Should I make him wear a condom for a BJ?

[Anonymous]

What if he has stds or something I don't wanna risk it?

[samanthafaye]

okay personally... I don't give random guys head, guys I'm with get head after dating them for a little while, once I'm comfortable with them, and you know about they're sexual background and go over the std talk and check.. I do that if I have any doubts about the guy I'm with.

yes, it is recommended that you use a condom, but..

I never have because I think it would be awkward to be like, hey so before I suck your d*** I'm going to put a condom on.. I don't knnow how many people actually do that so I don't know how a guy would take it, and uncomfortable, for yourself.. which is a stupid answer but I'm just being honest..

Its your call obviously.

[Asker]

Hes my boyfriend and we have been dating for a while not a random guy.

[samanthafaye]

Then go get checked out together, then you won't need to worry and be spending twice the amount of money on condoms.

[Asker]

Is is an insult to ask him to get checked because we are both very inexperienced and I'm afraid he will be upset?

[samanthafaye]

Well the inexperience makes me think he would be far less likely to have an std, but I don't think its really insulting, if he cares about you, and you say something like, we should both go get checked, WE. besides, once that's out of the way your free to do things like giving head without being worried he has something.... righhhhhhhht. :) haha.

[Asker]

Yep that's very true good point I guess when it gets closer to the time when we are ready to have sex then I will tell him that I wanna get tested.

[SweetestSinxxx]

All of that sounds really extreme. Its just a freaking bj. checking someone out like that shows a lack of trust.

[Anonymous]

i agree with what jerseyse410 said. if your really worried he has something then get tested. and then you can stop living in fear. oh and the condom will taste bad. latex isn't too tasty...lol there are flavored condoms you can try but that's kinda defeats the purpose of a BJ. if he's anything like me then there's no way he will get off with a condom on. hell I don't even get off without one.

[cjwright79]

Hmm. If it makes you more comfortable you should absolutely insist. Perhaps you may decide it is unneeded as you get going... perhaps not. But it's your mouth, so you are free to lay down some ground rules.

[dave216]

Sounds like a sensible approach too me. If he won't do it, don't blow it.

[jerseyse410]

Personally, I would prefer to get tested with my girl and make a day of it and that way everything is completely comfortable and then you don't have to worry. Condom on during a blowjob is a bit awkward and signifies deeper trust issues.

[Allieloves123]

it's up to you

[Anonymous]

He probably would be insulted

[Anonymous]

Lol maybe ask him to get tested

[Anonymous]

if your putting his d*** in your mouth, he could put on a training bra full of spaghetti.

tell him what you just said, as a precaution.

note condoms might taste worse than the skin, just saying...(jk)