Should I tell my boyfriend how to give oral?

[justhat1chick]

OK he is older and more experienced than me I expected something way better than what he put out. then later he told me I'm the second girl he has gone down on. he chooses to go down on me, I don't force him or even ask him to do it. I don't even give any signs that I want it. he just does it. he doesn't hurt me or anything its just like he just licks me like he is licking a ice cream or something it is not bad it is just not good he is awesome with everything else. like it matters but not a lot, its the thought that counts (for me haha). he just kinda sucks wen it comes down to oral so should I teach him, what I like at least? add a comment of how I can go about telling/teaching him. i know what to teach just not how

[Allegory]

Yes, talk teach him not "how to give oral" but "how to give oral to you" everyone is different and that's the way to talk about it. Trust me if he is a good guy he wants you to tell him just not bash him over the head with "Hey stupid didn't anyone ever teach you anything".

Every guy worth their salt wants to please their girl every time just get tired, confused or distracted by all the responsibilities guys have during sex.

Help the dude out with a smile and some incite.

[l-hedoniste]

"so should I teach him, what I like"

Always.

Always-always-always-always-always.

It doesn't matter how experienced he is, how many he's gone done on, how good he his been with someone else. He's with YOU now, so he needs to get right with YOU.

If you need him to hum "God Save the Queen" into your cl*t, you tell him. If he's smart, he'll do it, no questions, and smile.

[bbgirl]

guys don't want to feel like they are bad at what they are doing but keeping it to yourself is a cheat for you.

here's what I do to get my boyfriend to change up something I don't like... tell him that you were fantasizing about him giving you oral and that you were (say how you want it) use details and dirty talk to him. then end it by saying maybe we can try it.

he'll be turned on that you were fantasizing about him and the dirty talk too. lol.

[MrWizard]

Definitely give him some pointers on what works for you. Sex is about learning together. No one can be expected to be mind readers about what their partner wants. I like bbgirl's suggestion about turning your comments into some dirty fantasy talk.

[CuriousEddie]

Did you end up teaching him?

I think you should... you know what you want, and I think it would be erotic to be told what to do be a confident, even dominant woman... but maybe that's just me! ;)

[justhat1chick]

Yes I did =]

[debsman]

It won't hurt to teach him how to properly use his tongue. Show him where your clit is and tell him to lick it lightly, or however you want it done. You could say, " if you really wanna make me cum, lick me here"...Pull up your clitoral hood and point to it. If he goes off course, tell him...a little higher or lower, etc.