Sexless relationship? Wtf?! But we were already... why stop now?

Has this happened to anyone? Thinking your lover is either a selfish lover, unskilled, or just ignorant? So you try to teach them, help them out, teach them to be better lovers or at least give them materials to learn. And instead they hit you with, yeah, it's too much trouble. I don't want to have sex anymore. You complain it's not enough anyway and I'm tired of doing it because honestly, I'm only doing it for YOU. Mind you, the guy has issues with desensitizing so OK he says he gets nothing out of it. BUT there are ways to help you get back to something... But no, he says too much trouble. Wants to have a sexless relationship from now on. We're not even married. wtf? What would you do if they were almost perfect? Would you stay and doom yourself to no sex? What a horrible thing to ask of a girl... (sighs) I'm not saying the guy should have sex out of some kind of duty, that's wrong too... but to force a girl to never have sex again because he's too lazy to learn HOW to have sex? I think that's wrong too...
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I living in one. My choice to not have sex. She push few topics too far. She can’t leave cause got no place to go. Which not my problem. But throw her kid. And my friendliness. Suxs Monkey dogs nuts. If she leaves all the better. I stop years ago. Words. Holding hands. Hugs. Once and while I’ll let her cuddle. Because I sometimes need that. But she new she duck up so bad. She playing waiting game. I’m sure she cheated but no proof. There more. Thankfully I not married to this check or have kids with her. Of course this puts my life on hold and I’m in limbo hell. But she does keep my house clean and cook. So there a little balance

  • Translation: "I'm a lousy lay, but I'm too lazy to fix it."

    A dealbreaker trifecta: a bad lay, a bad attitude, and a lazy nature. But you're still dating him because...?

    • He's cute... sadly enough... the men who are attracted to me are not that easy on the eyes... I guess that's life though... good/great sex vs. pretty face. Man that sucks!

    • How about a nice, ugly boy who'll treat you nice and f*ck you proper? I *promise* you it'll be an improvement.

    • Sure it will... How am I supposed to be attracted to an ugly guy? And if I'm not attracted, how then, can I fcuk him?!

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Most Helpful Girl

  • gee seems like he doesn't want to have sex with you anymore, just try to find a way to make it less work for him and more fun them maybe. who knows, find out the problem: No sex because it seems too much work for him and the solution: Make it less work and more fun for him.

    blah blah blah

    think about it.

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  • It would be a deal-breaker for me. I could understand no sex for a period of time for some real reason (injury, pregnancy, medical condition, etc.), but forever? Sorry, can't do that.

  • I don't get into serious things with girls unless we're sexually compatible from the start. And no one's forcing any girls to stay in any sexless relationships.

  • Sounds good to me, no interest in sex can hit anybody at anytime so best to role with it rather than fight it or maybe just move on

  • Why can't he enjoy it? Medical problems?

    • yeah... he's desensitised from jacking off too much, we think...