Sex while she is on her period? And first vacation question

So my guy and I are leaving for our first vacation together on Friday and I am supposed to start my period any day now. I WANT SEX. But would you guys be creeped out having sex while she is on her period. I wouldn't mind. Also, we have never slept together. Like literally lol. Should I wear something cute? I wear panties and maybe a tank to bed. Would it freak him out if I woke up and started giving him a blowjob? Any general tips would help a lot! Thanks!
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When I say we have never slept together, literally, I mean we have never been asleep in the same bed together. We have had sex MANY times lol
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I never did start my period :) so we had LOTS of sex but we also had an amazing time on our vacation. I did wear panties and a tank but when I snuggled next to him and he held me, he took off my shirt lol. I shouldn't have worried. Everything was so natural between us. I literally fell asleep on his chest and we had sex every time we went into the hotel room lol thanks for all the answers though!
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  • Someone else asked about the bj while he's asleep a couple of days ago and the answer was a resounding YES. However, when you say you've never slept together... do you mean you've never done anything sexual or you've never had intercourse? If you've never done anything then I think it would be nicer for both of you if your first time was when you were both fully awake. I don't think any guy would complain about being woken up by his girlfriend giving him a bj, but maybe save that for when you want to give him a special treat, rather than his first time.

    As for period sex... I personally have no problem with it. But he might. It's a personal opinion so the only way is to talk to him about it. If you are on your period when you go away, then on the first night go into the bedroom either topless or wearing a nice silk nighty or a corset or something sexy, and go over to him, initiate foreplay, then say you think you're ready to have sex with him, but you're on your period, would he like to do it now, or would be prefer to wait a few days until you're off. If you have sex while you're on your period it will be messy and it might be a little less comfortable for you than it would be if you're not on your period. So it's your choice really. I think for your first time, not being on your period would be better, but if you're only away for a few days or whatever and you're going to be on your period the whole time, then just mention it to him and decide together :)

    I hope this helps and I hope you have a very fun holiday ;)

    • Definitely not our first time having sex! I did give him my virginity though. Just actually sleeping together in the same bed lol I hope he has no problem with period sex I just wanted to know what most men thought of it before I spoke with him

    • Oh I see! Well yeah, if you normally wear a tank top and pants that's pretty cool, or you could wear something like a sexy nightie if you're definitely wanting some ;)

  • Sex while in periods is absolutely subjective matter.

    Does it involve any risk? Yup. High risk of infection to year partner. I guess condom can sort out that issue to some extent.

    I really don't suggest to go for in-period-sex if its your first time. You can delay your period if you want. There are some kind of pills available for it. But again it might have side effects.

    You can have sex without penetration. Its also pretty fulfilling and romantic.

    These were my views. I wish you njoy watever decision you make.

    • Yea we would use a condom just cause that would be gross otherwise I think lol Sex with penetration is still the best though lol I had no idea there were pills to delay periods but I don't care that much lol why mess with nature? Plus I don't have the money!

    • Umm...you can have anal. If you can have lot of water based lube. Anal can be a pleasure if done correctly. It can hit that deep spot and if your guy is "crafty" enough, you can have great orgasm, too. Without even touching your vagina? You bet. :-)

    • We usually have anal but I still like his penis in my vagina the best lol

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  • Tell him that you want him badly but you will be having your period that day.

    See, if he is open to the idea of period sex.

    Maybe you can wake him up with oral sex (like you said),

    then move it along to the shower (where its less messy).

    Every guy has their preference on what they want. Either he is down for it, or he isn't. The only way you will know is to speak to him.

  • So did you have period sex with him? I hope so. I find it really satisfying because I'm horny during that time and have amazing orgasms. Don't you? it relieves our cramps and leaves our p****** spasming in delight.

  • Sleep topless! Duh! And no he most definitely have a problem with the blow job. Just ask him about period sex. If he's not interested you can still do a lot of foreplay.

    • Topless-of course! So the general consensus is yes to giving him a gj when he is still asleep, ok!

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  • Well this should certainly be an eye opening week for him.LOL

  • Period sex: warn him. I prefer period sex to period-not-having-sex.

    Panties and a tank -are- something cute.

    He might freak out and want to move in with you if you give him a blowjob while he's (to begin with) asleep.

    • Thanks. I usually wear panties and a tank or a tshirt but didn't know if I should find something cute or not lol

  • Every guy is different...I like hjs but don't care for bjs...I am fine with period sex though...just need to ask him...all of my females were tampon users..and I gave all of them oral...(:(:(:

  • I wouldn't have any problem. My girlfriend and I traveled to several foreign countries during a week a few weeks ago and talked about having sex in all of them. Her period ended up starting the second day, so she ended up being on her period in most of the places we visited. We still had sex in all of the places since we didn't want to let a little blood get in the way.

    Wearing panties and a tank is sexy. Or just panties or naked, though the last one is not a good idea on your period. Being woken up with a blow job or sex is great. There's no better way I've been woken up than by why girlfriend's hand stroking my d***.

  • Period sex feels amazing and women if they said they were on their period I would be all up in them..