Should I tell my boyfriend I masturbate?

I'm a virgin but I've masturbated for a while. However my boyfriend doesn't know. The last time he asked I hadn't started but he recently asked again and I'm kind of embarrassed >.< should I or shouldn't I tell him? Guys would it make you happy if your girlfriend told you?
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  • I think talking about it openly shows that you are open. It would make me more comfortable to talk to you about things concerning sex. I think we should as a whole be more open with people about sex and not be so embarrassed. I believe everyone masturbates, its a normal healthy thing to do. it also lets him know that you know your body and means he can ask you what you like and hopefully make foreplay and sex more enjoyable for you both

  • Do you think about him when you're masturbating? If the answer is yes he would be really turned on by it. You might even consider putting on a show for each other.

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  • Girls masturbating is hot

  • Guys are so f***ing weird they actually think that is hot >_>

    • i am left without words if you really meant the above comment. it is beyond hot

  • Why would you NOT tell him? It'd perfectly normal.

  • Sure tell him, he'll probably like knowing that.

  • tell him he would be glad to know that ..

  • I assume all girls masturbate even if they tell me they don't... not really a big deal

  • Don't just tell him! SHOW him! ;-)

  • look if you want to stay a virgin don't do it. Once you tell him you're doing it he's going to want it unless you plan on giving it to him. my advice to you what he don't know won't hurt

    • Well right now we're doing long distance so it's not happening anytime soon and he said he'd wait until I was comfortable

  • YES!

    The fact that you masturbate is hot. When you tell him, he's going to be forced to visualize you doing it, and that will turn him on.

    Tell him, you'll be happy you did, it's no big deal.

  • The thought of it would be arousing, because I would know that you enjoy that sort of thing and probably want to have sex some day. However, the fact that you masturbate is completely irrelevant.

    • Irrelevant to what?

    • To the relationship or my feelings. Masturbate all you want.

    • Oh OK lol yeah I know that tho ha ha that would be weird if my masturbating or not changed his feelings for me