you just said you just lay there...and you hate getting on top cause you think you're bad and you can't satisfy them. ummm excuse me! you said you're bad in bed! I'm not trying to sound like a bitch! but in a way you have nothing to lose. you can suck it up and go on top, you could be bad or you could be good! but that's better than no going on top or doing work at all! and I mean, even if you embarrassed yourself on top, you wouldve been awkward around the guy anyways! so give it a shot! you said you wanted it crazy and exciting! don't stop yourself cause you scared! still got nothing to lose
I don't see where she says she just lays there. I hate being on top too. That position is lame! When he's on top, I do just as much work. I buck my hips and meet his thrusts, use my legs, kiss, run my nails down his back. Its fun meeting his thrusts and staying in unison. We do Missionary, doggy, standing, everything except girl on top. Nothing wrong with that.
Before I became sexually active,I used to watch tonnes of hard core p*rn.I also started late,lost my virginity at 29.So I was super horny all the time and turned into this crazy freak in bed.I applied every p*rn move that I had in my memory to my partner and focused on pleasing him to such a level that they become addicted to it. Lose all your inhibitions while having sex,talk dirty, tell him what you want him to do to your body. I let my body and senses (visual,taste,touch etc) take over...
Don't do this! Every girl knows p*rn is for entertainment. Its all about positions that show action. They don't work. Even p*rn stars will tell you off camera sex is different. Jenna Jamesons favorite position is Missionary, on camera she's always doing doggy and all these yoga positions.
They are woking great for me:) Not difficult at all. But I again everyone is different.
Don't stress most likely guys you have went to bed with watch to much p*rn and have way to much expatiations of any female them girls are faking there not into that crap but young men feel that how it's should be or it's not good.
I am sure you are great in bed with the right man. I have never been with a girl who was bad in bed some that prefer to get silly or wild because they seen to much p*rn or most are just more passionate lovers so don't stress I'm sure you are passionate in bed and that will mean a lot to the right guy so don't go wild to please they man please yourself first
I don't agree with you "merits a useless existence" If you were my female...I would expect you to be worth a lot to me outside of sex. I am puzzled however...Have you done only intercourse...what about oral?
Anything kinky...I cannot imagine how I would get into bed with you one time and arrive at the conclusion that you were no good in bed..besides aren't we supposed to teach each other?
this is true. but EXPLAIN to me why all the guys I've been with don't seek me out afterward like they previously did. I'm a confident intelligent person. but THIS just kills me. and turns me into someone I'm not. unsure and sad. and omg this sounds pathetic. and yea I don't mind giving head I like to
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we can say 5 and yes I guess. I mean sex feels good but I've never had a legit orgasm from any of them. and I HATE getting on top. I mean I know its a two way street but... i think I'm bad because I never feel like I satisfy them. I never usually get called the next day...not that its a big deal so I've developed a complex about this and decide to ignore every guy I have sex with. and then it seems awkward I mean lets face it. not being good in bed pretty much merits a useless existence
Sounds like you have a few issues. You can't orgasm, so it sounds like you're not getting comfortable with someone else or your sexuality. If you hate getting on top you're self conscious about your body... gonna have to let that go. You should relax about satisfying them. Focus on your own pleasure first and enjoying it. Men are easy to please, they'll get off if you seem into it. You probably seem aloof or not interested if you're ignoring them after. It's nothing you can't fix...
Are you confident in bed? Are you aggressive? How are you?
Just let yourself go and be free. Also choose your partner carefully. The problem may be with your partner and not yourself. You should be compatible. A compatible partner will make you feel loved and special and everything would fall into place.
Many guys like girls to take the initiative and be more aggressive. Unfortunately, many girls don't like to do this. Perhaps you're not being assertive enough?
sex is not about have both person reaching climax.. it involve more in the fantasy that both of you have.. if I'm not mistaken you have to identify your sexual fantasy.. once you know that then you will work it on and ul put your effort more on improving.. humans doesn't born with all the skills.. all the skill are learned and been practice before becoming expert.. learn, try and enjoy..
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