Should I give oral sex to a co-worker?

[Anonymous]

I am a married guy. I have been working with a girl who I am sexually attracted to for about 8 months now. She is shorter but she has longer legs, really small feet and she really looks great in her work pants. When it was summer and wore kaki shorts, she really drove me nuts with her legs. In her pants or shorts, her pelvis area is so inviting. She usually leaves he shirt un tucked except in the front, which just say's to me, :come lick it". Her and I joke and flirt all day long at work. Today she cought me looking straight at her crotch. And said to me, "something looking good down there"? I said in return, "Like alway's, yes". And she said, "Oh, and what might that be"? And I said, "The same thing that I have always wondered what it tasted like for months". Her mouth dropped and her come back to this was, "well, that is something I wouldn't mind you finding out one of these days". As far as I know, if anything it would be just me giving her oral sex just because nothing else was talked about. But even though I so want to, should I perform oral sex on my co worker? Or is this a bad idea that she is a co-worker?

[Anonymous]

Attraction is human nature so of course you can't help being sexually attracted to someone. But you do not have to act on it. As others have pointed out how would you feel if your wife cheated on you gave oral sex to a co worker or lusted after them. Good sex can come from anywhere so that makes this woman a dime a dozen. And on top of it if her morals are so loose that she flirts with and attempts to have sex with married man how can you be certain she's not slinging her goods all over town. Wouldn't it be horrible if you took something incurable home to your wife. If you love your wife tell her about your sexual frustrations try and work it out. Then if your problems are beyond repair break up and f**k or e*t whatever woman you want. Doing anything else is beyond f**king selfish.

So with all of that aside I'd say that its a bad idea because if things go sour between you two work will be hell.

[SuperCurious]

"I am a married guy" so no, how about you do your wife a favor, leave her and let her know she deserves a man that will love cherish and be faithful to her.

[teasegirl]

Yes same thought

[teasegirl]

the fact that you are married doesn't f*ckin matter? I hope your wife cheats on you with your boss xDD and that that chic turns out to be a dude

[Asker]

Well, that would be one of the reasons stopping me. I have asked my wife to let me lick it more often and longer. Her sexual drive is not there anymore. So I am lucky if I get the honor four times a week. And it's only two at a time and she gets way to sensitive. Lol, I am ready to again after her second one. The first one can last as much as a half hour with some stopping to prolong it. But after the first the second is 15 or so minutes and by then a stiff breeze makes her sensitive.

[teasegirl]

you just come up like a straight up JERK! you are the type that uses as an excuse "im not getting any at home" have you ever thought about that she is not sensitive or whatever is just YOU that she doesn't want?

[Asker]

I have thought about what you mentioned. Or at least the latter part. I am getting it at home, it's just not as much as I want. Or at least the me going down on her part. I have thought about is it just me. But I don't know. Because when we go to have sex, she orgasms more times, just with it not being on the clit. I just love everything about going down on a woman and I feel I lack getting it.

[teasegirl]

you should talk to your wife about it instead of even thinking about another woman. Isn't communication important in a marriage? it seems unrealistic that you are a grown ass man and still act like a teen...

[kheserthorpe]

He's using the 'not getting it at home' even though he's getting a fair bit. Come back to me when you have 12 month dry spells like I've had.

[parkway]

Instead of asking the public, why don't you ask your wife.

There was a question on this site about a cat pooping all over the place, were they talking about you. Do you poop where you work? Poop where you eat? Poop on your wife?

What a guy

Be careful what you ask for, that may be the beaver with a bite. I know a guy like you and when he went down for the time of his life, she told him to close his eyes and pulled out a willie wanka.

Good luck

[HandsomeRaj]

Go on and do it if both of you want to do it instead of pepping up the tension and then winding up showing it on work and / or to others around.

Just mind for (1) STD (2) that you are a married guy, so anything that spills beyond limits will take a toll not only on your marriage but work and career too.

Everything like this starts cause it's exciting but then there are other things to look into too :)

[peace-love-couture]

I think we now understand why marriage is no longer sacred Guys take it as a joke

[HandsomeRaj]

marriage my lady is a social binding supported by religion created for various good reasons but certainly not created by nature something like humans are omnivorous. The very fact that a question has been asked here says that they may do it & want to do it. I just gave my views :) the moment that thought comes into someone's head it's clear that they haven't thought about repurcussions leave alone 'marriage'. What I consider sacred is only true feelings between 2 people :)

[Asker]

Other than customers on occasions. There is really no one else around.

[HandsomeRaj]

you are looking at it narrow buddy, I've written it with wider persepective ;) someone being around or not is immaterial - if you are into exhibitionism it's upto you both. I realize the feeling you both have is a very tingling & exciting one but work out towards what I've said in (1) & (2) in my answer :) good luck with everything

[SuperCurious]

This is pathetic. Some men are faithful and love being with one woman, other men that do not want to be faithful should not get married. If he wants to be with another woman he needs to leave his wife. This whole situation is f***ed up.

[HandsomeRaj]

That's his call young lady, he asked a question & I answered it logically. I stick to answering anyone on that count only practically & logically with words of caution and disclaimer if and when required :) which is what I've done here. I really don't think we should be opining here :D :)

[SuperCurious]

It's still pathetic

[HandsomeRaj]

Depends on perception young lady. Me for instance I don't even believe in the institution of marriage as how the society sees and perceives it. I strongly believe in purity of intent & oneness in the heart & mind of 2 people no matter what the relationship is named. I believe that a relationship of any form 1st has to either have understanding each other or being on the same wavelength or both :)

[SuperCurious]

Your right IMO on the last part but I feel that perception has nothing to do with going through and cheating. Unless he an his wife have an open relationship then it's all wrong.

[HandsomeRaj]

I agree with you 100% young lady but the point is his question was aimed at something else and we are answering him on other aspects that has relevantly nothing to do with his question apart from moral grounds lol ;) ha ha

[SuperCurious]

His question states "should I" my answer is 100% relevant :)

[HandsomeRaj]

s? signora sono d'accordo con te al 100% wow you are so aggressive and upright always though you may (read MAY) sound opinionated that I find cute (not in a sexist form please). Ammetto la sconfitta e correggo :D

[SuperCurious]

I have no clue what half of that says XD I'm not trying to be aggressive, I just feel strongly against cheaters. Best quote I have ever read was "A relationship is not a test, so why cheat?" and thanks lol

[HandsomeRaj]

si signora sono d'accordo con te al 100% = Yes madame I agree with you 100% Ammetto la sconfitta e correggo = I admit defeat & stand corrected :D I didn't mean to say you are aggressive the way you understood it, I meant it as a +ve trait :D Good luck to you :) & god speed

[SuperCurious]

Ah thank you lol good luck and God speed to you as well

[xxjetaime]

Honestly, I dislike guys like you. Would you want your wife cheating on you with one of her coworkers? You should put yourself in her position, if you feel like cheating then there's definitely something wrong in your marriage..

[adamretex81]

Do it bro!. Why are you even hesitating or asking about it.

She's hot. your wife will never find out. go for it.

otherwise it'll always be on your mind and you won't be able to work.

[Chanel123]

Dude. You're married! Remember that lady called your wife?

[cavmanier]

Seriously?

[Asker]

Yes. Strange things happen when a man and a woman work together.

[cavmanier]

I get the man and woman thing but your married. Are you in a marriage were your not into each other physically and you just don't want to leave each other?

[temptationfalls]

The only thing that is causing me to say no is that you're married.

How would you feel if she blew some guy she worked with?

Stay faithful man. It looks like the main drive for you is the boredom at work and the lack of sex at home. Romance the wife a bit. That might help kick up her sex drive.

[TwiztedTD]

Fist issue is your married...

Would you mind if your wife gave another guy a BJ?

[Teheuwjs]

I wouldn't, I am actually trying to figure out how to get my wife to do just that. I have been pestering her for months to find a guy she can suck while I watch and jack off. Probably going to file for divorce over this honestly. Especially since she had told me prior to marrying that she had no qualms about me being a voyeur and would be willing to have sex with other men. Now all of a sudden she doesn't want to satisfy my sexual proclivities? Eff that noise, hope she has fun being a single mom and daddy shopping!

[dudeinohio]

observe this: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2356329-dating-co-workers-is-bad-did-you-realize-the-consequences

[Anonymous]

He'll yeah go for it make her cum

[Anonymous]

You are MARRIED, you JERK!

Come to your senses.

How I sympathize your wife!

[teasegirl]

This guy is just too much

[Opinion Owner]

I wonder if he's really 30 to 35! How immature!

[Anonymous]

Mixing your personal and work life is unwise.

[HandsomeRaj]

THAT I agree on principle :)

[Anonymous]

It doesn't sound like a very classy workplace so who cares go ahead and do whatever you want.

[Asker]

It is not really. It's her and I that work alone all day and no one else is around. Once the work is done, it gets pretty boring.