Sex with boyfriend is embarrassing because I am so wet.

I am a girl who has a lot of discharge and lubrication. I am very clean and hygienic, but it doesn't matter - I still get so wet when I have sex with my boyfriend and I get so embarrassed by it. When we have sex, there's always this white discharge all over the base of his penis afterward. I hate it and I'm so embarrassed by it. I don't have any infections or STI's, doctor told me it's just that some women have a lot more discharge than others, and some women secrete whitish fluids during sex instead of clear. I don't know what to do, it's so embarrassing to the point where I am so worried and distracted about it during sex that I can't enjoy it. Guys what's your opinion on this? Would it bother you if your girlfriend had this problem? Would it turn you off?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I can't speak for all guys but I'm personally not turned off by girls' bodily fluids. I'm not a gynecologist but I know about discharge and sexual lubrication and it doesn't bother me. If anything it's gratifying to know that a girl gets so with me that she gets extremely wet. I also think wet, sloppy sex is hot.

    Talk to him about it. If I was your boyfriend I would want to know if something was eating you up inside. Get it off your chest and he can set your mind at ease.

  • I got my ex Very wet to the point where she was also embarrassed. I always thought it was Hot and I told her that. Something about getting a girl so turned on that she is gushing turns me on!

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's awkward, but it's natural to get wet. It means your getting turned on. You should feel go about that and your boyfriend should feel extra good about it.

    If you are worried about getting too wet, think of it this way. At least your getting wet. Try having sex when your not wet, it's a bit painful.

  • I can understand the white discharge bothering you because that's normally a form of an infection, but as long as he knows it's just your body's way of showing your sexual arousal for him he'll love it...like Pavlov's dog seeing that white stuff will get him super turned on...you're worrying over nothing! ;)

  • I, like you have always gotten very wet during sex. The whole area around my crotch and inner legs is wet when we get done. But I have found that all the guys have found it to be a big turn on and found it really hot. It shows they did a good job. You will find it is a good thing. Relax and enjoy yourself.

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  • It's more an advantage than a problem.

  • Hot as hell. I want her fluid running all over me and down my legs when I'm donw eith her.

  • lay a towel or 2 down then forget about it

  • That's beautiful from a guy's perspective.

  • If it would not be wet, sex would be painful. Wetness is a sign of female arousal and readiness for penetration. Relax and enjoy.

  • Enjoy it guys think its hott and that there doing a good job.my girl gets soaked.

  • this is hot for me baby :)

  • It turns me on to see that cream all over my penis. I enjoy seeing it on p*rn as well. As long as it's not a yeast infection. My girls does when we're making good love.

  • This is hot. Getting a lady dripping is one sign that she has enjoyed sex with you! No cause to be embarassed... most guys would see this as a big turn on.

  • It's embarrassing for you? - I LOVE when I get VERY wet.

    Who the hell cares, he's sure as hell enjoying it.

  • I love really wet girls. Neither you or your boyfriend should be worried, it is perfectly normal! :D