Dude, watch porn and jerk off the the rest of you horny guys. And then do it again. And then do it and imagine it's the hottest girl in your class down on her knees, blowing you. Rinse, repeat, and then repeat some more. It's okay, that's what guys do. That thing has a mind of it's own and any reasonable girl won't mind if you spend a fair amount of time jerking it. The only ones that do are girls that don't know guys at all and are just totally innocent of how they really are, or those horrendous radical feminists who can't deal with male sexuality and are always trying to eliminate it. And I say that as a woman who would definitely describe herself as a feminist, but just not as man-hating as that radical bunch.
I have a friend who has fallen into that group recently. I understand why, she's got no taste in men and all of her exposure to that gender has been to the absolute worst kind of guy. Really, these guys are just the worst. If they were all I saw, I'd probably hate men too. But it really makes her hard to talk to when you can't say anything about a guy without a bunch of "patriarchy" and "rape" quotes about things that have nothing to do with that. Look, if all you read and think about is how men want to rape us at every turn, you'll end up seeing that as the cause of everything they do. It's not true, though, it's just her warped viewpoint. And thanks, anonymous, for reminding me about this friend. I've been meaning to ask a question about her and had sort of forgot. So I'll stop babbling about that now, sorry for the diversion there.
Back to you, when you do have sex, be safe. Always come prepared. Don't ever risk getting a girl pregnant because you don't have birth control. And if you don't have birth control, try for a blow job instead of sex. In fact rule sex out entirely, unless there is proper birth control. Unsafe sex should only be done if you are trying to have a baby. You're 16, so I assume you don't want that, so why would you ever have sex with a girl without guarding against it?
Thank you so much! I love your answer. I'm not one of those guys that are trying to get every girl in bed! Your right the freakin thing has a mind of its own ^.^. Hopefully I'll get it under control. And I will stay safe! :] Thank you.
I didn't think you were trying to lay every girl. I thought you just wanted sex. Which is normal. And I think you will get it under control. Good luck to you.
I think the person asking is a female, isn't it?
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I had female friends in high school that ued to complain of the same, and well, the ones that didn't have sex,had a vibrator that they played with. My other friend didn't want to go all the way, so we had hump and grind sessions where she would just get down to a bikini and then rub herself on me, until she orgasmed. It was a win win situation for both of us. We both had our orgasms, and she remained a hymen intact virgin. Of course, finding a guy that is not going to take advantag of the situation is hard! :)
Congratulations for being a guy. Things you can do is masturbate or if you have a girlfriend or someone else who is willing then you can do things besides intercourse such as dry humping, oral sex, hand jobs, etc. The feelings you have are normal, although yours might be a little stronger than others, but from the sounds of it there is nothing wrong.
I just don't want to sound like one of those dudes who dye for sex 24/7
I didn't hear you as that. You just sound like someone who is very intrigued by it and desirous of it. There is nothing wrong with that.
Thanks.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!dude all I am tellin you is to calm down cause I am the same way, pleasure ur self and keep ur self interested porn, using condoms when you jack off umm anything just becareful man it me up if you need more
i agree with the other guy. just keep masturbating as often as possible because after you jerk off, your sexual urges will be curbed. if you don't want to constantly masturbate, try starting off by jerking off every time you feel the urge (if possible) and try waiting 5 minutes to. the next day try forcing yourself to wait 10 mins. and so on and so on. try to slowly control your urges. it's all about self control. just forcing yourself to wait a bit will heighten your power of self control
Well, there is sex therapy. You could have some psychological issues causing you to abnormally crave it so much.
The only other thing I can think of is masturbating as often as possible. I presume you're a guy, so having a limp penis kind of destroys the chances at having sex.
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