Sooo.. what if you have a (near to) flat chest?

I'm quite skinny and because of this I don't really have a full chest, I'm nearly flat (AA cup) So I guess this would be quite off-putting to guys, but I can't seem to gain weight either. Guys do flirt with me + stare at me, I have a pretty face and long legs but I keep thinking that they'd be turned off by my lack of cleavage (especially if they were to have sex with me)
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  • Here's what you have to remember: unless you're wearing a huge padded bra and some silicone chicken cutlets, any guy who spends 5 seconds looking at you is going to know that you aren't packing DDs in your bra. For the guys who have to have big boobs to be happy with a girl, they'll simply pass you by, and in most cases you'll never know they were there. But the guys who DO pay you attention (and there will be plenty) will already know how big your boobs are and they won't care.

    There ARE guys who specifically like and want smaller boobs, and there are a ton of guys who don't care either way. Some aren't "breast men" and are more interested in your ass or legs or whatever and don't really care what you've got on top, and many just like women however they are packaged, and will like what you've got because it's YOURS. So don't worry about it.

    Maybe you're familiar with p*rn star Teagan (Presley). She is a tiny little thing (4' 11") and became a huge star with only 32AAs. She later got implants and saw her demand fall off.

    More recently, Kacey Jordan (famously linked to Charlie Sheen, who paid her $30,000 for a weekend of sex) is a huge star, and she has As. Obviously a ton of guys find her attractive because she's a top-seller. That must men there are plenty of guys who can find a girl attractive even if she isn't a D-cup, right?

    Every guy has his own preferences, but the majority of guys like a much wider range of preferences than most girls seem to believe. Fear not, because there are plenty of men out there who will be more than happy with your body.

    As one of the girls said, the most important thing is that you aren't self-conscious, because THAT is a much bigger turn-off than the size of your boobs could ever be.

  • There's a lot of women happy with a "flat chest" and a lot of guys who find it very attractive.

    Here's a Literotica forum

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    But always remember that there is much more to any woman than her boobs... or butt!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Boobs are boobs

    And if he's about to have sex with you, he's already accepted your size and body

    Plus, loads of dudes LIKE thin girls. Mind you, most guys on here have negative attitudes towards it but there are PLENTY of guys who love thin girls.

    Yes, some guys do not like flat chests just as some guys do not like big boobs. However, guys who do not like flat chests avoid girls with flat chests and the same goes for the guys who don't like big boobs

    Do you have a nice ass? loads of dudes prefer an ass nowadays anyhow

    • Yes I guess I have a nice ass. I don't think it's enough to keep them interested though.

    • And boobs aren't gonna keep a guy interested if he's in it for the right reasons either...just sayin

    • Yeah you're right.

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  • It doesn't really matter. I'm an large A, small B cup size and my boyfriend loves it. However if you act insecure about it then that would be a turn off. If you have confidence in yourself then guys won't care. If the guy does care then he's just a jerk who doesn't deserve you anyway. Just be yourself, because that's really the sexiest thing about a girl. If she has the confidence to love herself. There's nothing wrong with small boobs.

    • Actually I think its cute if she's shy about her little breasts, hahaha.

  • God must be nice ide kill to be in your shoes. Victoria Secret has a bra called the bombshell that increases you two cup sizes and makes you look a lot bigger but its a little pricy so be prepared to spend. I'm sure they aren't turned off you just don't know how blessed you are.

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  • I tend to find B-D cup boobs, the best, but I've dated flat chested girls, too. Flat chested girls can be just as gorgeous as big-boobed girls. If you're pretty and confident them no guy is going to complain, unless he's an idiot. It's not off-putting to me at all.

  • Some guys prefer small breasts.

    A lot of guys don't care _that_ much - they'd pick a pretty slim girl with no breasts over an average looking or average (i.e. slightly chubby) one.

    Plenty of guys are in to your body shape.

    When they flirt with you and stare, they know what they're getting into.

    Relax about if you have sex - big breasts are hot in clothes where they are more noticeable, but any size breasts are fun naked.

    • I agree with most of it, but the last paragraph... I'd prefer smaller breasts clothed or naked! There's nothing that prevents small breasts from being sexy, feminine, alluring, attractive, etc!

    • Eddie, I sort of would as well, my point is, I -notice- big breasts walking around, even though I -like- small ones. But naked, they're all equally visible!

  • i have the same problem, except I'm a B cup, but to tell you the truth , when I'm out with my girlfriends, they all are curvier than me, and we go to clubs, most guys fall for me, so I guess it really depends on the guy

    • B cups aren't half as flat as an AA. But I get your point, thanks.

  • No...I love small breasts and would find you to be HOT!...(:(:(:

  • You're in the same boat as a guy with a small penis? You just have to learn to live with it.

  • The fact that they flirt and look at you shows you have NOTHING to worry about. Even if you're wearing a padded bra, guys know most skinny girls have small boobs. Just because yours are on the smaller side doesn't mean we won't find them just as hot as they suit your frame

  • A pretty face, long legs, tight ass and a beautifully skinny, sexy body...you sound gorgeous. :)

  • I can't speak for all men but boobies are boobies regardless of size. Being skinny, you are able to dress closer to naked without looking slutty. Since you are spare, dispense with the thick bra (you don't need one) and let your nipples show through. We all love perky nipples. I'd rather a AA with pokers than a D with bland flat nips.