Should I let him take me from behind?

I have been dating this guy for like 4 months. now and I wanna sleep with him but I don't want him to think that I am quick. How long should I wait before letting him inside of me?
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im also a virgin by the way but I really like him
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Most Helpful Girls

  • 'When; to hve sex, is not about time.

    Its about trust. and respect.

    If you are still worried hell think you are easy, then you do not -imo- TRUST him enough to have sex with him.

    When you are ready you guys ill be comfortable discussing w/e question, fears etc you or he, may have bout it.

    If you can't communicate verbally, you are not ready to communicate sexually-imo.

    Also, (virgin myself so I can't exactly personally testify here). From what I hear... taking a virgin from behind- is not ideal. So unless you have been using dildos& are stretched out like a non virgin.. you may want to choose a less painful position.

    Whatever you do choose, you want him to be very , very, very gentle.

    • ;-) good luck:)

  • Then since you're a virgin, you should really wait till you are ready to have sex with someone, not because you "really like him". Think about it first.

    • i would not take a bullet for him but there are feelings

    • My best advice for you is to wait a little longer, especially if you won't take a bullet for him. Feelings are just mutual, just don't regret what you do that's all. Some girls regret it.

  • I think that it is perfectly okay to let him inside of you as long as you both know your boundaries. Go for it!

Most Helpful Guys

  • lol 4 months is a lot longer than most people go now a days. If you feel you're read y and trust him then go for it.

  • Four months really isn't too fast. He's probably exploding in his pants.

    • lollol

    • LOL

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  • I wait a year till he gets into my pants lol

    • Seriously? Do you at least give him handjobs/blowjobs?

    • yes, everything he wants.

    • In that case I'd be able to wait a year, if I really liked her.

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  • If your'e ready, then your'e ready. Lol, four months is a long time for a guy.

  • Hmmm.. well you waited this long, why not wait until you start collecting social security.

  • Yea he's probably about to blow

  • I think that's long enough.