Should I give up dancing (stripping) for a guy?

Basically my boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago because I'm a dancer and I lied to him about it...i told him I had stopped dancing to protect him since I knew it upset him. I rather have him then have money but all my friends think I'm crazy for quitting the industry for a guy. I want him back though. In short I don't know what to do?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You call it The Industry like it's some respectable business, it's not it's basically a step closer to whoring. We all have bills to pay honey but we don't have to sell ourselves, he broke up with you because it's not an environment where it's easy to be faithful, is it. If your taking your clothes off for money what else will you do for money.

  • It depends.

    Can you see yourself with this guy for a long time? Can he see himself with you for a long time? Are you being smart with the money you are making, ei putting some away for the future because you can't do that forever?

    Ask yourself these questions and see if it is any clearer.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Give him your bills for a month, bar tabs, hair, nails and all: "Either you or the pole pays these--your call." Then you'll know how serious he is.

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  • Soooo... out of curiosity, what exactly do you do during a lap dance?

  • Lets talk it over while I eat some wings and you give me a lap dance?

  • Keep dancing. No question about it.