Small Penis

I have a small penis and I know it! Its about 41/2 inches long when hard as a rock. Now I have no delusions on what that means for me but I also know that I make my fiance Cum & Orgasm every time we make love. And I have also never herd any complainants from my ex's either I know how to please a woman weather it is with my penis or not! The reason I post this is that I just wanna see peoples reaction, some woman are whores and a penis like mine wouldn't even touch them. I'm under average and I'm sure some women have never even seen one that small. Its a hard thing to live with and deal with, always afraid someone is going to see my small penis but w/e nothing will ever change what I got down there. It also creates fear because what if I get a divorce how am I ever going to please other women when I'm in my 30's or 40's. my question is: Is there women out there who have a man with a penis like mine and enjoy it every time or is it that deep down inside you still crave a big 8 incher. ? Let me know ladies =)
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Ok the whore thing is a little harsh and I do apologize. Sry Ladies! I guess what I'm trying to get out of this is just to see what people think.
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  • Ok, now I know before you even read what I'm about to say, your gonna thing, "WTF he's a guy, whatever". But no. I'm a straight male and know a lot about women. And I'm telling you that a smaller penis means ALOT of pleasure for a female. See, the thing is, the G-Spot is only about 2-3 inches in on the upper vaginal wall. Dude, ALL YOU NEED IS A 3 INCH PENIS TO GIVE WOMEN ORGASMS! I think that your not afraid of not pleasing a woman, but I believe that you just have a lack in confidence because of the size of it. Don't worry! And plus, girth is more important that length! Why would you want a bigger penis? Trust me, I have an above average one (7"), sure girls compliment the size, but yours can do everything mine can! Not to mention, women are particularly "turned on" by the look of a penis. They usually think it's rather ugly. It's the pleasure they derive from it inside of them that counts! Also, women can barely feel anything that's deep in their vagina, all of the nerves are up front, so buddy, your all set up!

    • That is very insightful of you and I don't believe that I have ever heard such an up lifting and true statement in my life on the subject.... How old are you??? Anywho thanks bro and no I don't think your a fag or some stupid shit like that! Its only ignorant people that would take what you said and turn it around into something negative!

    • Haha, I'm 17. But I'm ehh...sexually knowledgable. I'm basically a sex guru because I've always been fascinated by sex. So, I basically have researched everything on the subject. Hell, I know more about the anatomy of a vagina than most women do, to be honest! But yea, don't be self-conscious because of your penis size. Like I said, I'm above average and it HURTS women somtimes.....it sucks! But, yours won't hurt them and it stimulates that golden spot just perfectly! Good luck!

    • Read the girls response to the question about "do they like to get pounded?" You're not going to do any pounding with a pinky sized d***. And yes, if she's had a man sized d*** she'll crave it forever. I think the guys probably best off marrying a small virgin girl. And if he ever does look for a partner in his 30s he'll be hard pressed for sure. That said, there is someone for everyone its just that having a big d*** gives you more options. Life is not fair for sure.

  • Dude, I'm not too keen on the 'some women are whores' bit. Some women like large penises; that's just life. Pouring scorn on them for that preference won't make you happy in the long run. Just compensate with superior skill -- giving a g-spot orgasm with your fingers will work wonders. You could even try fisting or something.

    Besides, you'll also find some women prefer small ones, because they're sensitive down there.

    Peace out.

    • Thanks! Fisting wow f*** that, if I was with a woman that needed a fist to get off no thanks!!!! Anywho you are rite about the whore thing it a bit hard and misdirected and yeah I agree with you 100% thanks again

Most Helpful Girls

  • Hey, what are you worried about? You have a woman who loves you and are getting married and you can please her. That's all that counts. And WTH kinda question are you asking about if you may get divorced? If you feel this way, maybe you shouldn't get married. But you found someone who loves you for you. Women don't only care about penis size. Sure, it's nice if a guy happens to have one, but other qualities matter way more. I can understand it is probably a hard hand to be dealt in life if you're a guy. Society seems to emphasize that big penis means better man. Very stupid, I would take a man with a small penis who was a good guy over an asshole with a big penis. At least women with small breasts can get their boobs done or wear padded bras. Don't worry about it, you're an awesome person and that matters way more than a nasty penis. LOL

    • He should be worried. We do not all just married for money because we have no other option. Do not compare your self with other women.

    • @bijbee and no self respecting woman bases their happiness off of sex alone…your point?

  • the fact that you have a fiance shows that you don't have anything to worry about. and honestly, if a girl tells you that your not big enough then your too good for her because that's just wrong. the fact that you have a girl and stuff, your most likely a good guy and have other qualites that balance out what you thiink you lack. just because a guy lacks in that department doesn't make them any less of a man in my opinion. my guy is rather large but even if he wasnt, then I wouldn't love him any less because he's an amazing person. just don't turn into a jerk or anything and you shouldnt have any problem about it

    • Can I please ask you to look at my other question... I Only have 2 up so far! But the other one is important and this one was just for shit and giggles! Thanks

    • 4 1/2 isn’t really lacking though…if he was below 4 that’d be lacking

  • My guy is rather small and I love it! We haven't had sex yet but when I give him head it's really easy to deep throat him. I don't think of him any less for having a smaller one. It's not like he can say magic words and he'll have a bigger package. Don't berate yourself for something you can't help. You probably fit your fiance perfectly!

    • When you say your bf is small, how small. Most girls and say anything under 5" is small. Where as I'm only 3 1/2 myself.

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  • You'd be a little small for my taste. But I have girlfriends who would love you. There's really nothing to worry about.

    • That’s fair, though objectively speaking that’s not small.

  • Can you say more about your small penis?🍤

    • may I please? I have much smaller

    • He doesn’t have a small penis…

  • Just because a penis like yours wouldn't touch them doesn't mean they're whores. They just prefer bigger penises. Congrats on not having someone say anything negative about it.

    I know a few women who don't mind being with a guy your size. They may crave something bigger. I know I would want something bigger.

    • That is a bit rough to say lol

    • because you're a whore

    • 4 1/2 inches is basically average, if a woman can’t feel average then she’s got a problem

  • My ex had a rather large dick and I actually didn't like that. It scared me the first time I saw it. I did not find his big one appealing as its just more to manage and as someone said it can hurt. My present boyfriend has a smaller one and I actually look forward to pleasuring I'm unlike with my ex. I don't actually know how big you are as I only think in cm.

    • 4.5 is like 11.5 cm…

  • 4 1/2 is fine if you know how to use it. My previous boyfriend penis was about that length. He was great in bed and yes I would cum with his penis. For me size is overrated. He could go a long time. Had a boyfriend who was 6.5" but told his buddies he was 8 inches. I thought he was over 7 but after measuring it was actually 6.5 inches. He was not good in bed. He would often cum in under 2 minutes and was selfish in bed. Almost never has a orgasm with him.

    • @fitcarmen what if he doesn’t know how to use it?

  • Althought I'm 15 I like to think of myself as a lover expert lol so I think it doesn't matter about the size it's really about how you give to her I think when making love you should put all your effort into it shows how much you care 😜

    • Yes, you are just 15. That is clear. Grow up.

  • Bro, I have a small one too, but it's fine.

    only the girls who have high standards would refuse a guy for having a small dick (and trust me, if she laughs at you or dumps you for a small dick, then she would have destroyed your bank account in no time, that's not to say women who prefer bigger ones can't be good, just the ones who only like guys with 8+ inch ones)

    buddy, it's the 21st century, the age of sex toys, crazy sexual acts and fetishes, if you get a girl nice and wet enough, seduce her and send her crazy, then no matter what the size of your junk, she won't give a damn, and in a relationship it's the same thing, she knows your dick is small, if she didn't want to be with a small dick guy she would never have gotten into a serious relationship with you in the first place.

  • if you can please a lady, that's the only thing that matters.really

    • ;)

  • 20.5 inches long is huge man

  • there's a doctor in Beverly hills that can make your penis bigger look him up on google Beverly hills penis enlargement doctor

  • i'm 4 inches never got a compliant so far

  • My penis is smaller and i have had some people joke about it or be mean to me. Ypu can't fault people for their person preference. One girl i liked told her friends that our sex was bad and my penis was tiny. They laughed and it was all good. It worked out well for me. They both becane curious and interested in hoe small both of her friends were calling me and we had great relationships and very sexual tines
    My ex still after years hasn't found a good guy and over these last years the two friends and I have had terriffic sex and occasionally still do. And i have a son with one of them.

  • I teased my ex about having a small penis because he would go on about my age. I'm two years older than him but apparently that's old to him.
    Really I loved having sex with him and it felt so good better than any big duck I had. He is about 5 inches I prob gave him a complex but what I said wasn't true and I only like small Willy now

    On another note doesn't make a woman a whore if they like big dick

    • 5 in is average though