Most Helpful Girls

  • FOREPLAY! Can never go wrong with foreplay! It'll also help with testing the water. This way you can get an idea of what to do. What she likes.
    Start off slow make her go wild. Try starting with an "innocent" back massage. She'll either be topless or completely naked.
    Lighltly kiss the back of her neck and shoulders while running your hands softly down her side brushing your fingertips against her breast. Traveling kisses down her spine before turning her onto her back.
    Don't be afraid to go down on her! Just make sure to be gentle! Sure sucking on the clit feels great unless you do it too hard! Then it'll feel like you're biting. PAINFUL! Pay attention to her legs especially when they quiver or tense up! This is a very good sign!!
    From there she'll be practically panting or even begging! After just go with whatever comes natural, she may even take charge. Or you can. Make it fun!

  • There's nothing that ruins my sex drive more than having to take the time to get my sexual partner fully hard. If you see her struggling, work it yourself. If you need a few minutes, play with her, not just yourself.
    Play with her clit gently the whole time to make her cum.
    Don't go out of her comfort zone.
    Read her facial expressions.
    Don't try to change positions too quickly between positions. She will get annoyed and sometimes even dry out.
    FINGER HER!
    Make her finish first.
    If you like it rough, get her loosened up pretty well before trying. She will be more relaxed.

  • If you're gonna finger her clip your nails. Don't take forever on eating her out. Make the sex rough. I personally like when guys choke and bite me and pin me down. If she's not comfortable doing something don't make her do it. Make sure your dick doesn't smell don't cum inside of her or you'll be worried more than just about sex

Most Helpful Guy

  • Make sure you're fully hard.

    Do not expect a blow job.

    Do not be afraid of licking a vagina.

    Take your time.

    Ask her what she wants. Let her show you.

    Relax.

    No, you do not have to last for hours, and forget all other stereotypes too.

    Bring lubricant.

    Bring condoms.

    • How long should I last

    • if you make her come first, it doesn't matter. I like it when my baby lasts a long time, but we've had literal 2 minute quickies in the shower am its still fun. (of course he did suck my tits after but shhhhh)

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  • just do it

  • Girl On top of the men's

  • make sure everybody comes :p

  • I'm submissive and like a dominant guy who knows what he wants, imposes it and demands it. A guy in control really turns me on, also unpredictable and who knows how to take the initiative, not always me though I'm in my '40s and more experienced in bed than most guys I'm dating.

    • A christian grey ughhhj

  • I am a girl and what makes sex better is when the guy varies the positions and places. Try it in the shower or up a wall, even on a table or in a kitchen. Also role play is a huge turn on so try that. Hope that was helpful ;-) x

  • You need to be fully hard

    Make sure to lick her vagina

    Hold her hair back during blow job

    Ask her what she wants

    Bring lubricant

    Talk to her

    Etc

  • Good communication. Don't be afraid to ask what she likes.

  • be nice, be attentive to her, make it fun... don't take it to seriously...