Sex and cuddling....cuteness!!! Guys...how do you feel?

Just a curiosity question. I know that girls have this huge urge to cuddle or spoon right after they have sex with their guy...but what about you guys? Do you feel a strong urge to cuddle and hug and spoon with your girl when you have finished the deed...or do you just cuddle because "she" wants to? ^.^
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  • I really enjoy cuddling after sex, even just for the heck of it sometimes. I like spending time with my girlfriend. Sometimes, we talk about personal or intellectual topics and sometimes, we just lay together silently, enjoying each others' company. Overall, it's relaxing, peaceful and enjoyable. I like all three of those feelings. Therefore, why wouldn't I enjoy cuddling with the love of my life? Contrary to what Hollywood may have told you, most guys do enjoy cuddling.

    • OOHHH! SO CUTE! =D Thanks for answering! :) Yeah..cuddling is pretty awesome! <3 Oh yeah..Hollywood lies! ;P

  • I would love to cuddle with a girl after sex. Well not sure when that day will come though, but yeah. I know I would feel unnatural to do nothing after finishing the deed. After finishing the deed, I would love to touch my girl in a sexy way, such as cuddling.

    • Cool...yeah I haven't had sex yet..but I do love cuddling. ;)

    • thanks for answering! :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Is there any guy who doesn't like to cuddle after sex or whenever.. I mean, cuddling is just so uncomfortable and mushy-like.

    • Are you being serious..or sarcastic? haha..just wondering. ;)

    • never mind...you're being sarcastic...i got it..lol...I was just wondering about the urge factor...lol...obviously guys have to love cuddling too..but that doesn't mean they will necessarily after sex...sheesh. ;P

    • I am being serious. I don't like cuddling.

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  • MY boyfriend says: " It's fun but I would rather sleep because I'm tired and it's a lot of work."

    • Ah alright. yeah makes sense...haha. thanks for answering! :)

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  • I actually found that I really like this and I'm not ashamed to admit it.

    I used to get done and out of the bedroom as soon as possible because of sort of an embarrassment thing. Especially because when men have an orgasm, our libido just goes way down and we almost feel guilty about what we just did. But as I got more comfortable with my Girlfriend at the time, it soon became a regular thing for us to just cuddle naked after sex and sometimes fall a sleep for an hour or two.

    • Awww...that's cute! =) Thanks for answering!

    • Just to add something, and jmr2191 already sort of touched on this. It's actually proven that guys require cuddling more than women. We're just taught its not masculine so on the surface we tell our guys friends and stuff that we hate it. Women connect to their partners via conversation, men connect via physical contact and closeness (i.e. sex, cuddling, sitting next to each other, holding hands, etc.)

    • Really? Well that's just adorbs! heh heh. That makes sense...I feel like guys don't have it as easy in that they can't just ask for a hug from anyone...anytime..anywhere...lol...they can't be as open or aren't as open about embraces and sensitive stuff like girls are/can be...so it makes sense that they'd want more of the cuddling..since it's lacking more. =) Cool fact. I didn't know that. :)

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  • No, I would feel offended if she was not able to cuddle up and not just after sex either, anytime, you can't beat a cuddle and the connection it gives you when you cuddle up to a woman,x

    • To the point where you're offended? Wow. Interesting.

    • Awesome! Thanks for answering! =) PoeticNinja> Hm..Idk..if I want to cuddle with someone and they shove me away or act kind of rude about not wanting to..I'd feel offended too...lol..maybe "stubbsy" means in real extreme cases? I mean if you are teasingly not cuddling...and making a joke about it...that'd be different. ;P

    • I don't think they would push the person away. Just tell you that they rather not cuddle and sleep or want to eat instead.

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  • I LOVE cuddling after sex.

    Foreplay is a good thing.

    Afterplay is different and equally important.

    The warm deep connection after sex is the best.

    • Yay! thanks for answering. =) cuddling is awesomeness!

  • Because she wants to. I'd much rather just sleep.

    • Well at least you humor her and cuddle...instead of complaining about how sleepy you are afterward..haha. thanks for answering...and I suppose she wouldn't mind you falling asleep while you are cuddling...:)

  • Cuddling with the one you love? sure go for it, but with a one night stand? no thanks.

    • makes sense..heh heh. thanks for answering! :)

  • I feel a strong urge to cuddle and hug and spoon, period. All that cute stuff, I love it. And I've never even had sex. I guess sex involves similar physical contact to cuddling, so you just want to keep going?

  • It feels good. I like holding and caressing her after I've just f***ed her brains out.

    • Lol...cool. thanks for answering!