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Should I tell him to bring condoms?

ok so this guy I have been talking to is coming to visit me this week. I spent the night at his place but nothing sexual went down. Now he is coming to my place and I'm not sure how the night will end. if things go well we might have sex. But the thing is I'm not sure. I want him to have condoms just in case it happens but I don't want to tell him to make sure he has condoms and I decide I'm not ready. So do I tell him to bring condoms even through we might not do it? Or should I just assume he will bring one just in case?
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question for the guys: would it look like I have sex all the time if I already have condoms? What would you think if a girl had condoms?
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ok the next question is what size to get? I saw a picture of it and it was big! I'm talking at 8 inches easily. so now do I get the Magnum or the magnum xl? lets just say he is 9 or a little bigger would it matter?
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  • You go get some condoms. That way you don't have to feel bad if you don't want to. If you do decide you want to have sex you having condoms will make him a little more comfortable and confident cause he knows that he is not the only one thinking about sex

  • You ask him to bring them... he'll assume sex

    You have them... you've planned sex

    Both are turn ons, nice ;)

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  • Get the normal magnums

  • If the box is unopened I wouldn't think you have sex all the time. I would think you were just being prepared...hopefully for me haha. Well him in this case, I didn't mean me personally

  • You can't assume that! YOU buy the condoms and you'll be sure they're there if and when they are needed. That way if he "forgets" accidentally or on purpose, you'll be ready.

    Serious. It's a small price to pay.

  • I expect everybody who cares about pregnancy and STDs to carry condoms. I seriously question the judgement of people who don't.

  • Go buy some.

    • I wouldn't care if a girl had condoms.

    • I think the websites have sizing charts. If in doubt, get a variety.

    • Just be sure you tell him you got them for him and didn't know the size. Leaving the boxes unopened is a good idea.

  • yea it would look like you have a lot of sex if you have condoms.

    • so you just told me to buy condoms but I would look like I have a lot of sex?

    • u didn't say anything about trying to look like don't have sex a lot so I didn't think about that

  • just buy some yourself

  • bring your own condoms, don't count on the guy to bring them

  • i wouldn't assume you had sex all the time, especially if the box was unopened. I would assume that you may have just bought it for me.

  • Get them yourself. If you tell him to bring them, there may be expectations inferred from that.

    • @Update: Not necessarily. Or maybe that you're adimate about safer sex?

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