Should everyone try anal sex once?

Do you think it's something every girl/guy should try at least once? Does it feel like taking one big sh*t? it seems like it hurts and the thought of gaping is beyond disgusting and a turn-off...
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  • no, I think everyone should try it at least ten times!

    it probably feels like the opposite of taking one big sh*t: like having it crammed back into you. (j/k..)

    The pain from anal sex is, I would say, analogous to the gag reflexes from deep throating: both can be avoided by putting yourself in the right state of mind and relaxing (also lubricant, of course). The sex nerves are there, so it is absolutely possible for any girl to enjoy it, but not every girl has the 'personality' needed to get into the state of mind required to negate the pain and thus feel the pleasure. Unfortunately, you can't really just try it once and be certain that you do not have the personality for it. You have to kind-of know what to expect first, which could take a few attempts. I say ten for selfish reasons, but really it's probably closer to 4.

    Also, a gaped ass that I just ejaculated into can be a sexy site - you can be grossed out by it if you want, but unless I'm grossly uniformed or don't want anal, I fully expect to see that sort of thing. But it does make it tricky for the girl to walk for a few minutes. If you are worried about it, the easiest thing to do is remain laying on your belly for a short time after the anal sex is done.

    As far as guys being penetrated the rules are different. Men have a prostate that is packed with sex nerves. If the guy is even a little bit willing the intense pleasure they get will greatly override the pain, which will likely relax them, thus negating the pain quickly enough.

  • it seems like your the opposite of the chicks I been talking to. most of the chicks I talk to say the love it and the ones that do not like it at least have tolerance for it. but yea, I think is disgusting also; even though it feels better then the p**** I still would not put an a**hole over a p****, cause you can forget the p**** was made for that not the a**hole. plus we must really not forget that a**hole is where sh*t comes out of

    so going back to your question, I guess is not a bad idea to try it once. not to feel obligated either

Most Helpful Girls

  • It sounds disgusting, sure.. But it can be enjoyable, I find it depends on my mood, as I do partake.. Sometimes that's what he wants when I just want a good vag pounding but I deal with it, sometimes. You just need to play it safe and take the right precautions, such as, if you are a first timer, stretch your ass as foreplay or something, get him to finger it, or do it yourself, and then try two fingers, then whatever, so you are prepared for it, the first time isn't so great. The second has the potential to be awesome. Take it slow. Banging like the pistons in an engine doesn't feel right, just wiggling around and grinding feels better.

    I still don't think everyone should try it, but at least not condemn those that have.

  • Only if they want to try it. If you're curious and just worried about the pain, it's worth giving it a try. If you're not interested, there's really no point.

    I've tried at least a dozen times and never learned to enjoy it. Even with lube, it's never felt less than painful. My boyfriend now has tried when he was younger and didn't find it very interesting either, so it's not for everyone. My last partner didn't like it after trying it a few times, either, so I don't know why some guys think it's every man's dream.

    I do know about four females (out of a TON) that really enjoy it, though. Their orgasm involves vaginal and clitoral stimulation at the same time, though.

  • no. only if you ever want to try it. Hurts like a bitch for awhile and at first feels like you have to take a sh*t but otherwise it just feels like you have a penis inside your butt. I've been doing it since March and my butt hole is perfectly fine. The only time it will gap is if you do some extreme stuff to it

    • you'v never bled at all?

    • nope never bled. Went extra slow. It was still painful but with time it gets better. I'm just now able to actually go in and out.. still slow but were working on it lol

    • Iv made myself bleed before with butt plugs so maybe I'm doing something wrong lol

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  • No. Only those who are genuinely curious or have tried it and liked it should do it.

    The idea of sticking my wang in a hole where crap comes out is a total turn off to me. I have no desire or curiosity to try it. My wife agrees.

  • I don't think anyone should be forced to do it, but I think more women should be open to trying it. How do they know they don't like it? To make it go best use a condom, plenty of lube, some fingers to get ready and take it really slow at first.

  • Not necessarily - in spite of the fact that I want to a lot.

    While I'm up for almost anything, I do have a suggested rule which is that anything you're doing, at least one person should be turned on by. If I'm not into something but my partner is, I can get excited about them being excited. But dammit, one of us needs to be excited.

    So if a couple, both think anal is gross, even if it might feel good, if both find it unappealing, whatever.

    I guess I can say based on my rule, every partner of mine should try anal sex once :p

  • There is no quota to fill. If you and your partner feel that you are interested enough and have looked into it enough to know HOW to do it without hurting each other then you can decide for yourself.

  • Well if they feel there up for it why not? Could be missing out on something. It's a lot tighter that's all I can say.

    • Lol @ downvote. You said 'if they feel up for it'. Was that offensive? Or someone mad you suggested it might be tighter. Upvote to offset. SMH.

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  • yes

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  • try it twice, the first time you're nervous, and don't know what to expect

  • i think it is something girls should not try!a gentleman has better to offer to a lady!

    a real gentleman doesn't want to do a lady anally!

  • I don't think so. I have no plans on ever trying anal. It turns me off completely.

  • I'm not in the least bit interested in sticking my penis up a girls rear end.

  • I'm really glad I tried it, I love it.

    I had already discovered I liked it before trying it with a guy though, so maybe people should just experiment with themselves first sometimes.

    If done wrong, I imagine it could hurt. I've never felt any pain from it though, and it's never felt like taking a crap either, haha!

    The key is relaxation, lubrication, and taking it slow upon first insertion. Giving it time to adjust, after that, go for it.

    It's not everyone's thing though, so if the very idea disgusts you, it may not be for you.

  • everyone should try triple penetration once

  • No, I do not think everyone should try it once. What is tried in the bedroom is between the two people doing it. As for me personally I have never had any sexual experience with a girl. Sometimes I think I would like to try it on a girl because it would be hot, but other times I think it's disgusting because it's going up the place where another person lets their business go out.

  • Nope.

    I think people who want it should to it.

    I think people who don't want it shouldn't do it.

    People who don't want to do something shouldn't do it just because every body else CLAIMS they are doing it.

    Personally I have zero interest in it. Some men also don't want to do it.