She Keeps Talking About Sex!

I have known a girl for over a year now. For the last 4 months or so she keeps bringing up the topic of sex in many of our conversations. I know she is not going out with anyone. She'll mention that I'm in good shape, good looking, etc. How do I know if she just things of me as a friend (and wants to confide in me) or whether she now looks at me in a sexual way? Let me add, she appears to be very shy around most people but me. When we first met she was up front and told me she has problems communicating with men. She's hot and cold. Let me say, as soon as she started mentioning sex, she will not approach me anymore. I have to always go up to her to strike a conversation. If I don't approach her, we don't talk. At times it appears she has an angry look on her face when I'm around. About 2 weeks ago, her and her girlfriend went out to a club. She showed me pictures of them dancing. One of the pictures was taken with a guy around 23 (she is much older). Not that a rank guys but he was not much at all to look at. Actually he was gross. I asked her if she liked the guy. She said no, he was just buying her drinks. Was she showing me these pictures to get me jealous? Again, what do you believe this girl wants? Is she hinting at something more serious? I have never been good at interpreting signs.
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  • If she started bringing up sex, she probably interested. I bet she backed off because of how your responded, maybe she feels embarrassed that she brought it up and you didn't respond the way she was looking for, that's why you always need to strike conversation now. The club thing..blow it off. It may have been something to trigger you, but w/e. She says she didn't like the guy, she didn't. Specially if this guy is ugly and she's straight up complimenting you...Oh and looking angry- I imagine this is BEFORE you approach her? Just do it. Get goin'!.

    • Let me ask, what would be a good response when she brings up sex? I've had many girls approach me (honestly, not bragging just telling truth) but no one this forward. She is usually quite shy. That is why she surprised me. Ex. I told her my aunt was being put in a nursing home. Her response was to say she had a friend who worked in a nursing home that walked in on 2 eldery people where man was on top of woman. Is that not strange? Was she hinting in your opinion? Have a good response to that?

    • Well that's kind of a weird way to bring it up, yes. Being that I HAVE worked in a nursing home...and definitely had this conversation before...that would NOT be me hinting at anything..But in a different scenario where she brings up sex, say something a little riskee, bring up you and her specifically. A sentence with 'we' or 'us' or 'me and you' about sex...*shrug* any better examples?

    • Sure. She told me that a woman has needs, she also mentioned sex toys. We both work out at the same health club. I told her I like to work up a good sweat. It makes me feel good. Her response was to say there are other ways to work up a sweat (not joking). She than called me the everready bunny because "I can keep on going." She has also punched me a lot in my abs. Ironically when I go to touch her abs, she shyly pulls back and laughs.

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  • ummm she totally wants you to make the first move, you like her too since you asked if she's trying to make you jealous...were you? just go for it before someone else does..

    • Thanks. I have to admit I was jealous. She's always throwing me compliments. Could she be angry that I didn't respond in the manner she expected? Any words of advice to make her fall for me?

    • she is already...u just have to make the next move...are you like very touchy with her..have you guys kissed?

    • Kissed about 4 months ago. Nothing else. I know I know. I always thought she just thought of me as a friend. I asked her out once. She told me she had family plans. I out right told her if she didn't want to go out just to tell me. I would understand and move on. She pulled her body back, smiled, truned her he'd to the side and said "No, I promise we will do something soon." Since then I've asked her out twice. She had family obligations both times (I believe her).

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  • Certainly sounds like she's very interested in something more serious but wants you to make the first move. Wouldn't hurt to casually ask her out.

    • Thanks for you opinion.

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  • she likes you! and yes to make you jelous