Sharing bi fantasies with girlfriend/boyfriend?

Is anyone comfortable enough to share bi fantasies with your gf/bf. Girls, would it turn you on at all to know your bf's bi fantasies. Guys, I know your answer because I love it when gfs share their bi lusts (and they have all had bi fantasies).
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Most of the female responses are hardly surprising but extremely hypocritical. Almost every woman I have dated has been the same way. They want me to actively participate in helping them explore their bi fantasies but they couldn't stomach mine. I hate to say this but females are devolving into something that looks more like a 1950s white man than a 21st century woman.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm not going to say I'm a jealous lover, because I'm not :p but I'm a pretty monogamous person atm, you talking about someone that isn't me might make me a little sad.

    that doesn't mean I wouldn't date a bi guy, I just don't want you to talk about other people (male/female/trans) in a way you should be talking about me. I'd like to hear about your sexuality in a not so sexual context, like in a private conversation.

    selfish, I know, but we dont/cant all have the same fantasies. we're different people who all like different things.

    • I'm not being hypocritical at all. I don't have bi fantasies, so I don't even need to share or act on them.

  • Certainly you would want to be. It is surprising how many fantasies become reality when your partner understands what you would like.

    • My fantasy is to kill you when you are naked does that make my fantasy right? Sane? Would you understand? Is it understandle? Is it nature? Is it mortal? NO so pls a threesome is wrong

    • Don't be so narrow minded! A threesome might be wrong for you, but many others may very much enjoy the pleasures of a threesome. Nobody has the right to harm another person which would make that fantasy you think about totally rediculious

  • I am pretty open with my friends about my sex life and what I do or won't do.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Sorry man, it's not the same. Women are already insecure enough, feeling like they have to compete with other women. Throw MEN into the mix as well, and they'll likely give up on you, they just can't deal with that.

  • yeah seems like an unfair double-standard

    Still a virgin but I don't know what will happen in the future

    and that I'll be judged for it

    • Eh, you might be judged by other dudes, but as long as the girl you're with is already interested in you for things other than sex, your virginity will probably just make her feel special.

    • well the responses from girls aren't comforting does that mean I'm screwed if I have sex with a guy

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  • If I find out my bfs fantasies b it bi or 3 sums etc. Ill tell him one sentence you can have it all but from this moment on you can never have me.

    • Amen! +1

  • I would NOT want to hear my boyfriend bi fantasies, AND I wouldn't be with him if I found out.

  • We're trying this tonight! ;)

  • You know our answers because you would like it?

  • I hate to say this, but even though I have bi thoughts I cannot stomach the idea of my hypothetical guy being even somewhat bi. It just grosses me out in terms of sexual arousal, but I have nothing against bi guys.