Sex in High Heels...

[AnonymousGal]

We were talking about sex with my new boyfriend. And he told me that what really turns him on in the bedroom, is when a girl wears high heels during sex. Have any of you done this before? Any advice? What is it like? And why does it turn him on?

[nova5084]

From a male perspective...

It's the dirty/kinky side of the male psyche. In our society, there's a draw to what's forbidden and what's more forbidden than a woman dressed like that making us think we are doing something we shouldn't (i.e. with a woman of ill repute, )

This is the same thing that happens with high heels, fishnets and the list goes on and on. We have seen sex and those items paired together so many times that they are almost one in the same. This is how fetishes develop as well. For whatever reason, someone has had experiences of arousal and shoes together and if the experience is strong enough or happens enough times, the two are can't occur without the other.

[nova5084]

That is called fetish...and some guys who have a fetish perform a max capacity when the can have their fetish involved...it does not mean they can not perform at all...they may not "be into it"

as much...though I am sure if you are attractive, attentive, and alluring...he will quickly be energized! :)

[pinupgirl]

Hey - sex in high heels is great. If your guy likes it, then do it. You'll feel super sexy and he'll get really turned on. I team them up with a garter belt and stockings too. OK, it might seem a bit slutty, but in the privacy of the bedroom, who cares? If you tease him with the idea, it will give you a little bit of power that you can have some fun with.

[AndiArthropod]

I have a shoe fetish and I really like wearing heels during sex. I can be aroused and have great, satisfying sex without them on but I do prefer to wear them. I like the look and the feel of them, maybe that's why he likes it. I think you should go for it!

[katiesmuff]

It is just the "different strokes for different folks" factor. People are infatuated with many different types of things.

[nicenthic]

I love that too and have had many of my girls wear high heels. I just tell them not to take it off instead of insisting that they put them on for sex. It makes the girls ass look great.

[sovetskii13]

I have a fetish for girls wearing high heels during sex. There is something erotic about it. Plus, wearing high heels strengthens a woman's pelvic floor muscles which leads to improved sex.

[Sarahkins]

Yes, thigh high boots with high heels.

[CRamos3]

response to update: it doesn't have to but it is possible...try it out. YOU might like it too! :D

[CRamos3]

HOLY HELL!

thats the best!

do it all the time with my fwb! every time she buys a new pair...we "break em in!"

[AnonymousGal]

Haha. So how does it work? Sorry if the question seems silly. Does she just keep them on and that's it? Or is there more to it? Why does it turn you on? Really curious

[Cantremember]

I like the "break them in" idea. I shall bring that up next shoe shopping trip.

[CRamos3]

she does keep them on...the entire time! you're gonna think I'm full of sh*t but I have nothing to gain by lying...she even has a few pairs that she wears when we f*** in the shower...its so hot! Stilettos are sexy...very feminine... makes her calves look great...pushes her chest and ass out...and great for doing it standing up...

[Anonymous]

I have a shoe fetish also and it's a Huge turn on to me, Especially in a position where I can grab the heel. Just be careful changing positions, That can be a little dangerous.