Should a guy like this even try in anything?

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If a guy has a 5 inch penis should he even try in anything? should he date a girl or even have sex? is that considered small?

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MrOracle Master
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"I don't think I'm good enough for average to gorgeous girls"

First, very, very, very few women decide who to date based on penis size. In most cases, they have no clue what size you are until they are already dating you and have feelings for you.

Second, that WILL prevent women from dating you is this self-pitying attitude you have. No one wants to be around a person who is down on themselves all the time. That is orders of magnitude more likely to prevent a girl from liking you than your penis size ever will be.

Third, you need to worry less about what a girl looks like, and more about the kind of person she is. Most girls aren't supermodels, and having experience with lots of models, I can tell you that most of them wouldn't make good girlfriends either.

Last, it's your life. You can live it however you choose. If you keep acting the way you are here, you'll likely be alone for the rest of your life, and that will be YOUR CHOICE. Or, you could CHOOSE to quit worrying about crap you can't change and focus on the things you can, especially since those things are what girls REALLY care about. And that would almost assure that you'd have success with women.

But the choice is yours. You decide.
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- Asker
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  but 5 is borderline small.. I don't want to have sex like that
- MrOracle
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  Then don't. Choose to be lonely and miserable. It's your life, and the choice is yours. You are free to live like you want to, even if that means you are lonely and frustrated. Just know that you *can* choose another path. But no one can make you; you have to WANT to and probably do a bit of work. The easy path is rarely the most rewarding path.
- Asker
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  there\'s no point trying.. most girls will have had bigger partners than me
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- MrOracle
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  Who are you trying to convince? Me, or yourself? I already know that penis size doesn't matter to the majority of women. But if you choose to believe otherwise, then fine. Think however you want. Just stop complaining about the consequence of the choices you're making, because you can change those consequences as quickly as you can change your mind. You just choose not to. You've made your choice, so live with the consequences.
G_GTom Yoda
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Yes he should try at several things:

1. You should try to avoid women posting here. They will not be happy with your size.

2. You should try to earn a good living because that is something you can control, but be sure not to share it with women who look down on your size :)

3. You should try to find a woman who has a vagina that is similar in size to your penis.

See just a few things you can try at. :)
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Anonymous
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Am I too late for the pity party? rofl jk calm down hun you're average and you can still please a woman and have a happy life now go young grasshopper and get a girlfriend.
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- Asker
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  what can I do to be a more desired lover?
Anonymous
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five inches sounds good to me

i can get off with just one finger, which is like 3 inches, so there is nothing to worry about with a 5 incher
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oOsweet~o~nessOo Xper 6
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No dude.

5-6 inches is average.

Now go get laid...
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- Blaxican619
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  Well said
- Asker
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  I don't think I'm good enough for average to gorgeous girls
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  Let me rephrase that: No dude. 5-6 inches is average. You need to build up your confidence. Then go get laid...
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- Asker
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  5 is borderline small though
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  No five is average. Quit downplaying your size - it's getting annoying. Majority of guys are 5-6 inches, hell more are 5 than 6 so what's the problem? It's you who keeps over analyzing and rejecting the idea that your actually sexually competent and will blow some chicks mind - STOP HATING ON YOURSELF STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT Okay?
- Asker
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  ok but I don't think 5 inches could blow a girl's mind.. maybe please her but just OK not great
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  Dude a 9 inch penis can't blow a girl's mind if the guy doesn't know what the f*** he's doing; Sex is a skill - it takes practice to learn and practice makes perfect. Get some books, watch some p*rns, take some classes, google is your best friend - there's a billion things you can do than just wallow in your own needless pity because you THINK your small.
- Asker
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  I already know a lot but I just don't want to have sex because I don't think I'm desirable
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  Well then, the problem definitely isn't your penis; it's you. You need to work on building your confidence up for yourself. You already admitted you know a good thing or two about sex - okay that's a plus. Your probably a lot better looking than you think, and have a lot to offer any girl. You just need to quit beating yourself up so much, and take pride in your nice attributes, as well as accepting your flaws.
- Asker
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  so my penis is a flaw? thanks
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  Okay your just being really pathetic now - why the f*** would I say your penis is fine, then say it's a f***ing flaw? I NEVER F***ING SAID THAT. Quit being so pititful and pull your ass together. Your a grown ass man! Your actin like a little adolescent kid - If you keep thing negative about sh*t, you'll always feel negative about what you have. YOU DICK IS FINE. God quit being so f***ing pathetic about it.
- Asker
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  given the choice between the two which would you take? a big penis with skills or a small-average penis with skills exactly
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  I'd take whichever penis is connected to the better guy - because I don't know - there's more to a guy than his f***ing size. And I'm naturally smaller so a bigger penis would hurt me anyway. Huuuh. Dude. Penis size just doesn't f***ing matter. Like 15% of the female population purposely seeks a guy for his size - obviously you don't want some chick who's been with some 20 incher because she'll be loser - and huge penis dudes are rare anyways. Ay...come on man get some damn confidence.
- Asker
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  if they were the exact same in every other way which would you pick?
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  I told you, the average guy because of my physiology.
- Asker
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  you're a virgin right?
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  Yea, but so is my friend. Like she can use dildos and stuff, the normal sized ones and they hurt me so much when I use them. So I believe I'm just smaller or less stretchy or something lol - big penises are terrifying
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  try to use them*
- Asker
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  ok so you don't know what you're talking about you will use an average sized one to break you in and eventually you will be like all the other girls who want big ones
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  No probably not. I don't care for penis size at all. It's irrelevant to the man the penis is attached to. Your too insecure to understand that. When you grow up - we can continue this discussion.
- Asker
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  go do some reading on the internet about what girls like you may be in the minority but that doesn't mean what I'm talking about doesn't exist
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  Reading on what? That the majority of men are 5 - 6 inches? And the majority of women don't fret about penis size? That men have an odd slightly obssessive connection with their penises that make the world seem to revolve around how big a guy is? It doesn't. Grow the hell up dude. So many 5 - 6 inch guys get p**** everyday so don't try and pull that pity sh*t. Maybe the day when all women close their legs to 5-6 inch guys for only 8+ inch dudes - is the day the human race will die out.
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  So get out of your damn feelings - get some damn confidence AND GO GET F***ING LAID
- Asker
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  I'm 5 inches... that's small.. I don't want to disappoint a girl with the fact that she will have to stay loyal to me with a 5 inch penis... I know girls have needs and my tool just isn't enough
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  Ay ay ay - you said you have skills so what's the problem? Women aren't sexually oriented like men - we look for dudes for the emotional sense. Sex is nice and all, but we don't found our relationship off of that. Often it's the dudes who can't tolerate bad sex for too long - so you'll be fine. Her loyalty lies in you - not your damn penis.
- Asker
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  why would a girl not want good emotional and sex? why choose just one?
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  Because we're chicks - that's just how we roll. That emotional connection is hard to find, hard to build, and hard to maintain; sex is a skill - that can be adjusted or improved any day. Sex just doesn't hold as much ground for girls as does the other things we seek in a guy. We look for fathers, not just sexual partners - and a good father is much more than just what he can do in the sack.
- Asker
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  you're in the minority, I know a lot of girls still care because any time a guy mentions his size all the girls love it and crack jokes or flirt with him
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  So what. Guys crack jokes and giggle and laugh about girls with big titties and asses - and go off and marry some flat chested no booty girl. What's your point? Anyway - the media brainwashes men into thinking their penises have to be gigantic to be a man - masculinity stems much deeper than penis size. And I'm not the minority - I'm the majority ^^
- Asker
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  you are not the majority, this site and the internet have proven that
- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  Most girls on this site think the same way I do - and real life speaks louder than anything on the internet. I'm tired of this discussion. You have your own issues to work out. Best of luck getting those demons out of your head...
- Asker
  +1 y
  you are stupid if you think most girls on this site think like you thanks for nothing

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TurbulentDan12 Yoda
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Google is your friend.

I think guys with 5 inch penis have had sex before. You'll be fine.
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ketfoen Guru
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girls won't like you for your penis, they will like you for your personality and overall appearance. If they are only interested in your pens, something is wrong with them and not worth the effort.

What the hell made you think like this anyways? I think you have confidence problems or chasing girls that are out of your league, or your just trolling to get sorry replies from girls here
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- Asker
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  no man this is really depressing me because 5 is borderline small... I have a small penis it feels really bad I don't know how I can be confident with this
- ketfoen
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  where the hell do guys come up with this stuff? if your not comfortable about your size, no one will be. You can just forget about it then.
- Asker
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  you don't understand me or ?
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- ketfoen
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  or I'm naturally well endowed, yup. I'm sowing my seeds, you in your current state will never be able too, because you think like that. Now hate me and do something about it.
- Asker
  +1 y
  ok so there you go, you don't understand where I'm coming from so don't act like you do
- ketfoen
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  i already know enough, I read your other comments. your from planet depressing
- Asker
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  you don't know anything, you've never felt like I have
Brando Xper 3
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If he's pitying himself, then yes save the other guys trying the trouble and girls.
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- Asker
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  you don't understand
- Brando
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  Explain it to me then.
- Asker
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  you don't have issues with your penis size, you're above average don't act like you know how I feel
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- Brando
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  I didn't say I knew how you feel, I was implying to not throw yourself pity parties. If you're really stressing this much over your penis size then you probably shouldn't be dating. If you think a girl is so concerned about your penis size (seeing as she won't even know until you strip off), then you have some insecurity issues to work through. Take my advice or leave it.
- Asker
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  you are in no position to give advice about insecurity
- Brando
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  And why's that?
- Asker
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  your penis is not something you have been insecure about come back when you have a small penis
- Brando
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  So by your thinking, people who offer advice must be in the same situation as those they're offering advice to? Should a psychiatrist that is helping a patient also be in a bad mental state? You're thinking with your insecurities and that's what I'm pointing out to you. But you're not wanting to listen, only wanting to get defensive.
- Asker
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  you don't know anything about this subject.. so your "advice" is useless
- Brando
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  I don't know about penises? I don't know about self-esteem? I don't know about irrationality? You are wrong, wrong again, and wrong once more. Got anything else? Ready to listen to people on an ADVICE site?
- Asker
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  you have NOTHING to worry about with your size, skill is something you can learn but a guy like me can't learn getting bigger I get it, you're confident in your size and you have every reason to be but don't think your methods work for me
- Brando
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  I NEVER ONCE MENTIONED MY SIZE...we are talking about YOU here! I am telling you that your insecurities are blinding you from seeing how people (mainly girls) really act. And you still continue to show that you feel gutted about your size. Are you ready to talk about that, or are you going to keep wasting time and changing subjects?
- Asker
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  facts are facts, and fact is that I'm not desirable because of something I have zero control over... and the only reason I bring up your size is because you have not felt how I'm feeling so you can't advise me on any part of that
- Brando
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  Every guy thinks about his size, so don't give me that. What I'm trying to tell you is that it's not your penis size. You don't walk around advertising it to the world. Nobody but you knows your size. What you ARE advertising to the world is that you are letting your low self-esteem bring you down and misguide you. That can really put people off from you, and is your cause of this whole viscous circle.
- Asker
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  I don't care how people precieve me... I care that no girl will WANT to be with this size.. sure they will settle if they really like me, but do YOU want to be settled for?
- Brando
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  ARE you getting settled for? Or is that just what you're telling yourself?
- Asker
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  I know I would get settled for... no girl on here would WANT (key word want, meaning prefer) a 5 inch penis ...
- Brando
  +1 y
  Ok so going back to my original answer, why are we in such disagreement when I say that you shouldn't try? You got upset when I answered with that, but it seems like both of us are saying that you shouldn't try.
- Asker
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  ok fine just know that you are one cold as ice person
- Brando
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  Because I'm not patting your head and appeasing your insecurities? I tell it straight and don't sugar coat things.
- Asker
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  no it's fine I should just find a way to leave all this behind painlessly
- Brando
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  Which is what I was trying to help you do, but you just figured I'm not fit to be giving you advice. So you don't want to hear what I'm advising you, and you don't like me agreeing with you after a while that you should quit trying. What else do you want me to do?
- Asker
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  nothing, just don't try to advise any guy on penis size when you know nothing about the insecurity of it
- Brando
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  Don't assume that I've never been concerned about my size, like most all guys have.
- Asker
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  you are something above 7 inches why would you ever be concerned about your size?
- Brando
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  Before I knew what I was. Plus, I've never had sex so I still need to learn how to use it. But we're getting off topic again. You're refusing to listen to me because you think that I'm some arrogant dude or something?
- Asker
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  yes, because you are secure in yourself... I don't think you would be if you had 5 inches
- Brando
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  AHA! You said I am secure in myself, implying that you aren't. Are you starting to see what I've been telling and hinting at you all along?
- Asker
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  I know I'm insecure and I have every right to be.. so what?
- Brando
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  Well if like the answerer above me said, if you choose to be insecure that's your choice. I'm just trying to help you out but if you are willingly being insecure without trying to help it, then it's up to you.
- Asker
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  what do you suggest I do? surgery? I know 5 inches will not be the best a girl has ever had and what good am I if I'm not my girl's best lover?
WoIIie Guru
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5 inches is good enough for lots of girls.

Just be weary that if you find a girl with a huge vagina, she might make you feel like crap. Don't let that bother you, though. There are plenty of goods fits out there for your size.
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Ezmotts Guru
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Quit worrying about your d*** and enjoy life.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  sex is a big part of life and relationships
icarainbow2 Xper 4
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Five inches isn't too small. You should live your life normally.
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Anonymous
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Your fine man think about the poor suckers with 3 or 4 inches! Just worry about getting it nice and deep during sex. Vaginas are only about 5-6 inches deep
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- Asker
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  some people say it is 8 inches.. I won't be able to get deep like girls want
- Opinion Owner
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  Maybe 8 inches on a freaken 6' tall girl. Lol don't worry about it man. Stop being so self-concious
- Asker
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  I try to man but it feels bad thinking that I was born like this
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- oOsweet~o~nessOo
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  Nope vajajays don't go very deep; actually they are 3 - 4 inches deep; a girl can touch her own cervix with just her index finger. Vaginas are like rubberbands - they stretch as much as needed or how much pull is being applied, from the hole circumfrance to the depth of the organ. Your fine. Now go get some...