.

    • Well I said that to her but she said I enjoy watching her but she would be jealous with me soo it's kinda difficult

    • Set new boundaries. Express your discomfort on the double standard so you know for the future. Unless boundaries and standards were set before it is hard to say. That is just my PoV.

    • Thanks thats a good idea, we actually had boundaries set before which was for us two just to have fun in the room but we were quite drunk and had sex for a bit and a guy asked to join in and I said he should

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  • "she said you enjoy watching"? So she thinks for you now? Get rid of that double standard piece of shit.

  • Yes this is completely ok. You have got the license to find the next girl

  • If this wasn't discussed prior, then no, not okay. controlling af.

  • Not. At. All.

  • What?

  • There is no future in a relationship like that, and her reaction was really selfish. She basically wanted to fuck other guys during your BIRTH DAY.

  • No. It's fair game if she's with other guys, you get other girls!

  • Not cool.

  • Aye right.. she has two guys and tells you your can't touch a lass.. bolt shed be told and I'd be up as many as possible.. it's your birthday not hers

  • That's horse shit and completely selfish on her part. So while your girlfriend was getting railed, you just sat there because she said you can't participate?

  • If my girlfriend did that Id execute her and then commit suicide

  • It is not okk.. your birthday she should have celebrate with you not other guys.. not good

  • What do you think.

  • Not good for sure , she made what she prevented you from

  • You are good boyfriend. And... fuck man! What the hell?

  • So she fucked other guys for your birthday? Unless you both decided this beforehand it's wrong. And tbh even if you did it's hardly fair.

    • We had discussed it before and I did tell her I enjoyed the thought of it but when one of the guys partners who was fucking her came over to me she made it clear she didn't want me to do anything. I mean I still found it hot to watch but just a bit in two minds

    • Well, it's obvious your not happy with it. Have you told her?

    • I haven't because I'm in two minds I did find it really hot to watch and she has said she'd be too jealous if I did so in a difficult situation

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  • Sounds like she wanted to do what she wanted...

  • How to find these sex clubs in the first place

  • Ya my girlfriend is like that she likes getting other dick. But won't let me get near another girl

    • Did you say anything? I still had lots of fun seeing her with them but found it weird she wasn't happy the other way round

    • No not really. I still enjoy watching her

    • Me too, she wants to go back so I'm considering it.. Would you ever let her have sex without yiu watching?

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