So, I accidentally flashed my roommate by accident.. What do I do?

I had a rough day at work, came home, showered and changed for bed and opened a bottle of wine... I generally just wear a mens XXL t-shirt to bed, but it comes down to my knees.. We were all watching tv, and my boyfriend and I started tickling and play fighting, and well, I got all sprawled out and the shirt raised really far up.. I didn't even realize until she blurted out that I was exposing myself.. I'm so embarrassed, I got up and ran out, and now I don't know what to say to her... I
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Was it inappropriate? Yes. But it was also accidental, and I'm sure she realizes that. Plus, seeing another woman naked isn't going to scar her for life or anything. Just be a little more respectful around her in the future. If you're going to be out in the common area, put on a realistic amount of clothes, and keep the grab-ass to a minimum. That's what your bedroom is for.

  • Just tell her the truth. It was an accident and you'll do your best to not let it happen again. It probably seems worse in the moment than you'll think later. She only blurted it out probably because she knew that would get your attention I doubt she's too mad at you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • who cares she's a girl, girls don't care about boobs and stuff its a good thing you didn't flash a guy because that would be even more awkward.

    i think another problem here is that may be your roomate feels annoyed that your boyfriend is over? because you guys were cuddling and showing pda and stuff so she's probably frustrated.

    • He lives there too.. and usually, we're pretty good about that :/

  • Its not like she hasn't seen a pair of breasts before, I'm sure itll be fine, unless she is an immature roommate who will make fun of you every time she sees you because you flashed her by accident.

    • or its not like she hasn't seen a vagina before either. come'on, lets be mature now.

  • you can respond with "hey, I'm really sorry about the other night. I'll make sure it doesn't happen again!"

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  • Just tell her (when alone) : "Gosh, I am so embarrassed about the last night! I hope you will forgive me someday." If she is a reasonable girl, she will tell you:"Forget it. It was nothing. Don't worry about it."

    If she goes on and on about it, then just become a little aloof and distant since it was no big deal.

  • Ignore it and it'll go away. And mind your posture in future. ;)

  • What's the big deal? You both have vaginas?

  • It's not a big deal. At all.

  • It's just titties lol. Why would she care, she has a pair too.

    • She never said what she had underneath the shirt.

    • no, it was downstairs that was exposed :/

    • It's just a vagina. She has one too :). Now you can talk to each other about vagina piercings or something.

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  • She's a girl too, no big deal. Just be chill about it and don't make it awkward, laugh it off. It if was the opposite gender, then I would be mortified. Girls and guys take communal showers all the time, it's really no biggie.

  • You could say 'Ooops, my bad, I thought you were leading me on.' Haha I'd say just laugh about it and forget it.

  • I realize you normally go to bed in just the shirt, but if your roommate was in the room with you, why didn't you have anything on?

    • the shirt is long.. it covers me.. well, usually :/ I had a rough day, and just wanted to be comfy and ready for bed.. it isn't the first time I've worn this about, just the first time there was an incident

    • Eh, honestly don't worry about it.

  • Lol why were you half naked tickling your boyfriend with another person in the room?

    • no offense, I just thought it was funny

    • I was ready for bed.. and we were watching tv.. a poke turned into a tickle and it got way out of hand...

    • I'm sure your roommate will understand She probably already forgot about it

  • haha

  • not a big deal at all, drama queen lol

  • act like nothing happened.

    • uh...yeah...

  • "sorry" usually works...lol...you did not kill anyone...On any given day I would not mind if that was the worst thing that happened to me...yeah ik...I am male...I like the way you look so seeing you nude would make my day not ruin it...but that is not what I meant...if I saw my roommates d*ck...would certainly not make my day...but would certainly not ruin it either...

  • its not a big deal.. Today I stripped down to my boxers in the middle of a parking lot. no big deal

    • Just because?

    • i was going fishing needed to get my waders on

    • oh god

  • This isn't a big deal. You should see the men's locker room.

  • Sorry. Is it really that big of a deal? It's not like you flashed your BF's best friend.

    • lol At the thumbs down. I should have put sorry in quotes because that was what I thought you should say.

  • I am sure your friend will forget so no worries.

  • Well seeing as how she's a girl. Its nothing she hasn't seen before..Why is it such a big deal? If your comfortable enough to live with her it shouldn't be an issue.

    • I haven't known her that long, she needed a room mate, and we needed a place to live..

    • I think your over reacting about this...Talk to her aout it or appologize.

  • It's a vagina, we all have them...it's not a big deal. She sees her own every day.