Should I confront my girl about fake moaning?

Title says it all, should I ask her about it or not? I want to know why she did because I can defenitly tell when she does.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Just so she doesn't feel embarrassed or want you to feel 'inadequate' or whatever, I would just ask her how you're doing, how she's enjoying it, if she enjoyed it, what she would like you to do, etc. Have a verbal sexual exploration so you know how to get the real ones out of her! I'm sure she'll appreciate the effort and not having to fake!

    Also, some girls think they're expected to moan like p*rn stars because that's what guys want or that's what they're supposed to do. Some girls take a REALLY long time to get off so she doesn't want to feel selfish in making you work at it so long... maybe she's embarrassed, frustrated or just wants you to be satisfied.

  • Say something like "wow babe you get pretty loud haha, I must be so good at this... Or... Are you trying to boost my ego and get me going?"

    Everyone is different but that'll make me tell the truth...

  • How can you tell are you sure she's faking she might really be enjoying it ?

    • Lets just say I'm right, should I or should I not?

    • Well you guys are together I guess you could ask but try to ask in a nice way .

Most Helpful Guys

  • Copy when she does it only do it louder and more obnoxious, hopefully she gets the hint. If she doesn't then tell her, that kind of thing gets really annoying.

    • ya lol do this

    • haha goshh that makes me feel kinda sefl concious about the way I moan now...hope I don't sound loud or fake

  • na don't ask her man because you already know the answer. She's doing it to make you feel better because your lame in the sac

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  • You could talk with her about it, and if she is faking communicate on how you can both be satisfied.

  • if she's doing it she is only doing it so it won't hurt you. Just ask her what she would like done to her and communicate.

  • yeah you should or you could fake moan next time and see how she reacts

  • yes, confront her if it bothers you.

  • Yes

  • She does it so she can boost your ego and make you feel good about what you are doing. Confront her if you want but she may become defensive.