Sexual fantasies about my best friend (she is a girl)?

[Anonymous]

hello, I know my best friend for 2 years now. we are very close and tell everything to each other, she is bisexual and I am too. some people think we are lesbians because as they say we act like it.but we are not together .anyway I lately have these wired sexual fantasies about her, and I find it very gross, and disturbing because she is my best friend, like a sister.she is very pretty, she is blond (like me) and has as a very beautiful body, sometimes I look at her at class, and then when I realize what's happening to me I turn my head to the teacher and try to concentrate . but still, we are always together and always hangout together. and when she is gone and I miss her, I get wet dreams about her, and I always wake up immediately , and feel gross with myself. what can I do about this? does it have something to do with the puberty thing? (I'm 16 now.)

[lericah]

Yes puberty is the key factor here but your feelings won't change. Try to bring up sex with your friend and guide the conversation towards her having sex with you. There is a good chance she feels the same way. It's not bad that you have those feelings, or that you have them for her. she's a very good friend and a boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse is also just a very good friend.

[joe_soapus]

This is completely normal. Relax and enjoy your fantasies. If you think that you can live-out some of your fantasies and your friend is a willing partner then that's also part of life.

[katiesmuff]

I don't understand why you would feel gross about these feelings. You are bi, she is bi and best of all your best friend. As another who is bi I would think the two of you would want to be together.

It was and still is my best friend from high school that I love sleeping with.

[Aizou]

I agree with this answer

[Mtsmith]

I think this is a very.wise woman...learn and listen. And have fun.

[justme20]

its just puberty. while we are developing as adults some people might have sexual attractions to the same sex. overtime you won't have them or you might you never know.

[amaron]

my girl is my best friend... my mom and dad are best friends my grand parents were best friends and my friends parents and his fam are the same way. technicaly everyone is sleeping with their best friend and there is nothin wrong with it. tell her what you dream and see if she is interested.

[maxpower89]

I just created an account to put a like on this.. Great answer.

[jennhottie17]

id say you have the perfect situation.

[yy557799]

I HOPE You HAVE B/F,THEN You WILL FORGET HER.