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Small penis!

I just started dating a guy about a month ago and recently we had sex. I knew how small he was prior to actually having sex with him because we've been fooling around. I was really concerned initially because he is small. Well, length wise he's average, about 5 inches (or maybe a little less) but it's the girth that bothers me. It's literally the size of 2 fingers. I thought to give him benefit of the doubt and thinking that perhaps his "skills" will make up for it. Well, it hasn't. and the fact that without the girth, I just can't be completely satisfied. it's hard to feel him. I do like him and wants to continue to go out with him. But I'm also a very sexual person and needs to be satisfied in bed. I'm considering introducing some toys in the bedroom (a conversation that I'll have with him further down the line). I'm not sure how to go about asking him or bring it up. Any suggestions?
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  • My scientific under standing of this, is that the vigina contracts to the size of the penis, so complaining about girth sound weird. Also no mans dick is as big as a babys head, and women who have given birth are still able to achieve orgasim. So, I'm not total sure about the scientific.

    There are some kinda trick for penis size and sex, horses and courses stuff. Big dick short vigina and woman laying belly down man on top. Small penis and its normaly doggy style for max penitration, but girth? Again going with the scientific thinking, the vigina can be extra sensative one side, (nomally the inside part facing the belly) maybe its that what your missing. ie you're use to a dick filling you up and by size hitting the right spot.

    So my comment for what its worth, if you havent, before trying the toys, try playing around more with sexual positions, see what's best. And again if your not vocal during sex, then be so, say what you want and how. Having typed that, made me think, of all the women who I've sleeped with, after a month you settle into a favourite position, and its never the same. May you just need to figure out which way to fit the two pieces of jigsaw together?

    • Thanks for your response. personally, to me the length really doesn't matter too much. it's the girth that matters. I think most females would agree with me. we like that filled and stretched feeling.

    • There is such thing as too big though. and id personally rather not feel like I'm being stretched when I'm having sex that doesn't sound comfortable to me

    • My sister's a doctor, She told me that its only the first inch and a half of the vigina that is sensitive, so the idea penis is short and fat. Her husband looked up from the newspaper and said, "are you telling me, a can of tuna is the ideal penis."

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  • Chances are, he's quite aware that he's a little on the small side, and most likely would be very defensive of the whole issue. If you introduce the toy idea in the right way you may be ok, but be very careful about your wording. If he gets any idea a vibrator is a substitute for him, you'll be in trouble. Even the size of the vibrator could be an issue. If you get a great big one, he could easily get freaked by it.

    Maybe find some porn where there are some toys involved, and let him know that it looks like fun. If he takes the hint, you're home free!

    • You know what's funny? I think he's somewhat delusional because he once told me that he can beat most guys in that department before we got intimate. I saw it and I was thinking.. are you kidding me.

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  • Just see to it that he learns how to pleasure and satisfy you orally to the point that he can make you come every time until you're totally fulfilled. There's no reason he can't satisfy you that way and other ways too, with toys like you said. You can satisfy him by giving him a hj or stuff like that, but the toys idea sounds great to me if you teach him how to use them on you. Good luck!

  • Oh the poor guy.that must be difficult to deal with, not sure what to suggest hun, looks like it could be a struggle to enjoy this with him without it becoming a problem. As for sex toys, I would slowly ask that one, he may take offence.

    • I was kind of thinking he can perhaps wear a sleeve or some sort to increase his girth. I mean, having sex with him was like being poked by fingers! might as well, use actual fingers to save him the hassle...

  • i don't know about you, but where I'm from, 5" to 5.5" seem to be the norm :( I tried getting on with a big guy once (about 8" I think) and he spent the night giving himself a handjob because I can't take that much in me!

  • I think you two just need to try different moves that might "simulate" a bigger penis for you.

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  • well, there are these like penis strap ons for guys that you could take a look at. He just puts it on top of his d***, and then has sex with you. you guys could come up with some sort of compromise if you want, its up to you but I'm just putting it out there.

  • I read an article that the doggy style position (namely with your head on the pillow and your ass up), serves to elongate the vagina, and in the process, make it more narrow, thus helping you feel more "full" with said guy's penis (or lack of).

  • well just tell him the truth be open

  • maybe (now this is just a suggestion, I've never tried it or anything) you put your fingers inside of you while he is in you to make you feel like he has a bigger girth

  • defr bring up the toys idea.there are also "lenghteners" etc that he can put on to make him bigger.id also suggest that you train him to tongue your p**** and make you come FIRST, then him

    • Yeah, good idea to tongue me first all the time whenever we try having sex so that I come first, and then like you said, see what I can do to get him to come. a guy should be doing that anyhow before he starts having sex, so yeah.

    • "happy wife=ha[[y life"....little known secret that if you please a woman, you'll get more than you asked for in return ;-) ...my philosophy anyways

  • If it is curved (because of scar tissue) that would affect his length and girth, making it not all that it's supposed to be. There is a non surgical way to fix that. If it's straight then just try laying on your back with your legs/feet by your head. You will feel it more.

  • two of ur fingers or his? what's the girth?

  • lol I got it... get the biggest black plastic dildo you can find at a local porn shop and tell him to use it on you... because you need to cum like niagara falls! if he gets afraid then that means he isn't gay and you can train him. seems like you are the leader in this... good luck hun!

  • yea dude when in doubt bring in the toys lol

  • Lol at least your jaw won't hurt when you blow him. :D
    Thinking positive

  • Toys.?

    Lol, ask him to do some things like those pills and what not,

    but don't just put it all on him, you try something new too!

    • What? she has a saggy minge, so he is expected to waste his money on pills that aren't going to work just to satisfy this bucket crotched slut? are you for real?

  • I think you should be a little shallow and dump him for good... He deserves better!
    You want a BBC? Then go and find it cause if you are not satisfied with his size then you obviously gonna cheat on him... as you are not getting satisfied... There is nothing he can do to increase his size in a non - surgical way!

  • size shouldn't matter,

    If you are aroused prior to it, you should be satisfied. :)

  • omg your awful lady I have read every single comment you made and to be honest I don't think you deserve this guy or maybe your a slut how big do you need it I have had sex with many girls and I am about 5.5-6 inches long and 5 inches in girth are you saying I'm to small too? and every girl I have been with has said its been perfect length not to big and not to small he can't help what he has so all your jokes your saying on here might wind you up single and you know what I hope it does

    • She'll either wind up single or extremely happy with a big dic'd lover who can pound her like she needs to be pounded. Don't hate on her just because she's unsatisfied. She just really should dump the guy because at this rate its inevitable and she'll stray eventually anyway.

    • People have preferences and there's nothing wrong with that. No one is obligated to like a small penis or anything else. If she's unsatisfied with it, she should go for something else. That's why people have the freedom to choose. And besides... wind up single is not necessarily a bad thing.

  • Reach down and stick a finger or two in there beside his dick.

  • what is his girth in inches? and what do you consider is a good girth?

  • not a suggestion but what size condom does he use if he is that small

  • When you tell him, say all these other amazing stuff he does. Lie if you have to but make him feel good!

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