Sexual tension/arguing?

When there's an overabundance of arguing between two people is it an alright indicator of sexual tension? Not like terrible assholion fighting, but still a little too aggressive to just be simple squabbling between friends? Also, it happens relatively constantly to the point of other friends noticing. It doesn't happen so often that the two people don't actually like each other though, they still are perfectly capable of having an intellectual conversation about other things. There's also been previous "romantic" interest between them.
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  • I've been in exactly the same situation with my guy friend, but since he has a gf and wants to not seem like a cheater, he denies flirting with me exactly like how you said. We have insane fights about things he thinks I did and then he's a huge dick and makes a scene in front of our whole friend group. He thought I was mad at him for being late to a club meeting that we were running so a mutual friend , who's a hothead who'll say anything, goes to find my friend and rip him for being late. Since we'd already had a fight about this, my friend told me he'd be late. So he lost his shit this time, thinking I'd sent the hothead to get him, calling him my "lapdog". He burst into the room we were all, yells at me, "your hugging privileges are revoked!" and storms out. Our friends were like wtf? Then he comes back and I'm mouthing things at him across the room, trying to explain and apologize and he's staring daggers at me and fuming! This girl said there was so much tension in the room. I've even talked about it with my friend, asking him why he thinks we have this love hate thing going on. We threaten each other a lot, mostly me him, but he did say he was going to rip my ovaries out, which Is oddly sexual, lol!

  • Honestly I've had the same experience in my past so yes, as far as I know, small bickering do signal sexual tension.

    • i currently have a male friend that I am really attracted to that this happens with. we both state that we are just friends, but we have been picking at little things lately, especially him.

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  • yes. I had this relationship/friendship with a guy and we'd always bite each other and wrestle around... I know it sounds weirdish but it was just playfulness lol and as I look back now...yeah we were totally hot for each other ;)