Should I ask him to get tested for STDs?

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend now for about a month. We love each other and have discussed having sex eventually. I am a virgin and he is not. He has slept with a few people before in his past. Would it be wrong or weird to ask him to get tested? He said he has never had unprotected sex and I trust him completely. I have had the HPV protection shots and would be on birth control. He would be wearing condoms. I trust that he doesn't have any diseases, but my mom was talking to me last night making sure I was being smart about things. I think that conversation made me nervous and now I am REALLY overthinking things. What would you do in my situation? I really feel like we are both positive that he doesn't have anything. Should I still talk to him about getting tested? Thank you!
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  • if he gives you shit about it, you should be suspicious. he should be happy to do that for you especially if that will get him laid

  • yeah

  • ask him

  • If he has a problem with getting tested at your request then he really isn't the guy for you, if he really cares about you like you think he does then he'd want you to have peace of mind.

  • i would have it get tested. it better to be safe than sorry.

  • If it would make you feel safe then do it

  • Ask him. It's responsible. You can get them done free many places.