Should I become a pornstar to loose my virginity?

My 18th birtjday is in a few months and I'm still a virgin so I pretty much failed at life. I know that no woman will want to have sex with an 18yo virgin not even a 16yo virgin is attractive. I think the only way I can have sex is to become a pornstar. I dont want to because I probably have to take shots and pills all the time but its the only way to loose my virginity
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You all aren helping me I did come for advice Im complaining because noones giving me the advice I want noones giving me the advice on how to get laid everyones just saying be a loser
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  • seriously dude, you need too get a life. Life is not about losing your V card, it doesn't make any more of a man or less of a man. If you want to be a porn star, do it because you love sex, and want to entertain people.

    Living a life that follows the ideal notions of what other people think is a terrible way to live. It makes you become the spineless spectator who waits for other people to take action first. It makes you become a follower.
    Worst of all, it makes you become someone who doesn't take a stand for anything.

    Today is the last day we live a life dictated by others. Today, we’re going to get to the bottom of the truth. Today is the day we stop giving a fuck.
    Here is two videos, i suggest watch them, and learn the meaning of what rocky is saying

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkJLTGweKl0https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UN4Y6WSzS1Y
    • The worst thing about you, is your attitude is nothing bur sickening to women, no women will want to touch you, because they can see a needy and desperate weak man. If you are desperate needy person, all your going to do is, repel women like a vampire hates garlic. Women want a man, that knows what he wants out of life, not a boy that is desperate and needy on them, looking to take his V card. relationships are hard work, and don't always revolve around sex. Its not a womens responsibility to take your vcard. Women are sexual objects, that owe sex, they are human beings, that want love, attention, and to be cared for. They all only give you sex, cause she loves you, and you are going to be the protector for her offspring

    • Women are not sexual objects, so stop treating them like a object. ^^

    • Sorry I might be horrible, I just telling how it is in the real world. I am not on this site to blow smoke your arse or anyone for that matter. Other people can sugar coat it for you. But I won't do it for anyone. kids or adults.

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  • Being a virgin is FINE, dude! Besides, full disclosure, being a male pornstar sucks! To get into the business you will likely have to do gay porn first. Female pornstars are treated pretty badly, and males are treated worse. You can't cum until the shot is perfect and you have to keep trying until you get the right angle, the right sound, the right movements, and the right lighting. In other words your stuff will be sore for days because it's NOT REAL SEX. It's acting. Besides that you will be treated like a lesser and all the attention and help will be to your partner or the director. Besides, think of how it will effect you. There will be video of you doing various sex acts on the Internet FOREVER. Just don't do it, man.

    • I dont care I just want to loose this virginity so I can be happy

    • If you are so desperate then find an escort. Seriously man, are you willing to go through so much pain, suffering, anguish, and frustration just to get your dick wet? It's not even that big of a deal to be a virgin.

    • Being a virgin IS pain and suffering its a punishment

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  • Why the hell would you want to waste it on that?

    Just because your 18 and still a virgin doesn't mean you fail at life. I didn't lose mine till like 17 but it was still a couple of months before I turned 18. Honestly i kind of wish i hadn't have lost it but what can you do.

    With the attitude your giving. Your never going to get laid by anyone. So a good start is to fix your mind set.

    Losing your virginity isn't some amazing thing that makes life 100% better. Even if you lose it you still can fail at life. There are worse things that you can fail at doing. Losing your virginity isn't one of those.

  • Whoa, what a drama king. Seriously bad idea.

    First of all, who would hire you to do porn? You are inexperienced. You might not even lose your virginity to a girl then. What if they cast you as a gay porn star?
    And you are brainswashed by society to think you are less of a man because you haven't lost your virginity. That is fucking bullshit. Gurls who have brains will not reject you for being a virginity. Mist don't care. Some find it a turn on or a must. You are 18. Seriously. You have time.

    • You said girls with brains dont reject a guy because he's a virgin so that means all women are brainless then?

    • Most women have brains and will not reject you. If you are running after the hot sicial bitches, then you are out of luck. You clearly haven't even met enough women if you assume mist will reject you. Get out there and meet new people.

    • Ok common sense... no woman will ever want an inexperienced guy, thats like buying a soaked and shattered phone

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  • you are being soooo overdramatic 18 is super young and honestly no one cares. Porn is a really fucked up industry do you really want to ruin your life over something so stupid? You know what they do on porn sets? They do hard drugs you will end up heroin addicted with a bunch of painful stds THEN I can assure you no normal person will have sex with you!

    • I know but its the only way girls like men not virgins

    • Trust me you are being a total drama queen, lots of girls would think it's cute and be less intimidated if they are virgins too. You are barely out of high school or still in high school correct? If anything you are not even really mature enough to be having sex. I didn't have sex until I was basically 19 it's no big deal so just chill. No one cares as much as you think they do.

    • I have hormones and a good body so I shouldve had sex while I was still young

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  • dude. you are only 18. you are way to young to be saying that. also being a male virgin at 18 isn't abnormal. it's 100% normal; i believe statistically having sex in your teen years is abnormal. i'm sure you will get laid in the future, you have plenty of time.

    • But I have hormones for a reason and I dont have plenty of time

    • you have plenty of time: literally your whole life. you'll still be able to have sex when you're an old man. i'm sure you'll get laid before that. most girls aren't going to care if your a virgin anyways. it's really not that big of a deal so don't worry about it.

    • What about the past

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  • I think you're being a bit over dramatic...

    My partner was 20 and still a virgin and i did not have a problem with that lol. not many people would.

    • I have a problem with myself being a virgin

  • You should lose it to someone you care about.
    The right person will come along!
    I'm a virgin but I'm old-fashioned and waiting till marriage. (My boyfriend respects my decision :D)

  • No man, losing your virginity should be a special moment with a special one, not something you should get over and done with. If you have a respectful girlfriend she will respect that you're still a virgin. Being 18yo and virgin is not a problem, and it's normal, everyone loses their virginity at their own pace. Don't worry about being a virgin at your age, you're still young, for some it's even attractive to have a 18yo and virgin. Don't stress and find your pace with a special one :-).

    • exactly!!! :)

    • Couples dont have sex

    • Couples do have sex, the difference between losing your virginty with a special one and a pornstar is that with a special one it is real love, since she loves you and you love her, while with porn it just is a job, after it's done they go home like nothing ever happened, which is not a nice and fun way to lose your virginity.

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  • You can't speak for every single girl out there.. some won't even care that your a virgin as long as she's attracted to you. You don't need to become a pornstar to lose it, just be confident, and get rid of your perceived view on a thing that won't matter to most girls.

    • Its common sex would a girl have sex w/ a virgin or a man?

    • Depends who you meet, and do you tell every girl your a virgin? There are girls out there that won't care, but yeah they are more likely to sleep with a guy who ain't a virgin, but that doesn't mean they won't.

    • *Common sense

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  • I would 100% rather have sex with a guy who's a virgin. I'm also 18 and a virgin which isn't weird either. I had my first kiss at 17 years old. Ok I would never have sex with you bc you're an asshole. But I'd rather have sex with a virgin I guess bc then I feel like they won't know if I'm bad bc there'll be nothing to compare it to.

    • Seriously? how am I an asshole?

  • Lol some in korea dont have sex until their 30 because in their culture they count as teenager until their 30 and you complain that You're 18 and a virgin? Wake up!

    • But Im horny, will you abstain from eating just because you're under 18?

    • Well, then just fuckin get a Lady! What do you look like? Godzilla? I've never seen a Girl saying "Oh nah, I dont fuck with him, he's 18" are you dense? If they dont like you then its because of your lack of self conciousness. Get a Girl without starring at her like a Perverted Pig, be cute to her and dont start the talk about sex. Let her start after 1-2 months. She won't break up and say "Oh well why didn't you tell me beforehand, bye". Just be like a good boyfriend should be and you'll get pussy but going into the pornindustrie to lose virginity is the worst idea I've ever heared.

    • I dont know how to get girls Im not a player thats why I asked this question hoping people will give me the steps on how to loose this damn virginity so I can finally be happy

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  • Where on earth did you grow up that you're supposed to lose your virginity by 16, or even 18?

    • And if you're serious about this, it's a very bad idea. Pornstars are experienced at having sex and making it sound over-the-top sexy. You can't just walk in and say "I want to get laid, and someone should pay me for it."

    • Im supposed to loose my virginity 11-15. Virgins 16+ get laughed at by girls

    • No, you're just trolling. You're not supposed to lose your virginity at 11. You can't expect me to believe that you believe that.

  • What the heck is crossing your mind?

  • No, it isn't worth it, for a long list of reasons.

  • Nobody is going to hire a male virgin as a pornstar. There's no market for it. Also the standards for being a male pornstar are probably higher than what they are for a girl.

    • How am I supposed to loose my virginity women dont like middleaged virgins either

  • Dude this is funny cause to be a porn star you need skillz so you would be at a disadvantage. And you shouldn't do it cause it would be weird having sex for the first time with 5-20 people watching. And trust me to don't want to go through the interview process for male pornstars.

    • How else am I gonna get laid?

    • There are lots of ways: Sex clubs Online dating sites Your neighbor Cough *prostitute* cough College Parties

    • College girls won't have sex with virgins

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  • That's a terrible way to lose your virginity besides unless you posses a massive penis your unlikely to get a job in the straight porn industry and probably end up in gay porn.
    Then you'll be losing your virginity in a way you never imagined :P

    • I'd sign up for the specific things I want to do

  • You don't have to be a porn start to lose your virginity, and you will more than likely regret it. Save it for a girl that you feel comfortable with. Trust me when I say that saving it for girl that you love is a lot more rewarding than losing it by being a porn star.
    Being a porn star is no easy task either.

    • No girl will be comfortable with an 18yo virgin thats like buying a broken xbox

    • Oh yeah they will, you ill meet her one day. I can't say when, but it will. Just give it time.

    • 6 years have went by and Im still a virgin

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  • Good luck becoming a pornstar as a virgin. Lol.

    • Well once I do my first shoot I'll be a man and then I'll quit porn

    • If you actually succeeded, why would you quit?

    • because my goal is to lose my virginity

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  • Do you qualify to become a porn star? (the only things that count are penis size, a virile' face, muscles.)

    By the way, it is NOT a good way to lose your virginity that way.

    • Bruh Im 17 there's no other way

  • That is a terrible idea.

    • What other choice do I have I can't have sex with girls because I'm a virgin but If its all acting then it might not matter for me

  • Please learn to differentiate lose and loose before you attempt at penetrating someone with your penis..

  • You are over exaggerating this... it is not too much of a problem:)

    • Its not a prollem if you dont care but I do care

    • Its not that I am not caring its that I am saying you are over-exagerating this. And that it is and remains unimportant.

    • By the way I give you 2/10 0n this troll.

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  • Don't think you have the resume to be a pornstar

  • try the women on dating site or try a call girls.

    • No woman wants to date a virgin

    • Try on face book. many virgin women want virgin guys only.

    • Thats not true women like men not virgins

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