Should I do a threesome with the others that have herpes?

My friend and I were talking the other day about me being involved for a threesome that they wanted and I don't mind doing it. But the problem is that her guy gave her the herpes and I am afraid of catching it now. I really don't want to back out of the threesome, but I have no idea what to do. Should condoms block the herpes? If I happened to finger her, would I catch anything? Please help.
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  • Have some respect for your body.

    Are you seriously considering participating in an orgy with people who are promiscuous AND have an incurable STD? What's the worst thing could happen if you say no? You're afraid that they'll get mad at you or something? Please that is the least of your worries. If you know they've got herpes don't you think it's possible they could potentially have OTHER things that you Don't Know about? Like I said have some respect for your body, you only get one body, why risk disease just for a few minutes of fun?

    BTW condoms do not block herpes. It can if it's on his penis but you can spread herpes even with the use of condoms.

    • If she gets herpes it doesn't mean she's not respecting her body :/ I have herpes type 1 genital and it doesn't mean I don't respect my body... it also doesn't mean That they have other STDs thats just very judgmental thinking... At least they told her and didn't keep it from her. Also there is a way to prevent it from spreading if they both get on suppressive therapy plus a condom and it's almost completely effective.

  • DO NOT DO IT! Don't be stupid! Not only is it incureable BUT it also increases your chances of catching almost all of the other STD's out there! If you decide to have children it can cause all other complications including making the child blind. Don't try to make these people, who obviously don't give a damn about your health or you in general, give you a disease that will change your life forever. I say drop these 'friends' like a bad habit and don't look back.

    • Omg can it actually cause problems for your child?!!!!i never knew that

  • oh please don't do it..

    i mean I wouldn't even trust touching her or the condom itself..

Most Helpful Guys

  • Personally, I would back out of that situation, but I know people who would be comfortable doing it as long as no one had an active outbreak, the guy wore a condom, and there was no swapping from one vagina to the other without changing condoms. I enjoy threesomes, but you've clearly got to set some boundaries you're comfortable with, and you should never feel obligated to follow through or prohibited from changing your mind. Good nasty fun can only happen if everyone is 100% comfortable with the arrangements.

  • Something tells me this is a rhetorical question. if you're seriously considering this, then you need to Google "genital warts/herpes" and look at those pics. I'm sure it will help you make your decision.

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  • HELL F***ING NO!

    Tell those dipsh*tes you're not going to catch an uncurable STD just for their fun time. Do not even THINK about it! >_______<

    • Not wanting to double post. Just want to compound the point. Herpes is UNCURABLE. You can NEVER get rid of it. You can catch it through a condom and even when they are not having an outbreak. I implore you to back out. For both yours and everyone's sake. One more person with Herpes is one more person that can spread it.

  • Hell yes you should do the threesome you dirty whore. :)

  • I must emphatically agree with all of these people. DO NOT DO IT. There is still NO cure for herpes. Now if they had syphilis or gonorrhea that's curable and no problem but HERPES is for life maybe death.

  • yea don't to

    you can't get them just by touching so I wouldn't do it

  • You would have to be an idiot to willingly have sex with two people who have herpes.

  • of course theyd want to give you herpes haha

  • Now Y Would You Ask This Question Oviouslyy You Don't Mind Getting Herpes Don't Do It I Would Be Stupid Of You Sense You Know

    • MY EYES! >__< Don't Do That. It Really Hurts People's Eyes.

  • why would you ask this

    back out

    don't do it unless you want to b stuck with hepes for the rest of your life

  • Not a smart idea if you want herpes go right ahead.