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Shower Sex?

What does everyone think about sex in the shower? It's one of my favorite locations for sex. I especially like to sneak up on my girl when she doesn't expect it. I'll sneak into the bathroom real quiet get undressed and open the shower door and grab her around the waist. To me It's more fun when it's spontaneous. Some of the women I've been with though have complained that sex in the shower should be quick because the water actually washes away their natural lubrication downstairs and makes it more painful. Is this true or were they just BS'ing me?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes water does wash away the natural lubrication but I'm not entirely sure how that would be all that relevant in a shower. In a bath, pool, ocean, or hot tub yes. In those situations you're basically submerged. Or at least the "critical area" is, lol. So yeah in those situations, the natural lubrication is washed away and it can quickly become uncomfortable. But in a shower I don't see how in the world the lubrication is washed away because the water isn't going INSIDE and any "lubrication" that has already slipped out of her body and is washed away is now useless anyway! I'd think they are not BSing you because they probably have heard this about the lubrication being washed away and just never thought that far about it to realize that it probably doesn't apply in the shower for the above stated reason. And if they have tried it, the positioning and everything could have contributed to discomfort, fueling their opinion on the subject.

    Personally I am NOT a fan of sex in the shower. It has it's advantages but positioning is often not all that great. Maybe some of this is due to the fact that guys are usually much taller than girls so things don't really line up properly to be trying to stand up anyway and trying to do it can be uncomfy. Not to mention that if that's the case, she's probably trying to tippy toe or who knows what else to make things a little more. . even?. . I don't know what to call it, lol. But you get my point. Trying to tippy toe in the shower, while having sex is not only uncomfy, but downright dangerous. And no matter even if he takes the initiative for the height difference and crouches or whatever is needed to make it easier on me, I'm still constantly paranoid about falling which makes it IMPOSSIBLE for me to concentrate on what I'm doing and most females can't climax without a certain amount of concentration. It's not just physical for us.

    It is nice on a very rare occasion. I will even go so far as to initiate it on a rare occasion. Yes it's nice that you can be dirty while still getting clean. Yes being all slippery and wet is kinda exciting. But for overall enjoyment. . . not so much! If I do it I generally expect/want a quickie that just sorta fuels my sexual appetite as opposed to satisfying it. Get me charged up for more to come later kind of thing.

    And yes, if you have issues with "that time of the month" shower sex can be a good solution for that. It's not an issue now but my guy never had issue with it but I did and I know some guys do too. So it's a probably a better solution than no sex for a whole week every month!

    And there is the benefit of being able to "clean up" after sex. Personally I LOVE sex but hate how I feel after. Being married we don't use condoms so it's. . messy. . lol. And condoms or not, you're all sweaty after. I dunno. I just don't like it. I would shower after sex every time if it wouldn't offend my husband, lol. So shower sex is nice for that reason! But I still say no overall.

    • You really put thought into this answer, haha! Great answer.

    • Thanks! It's a blessing and a curse, lol. I tend to put a lot of thought into things that interest me and sex has always been high on that list! Ha ha.

  • During my period it is fun to have sex in the shower. Have a large one which makes positioning much easier than the normal shower. Can have sex at this time of the month and no mess

  • It can sometimes, but it doesn't always. I would trust them when they say that. I think sex in the shower is fun, but I'm not in love with it. It's a bit awkward for positioning.

    • Sex in the shower is fun. I'll agree with that!

Most Helpful Guys

  • I really enjoy it! But for me it is better as a quick thing or as foreplay. It is very sexy with the water and soap and etc. but as others have said hard for positioning. Definitely fun and a good time!

  • The water washing away the lube really does suck and unless you have big shower, positioning can be dangerous and uncomfortable.

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  • Actually, the water DOES wash away the natural lubrication. Being "wet" with water is MUCH different than your bodies own natural lubrication. Like the difference between water and oil. I truly enjoy the idea of being intimate in the shower. However, you may need to bring some store bought lubrication.

  • I LOVE IT!

    I just find it sexier when water is running down everywhere and you can be dirty and still be clean!

    • Definitely. What can be sexier with a girl in the shower!

  • I am a big fan of shower sex. But positioning can be hard.

    • Same here. The feeling is awesome!

  • It's cool. I enjoy it.

    • I agree. For me it feels really good, and sensual. Just the feeling of being with a girl in the shower is awesome itself!

  • Pools are better. more spacious.

    • Hell yea! : D

  • My boyfriend has invited me to go into the shower with him and I told him if he asked me again I'm breaking up with him. however, I am really thinking about it. It sounds like fun. I am a virgin however, so it will HURT.

    • I would not choose the shower for your first time... It is definitely fun! But if you are gonna shower together I would suggest using it as a sort of foreplay to lead into sex.

  • I love it. I just wish I had more opportunities to have it with my boyfriend. we haven't been able to do it in like a year because we don't live together. but I definitely loved it. I can't wait until he and I move in together :) as for those girls that said it was painful and stuff; they're BS'ing you because the water adds lubricants, not washing it alll away

    • I hate to break it to you sweetie but it is a MEDICAL FACT that sex in water washes away the lubrication.

    • I was meaning that the water acts as a lubricant.

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