Share my fetish with boyfriend?

I have a fetish for pet play. Should I share this with my boyfriend? We have talked a little about fantasies before,just for fun,he just said that he love bj's. And that's normal -_- ...so I didn't tell him. But I would never force him into something he's not comfortable with,like leashes and stuff,if he didn't want to. I'm just afraid he will think its too weird and leave me :( Guys,if your girlfriend had a fetish like this,what would you do?
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I braught it up and eased into it like you said, he was a little weirded out at first but he said he would give it a try :D He likes me dressing up and acting catlike and is even playing along with the roleplay,sometimes as a cat and often as my master (apparently he loves when I call him that lol). He won't go as far as leashes and stuff (yet,hehehe) but we're having a lot of fun ^^ I'm so glad I told him. Thanks for all your comments and tips ^^
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  • Sounds hot to me. telling him depends on how long term you think will be and how much it would bother you what people would think if he told anyone. As someone who likes some pretty werid stuff my advice would be fuck what people think if it makes ya happy do it. Who you want to be the pet you or him?

    • I would be his pet cat and he would be my 'master' ;3 I think he would like that cause he has kind of a leader personality and enjoys to be dominant. So to speak. I think I will tell him cause we have been together for a long time and are both thinking of it as a long term relationship.

    • In that case good luck with it hope it works out for ya. would be interested to know his response. If I was to try it I'd prefer it the girl was in control. Sometimes people that are dominant in everyday life prefer to be dominated when it comes to this sort of sexual thing. I think that you have got a pretty cool fetish :)

  • id be all about a girl that is into that.

    there is a girl that is on webcam & has her own site that has that look. like ears & a tail. its hot...

    im also a bit into other kinky stuff. I think collars are hot on a girl

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well, its may be cute, with cute furry ears and maybe a tail, its kinda different but its cute. I think that the fact that you would be the "pet" makes it much easier! Tell him, if he loves you, hell play along ^^

    • I am so happy for you! =D See, dialogue is most oftenly the best way ^^

  • Probably too much for me.

    Some guys would be fine with it though.

    If you guys are thinking longterm, he'll probably need to know sooner or later.

    • Thanks for BA! :) I wish you the best!

  • a pet play, that's new to me, what exactly goes on in a pet play?

    • Its a pet role play,it can be 2 pets or a pet and a 'master'. Involves stuff like costumes,animal sounds,licking,petting and basically acting like pets in a sexy way ;) if its a pet and a master it often involves collar,leash,dominance and stuff so you're his/her pet and gotta do what he/she says~ I'm into cat roleplaying so its a lot of licking,meowing,purring,scratching.. google it if you wanna know more I'm not so good at describing :P

    • So are you going to scratch him with your nails?

    • Depends on if he likes to be scratched. Then yes :3

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  • That is a bit odd to me, personally.

  • I would definitely let my girl put me on a leash if sex was involved. Sex is sex

  • It's fun to learn new things

  • Weirdd.. No.. Leashes? I think you're watching too much prn.

  • You’re very lucky he’s into it. I would be up for many fetishes including yours but my partner isn’t into mine :( it’s all about trying it and seeing if you like it or expanding on it to make it new and different for you. There’s so many fun things to do for pet play if a girl has it as her fetish and she is excited to explore it and try new things.

  • share it with him, I told my girlfriend I sniff panties

  • I think its hot. I would ease into it with him though. Don't throw everything at him at once.

  • I wouldn't mind! Sounds like something new!