She's so quiet and "innocent" yet a freak in bed?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend comes off as the most,quite and innocent girl.She isn't promiscuous or known for dating around,she can be quite shy at times,and but once you get to know her she has a lot going on.She's intelligent,she has her own hobbies(piano,poetry,philosophy) and quite frankly do I deserve her?no,but she loves me and I love her.We've began having sex with me being her first,but for someone so "innocent" and shy and inexperienced she is a freak in bed;she's very sexual,which I thought shy would mean boring and vanilla,but she loves sex.Is that common?I've been with other girls but they were never my gf's so I didn't care about their personalities or from what I noticed they were the "life of the party" but I can tell you she's much much better than those chicks.Normal? I do love her though,it isn't just sex

[Eruthiad]

As I shy girl myself I can vouch for this being true. Think of it this way, whatever someone lacks in verbal communication, they most likely make up for in physical communication. For example, if someone is deaf they learn to read into body language and reading lips. Same goes for quiet girls! We (I) find it very hard to come up with things to talk about with a new person and when I get asked a question, my mind goes blank! It's actually quite embarrassing :/ But body language... whether it be the way we look at you or the way we kiss you.. body language is a universal language. I know dating a shy girl can be challenging at times, but trust me she will somehow find a way to show you how she feels about you :P

Hold on to her buddy!!^^

[Vera13]

omg! hehe

the answer is: yes, its normal.

it happened to me, I'm pisces so you can imagine how I am , almost like ur gf, but I'm a freak in bed,

my boyfriend is my first, but I'm not his first, when we kissed he was shocked and he told me that I'm the best kisser he ever kissed, ( he kissed many people btw)) he was compeletely surprised!.. and I WAS! :O!

its normal, jst enjoy it XD

p.s unless that's not her first!

[selfishstars]

I don't know how normal it is, but I'm also a shy girl who is very adventurous in bed.

[AnonymousDude]

And I see nothing wrong with it! ;) In fact, its a damn good combo.

[sd6515]

You have basically described my wife, quiet and reserved sweet and shy, but crazy and up for anything in the bedroom. I always question if I deserve her in so many ways, but I know she loves me so I try my best everyday to deserve her and treat her as great as she is.

You always hear guys talking about "a lady on the street and a freak between the sheets" lol but I don't get into that talk I married my HS girlfriend and ten years later she is still the only girl I have ever slept with. However I do know that my wife is a unique and amazing person which is why I committed my life to her and started a family, if you are lucky enough to have found that feeling as well just be faithful enjoy her for who she is and see where it goes.

[Tdieseler]

lucky you dude..hold on to her...thats a rare package right there...my girl too who I was her first..didnt love sex but let me go as many rounds as I wanted...plus she confessed it felt good to...(duh..wit all the deafening screams I couldn't have noticed)

[l-hedoniste]

Nerd chicks are freaky. Learn it, love it.

Congratulations.

[gecko235]

Haha that exactly sums up my ex :)

Yea I believe the ones that are most experimental or sexual are the quiet ones! They just gotta open up, tho the are excemptions of course ^^

[Anonymous]

I'm the same way in front of people you wouldn't even know I was there but when you get me in bed it's kind of an outlet:)