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Sex means nothing?

what does sex mean to you? if you couldn't get it from the girl anymore, would you break up with them? if the girl told you that sex meant nothing with you, and you aren't special to them would you stop having sex with them? I mean, sex means nothing to me. It's just an activity, granted shared only with the significant other... but other activities are more important and so are other qualities. If I could have a man be faithful and never have sex with him, that would be fine with me. What do you think?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Each question mark.

    1. A lot. It is one of the pillars of a relationship.

    2. Unmarried/married with no children, yes. If (kids) the marriage were stable and peaceful otherwise, I would regularly purchase the services of a Sporting Woman (sex worker). Divorce would come when the kids are gone.

    3.a. (Ending with "qualities") Unlikely you could be with someone you cared for and have it means nothing, but if you (my wife with children) provided it skillfully and respectfully as a service even if the acts didn't much matter emotionally, that would be enough to keep me and my Sporting Girl money at home. If that stopped, refer to #2.

    3.b. ("If...me") I would not enter a relationship like that or marry you on that basis. If you were my wife had, for example, a radical hysterectomy from cancer (ovaries/uterus and vagina) and were the mother of my children, refer to #2 except no divorce. I'd just keep sportin' until it no longer mattered..

  • Sex doesn't mean nothing to you; if it's just an activity, that's *something*.

    People have sex for all kinds of reasons: love, hate, rage, boredom, depression, grief. It's all legit--our sex is ours, to use as we please.

    If a girl told me we couldn't have sex anymore, I would ask "Can I continue my sex life elsewhere, then?" Then I'll either carry on with her, or carry on without her. She doesn't get to decide when my sex life ends.

    • It's an activity that means nothing. It's like giving a piece of paper signed with your name on to someone that says you are entitled to nothing... I just don't like having sex. I was just wondering how much others liked it and it looks like everyone seems to like it a lot. Thanks for your opinion anyways.

    • More like a paper saying you're entitled to nothing--but let me give you some stuff, because I really like you. Whatever's not working with your sex life, I hope it gets better. In addition to being an intimate and meaningful experience, it can be a lot of fun.

Most Helpful Girl

  • i think you haven't found the right guy yet.

    The right guy will either make you love sex... or will accept you don't care for it and love you anyway.

    There is someone for everyone out there. Don't do something you don't like to do.

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  • Just one thing... HAVE YOU EVER HAD AN ORGASM?

    If you did, how can you not like it?!

  • You don't like sex? Hum, that's odd I guess.

    I would not date someone if that person had no pleasure having sex with me. An healthy sex life is one of the foundations of a good relationship, without it you are just friends and you won't have that ultimate level of intimacy. Probably you haven't found the right person yet, because sex should mean something to you. Ever though about talking to a professional about that?

    • No professionals needed. I just know I don't like sex so much. I am with "the right person", but thanks for your comment.

    • But you do orgasm no?

  • -it's an activity that's done when we get bored of flirting

    -no definitely no we can go back to flirting :)

    -no I'd leave her

    -you're absolutely right, there are many basics in the relationship (to prove your love) and having sex is not basic till marriage

    that's what I think

  • i think you don't really know what men want lol.

    1. yes id dump you.

    2. I don't think I need to add any futher numbers.

    • I see. that's what I figured. Thanks for your opinion.

  • I think your crazy.

    • "you're" crazy. When you read your sentence and you can read it with a you are, then it's you're. And I just don't like sex.

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