Should I use my homemade dildo, formed from Ex's penis?

[CollegeGirl21]

OK, when I was with my Ex boyfriend we bought a dildo maker, which if you do not know, it is where you put in erect penis in a mold and can make a dildo out of the mold. So I still have this dildo, so would it be weird to still use it for pleasuring myself? It is my only sex toy, and it works well, he had a nice penis, and I really do not want to lose the ability to pleasure myself, since I cannot get off on just my hands.

[Binary_Illusion]

I don't think you should.

You guys separated for a reason, and I thinking using a dildo made out of him will remind you of you guys making love. And you might want to go back to him, but for all of the wrong reasons. And I don't think you want to be hurt again... if you were in the first place.

X.X I know this is going to sounds weird, and I'm going to get some looks xD

I would suggest going to a sex shop. WHAT?! Seriously, don't be afraid. The people that work there aren't sleazy at all. They know what they are talking about, are very mature, and they know what a good toy is when they see one. Ask a girl worker what she would suggest. They are there to help like any other employee, they just deal with sex toys. I wouldn't suggest walking out with a dildo in your hand xD Get a bag... Possibly a bag that's not see though.

Then just have fun.

[CollegeGirl21]

Yah I actually went to a sexshop before with some coworkers, and they all got vibrators, I did not at the time.

[Binary_Illusion]

I heard that the soft ones... the flesh feeling ones aren't good because they are porous. This means that you have to clean them very well because they get the well for the lack of a better word, your juices, and other things in them. And then it gets dirty, and might give you a yeast infection. Don't want that xD

[CollegeGirl21]

Lol thanks for the heads up, maybe that's a sign to stick with using a real penis :)

[Binary_Illusion]

Well sometimes you just not ready for a relationship. And I think women above all else know how to pleasure themselves. I've heard as early as 4 years old girls start to masturbate, and explore their body. So you guys should really know what you like, and dislike. I hear that most girl start when they start to menstruate though. But explore their nether regions earlier than that.

[here4you]

just don't think its ur ex when ur having "fun"

cause then you'll get some feelings back and want

him back

and you guys broke up for a reason and don't want that to happen again

right?

[CollegeGirl21]

Yah, but I still have a physical attraction to him, just we were headed different ways in life.

[sexycrystal54313]

I think you should probably try to go and get a new one, I agree with everyone so far in saying that you may attach old feelings with the toy and that may make you want to rekindle that old flame

[Anonymous]

i think you should get a new one... I think once in awhile it might remind you of him and you don't want that now do you?

[Anonymous]

Get rid of at and never date another guy while you have it major insult

[mav0502]

nothing wrong with it really. I say go for it and probably also buy a vibrator too. usually they are better for helping you orgasm anyway.

[afgsb21]

Go for it!

[adorkabletmtm]

Lol, no one will know. Well, us. But we don't know you.

[Kidkaos77]

Well if you do use it, it'll make you think about your ex every time. If that's not a problem then no big deal. If it is, id trash it and buy a new one.

[Anonymous]

If you keep it never tell your next boyfriend what it's molded from, he will freak out

[Anonymous]

If you didn't think so much about it being him then I don't think it would be a problem. Just try not to attach the old feelings with the toy.